Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

Later today I should be receiving my surgery date. I have been scouring this site acquiring all of the information I can. You all are valuable resources! I have been seeing a lot of people mention "head hunger". I know this might sound like a silly question, but can someone please explain it to me? How can you tell the difference between head hunger and real hunger? Thanks!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Head Hunger is simply your desire for food when you're not really hungry...it tends to happen to us sleevers, because your head is thinking that you have a full-sized stomach, when your stomach is actually 80 percent smaller. This usually happens months after you've started with solid foods, and it's typically the main cause of grazing. The best way to fight this is to keep healthy, small Snacks around, that won't fill the sleeve up too much.

Wish you the very best success!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Its the fat person in your head wanting pizza, burgers, nuggets, yommy taboo food. But your stomach is not hungry and won't have no part of it. So you will do alot of food porn. Lol

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

It's what got most of us here in the first place. You want to eat because it's been awhile since you've eaten, or you are sad, or you are tired, or you are craving something, or someone else is eating it, or any number of things besides the actual physical hunger your body uses to signal it's the right time to eat.

I hear a lot of people mention before surgery they were always starving and that's why they were overweight. I'm not saying they weren't, but I know from my own experience, i didn't go hungry a day in my life. You know why? Cause I gave into head hunger. I ate all the time. I could say I was hungry and that's why I ate and it was because my stomach was too big. That would be a lie. I ate because I enjoyed eating and that's why my stomach was too big. It's not some handicap we all have, having a stomach that's too large, that we have to eat all the time. No, the problem is we eat all the time and it makes our stomach too large. That's head hunger.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Others have explained what head hunger is. The trouble is recognizing it because it feels like real hunger. They say that if you are really hungry eating just about anything will "sound good" but if its head hunger the healthy foods won't be appealing. What I do is set meal and snack times and tell myself that if I heel hungry its all head hunger.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Today is my 9th day and I am really struggling. I tried to have my Protein shake in the morning and I should have divided it in two servings. Instead I drank it and tried to finish it as if I had a normal stomach. In my head I guess, i said to myself, it is liquid....it will empty out soon. Well, those last few sips were the death of me. I felt naseaus and low and behold, I threw up. Several times. So now, my tummy hurts from the force it had to do to throw up. So now I just want liquid, Water, barely anyway. It has been a rough day today.

Not to mention, this pureed stage is gross to me. I don't like seeing or tasting anything pureed. It either looks like barf or cat food to me. My mind is going nuts. I have no idea how in the world I am going to adjust to this new life. Like I said, today is not one of my better days.

Edited by Pac-woman

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am 8 months out from surgery, and for me, when I eat too many carbs, I get head hunger. For me it's my mind telling me I want to eat this or that (usually carbs, and not Protein and fruits & veggies). When I am careful with my carbs, I stay on my plan much easier. Head hunger is very real, and for me, only controlled when I stay away from too many carbs.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thank you all for your explanations! @@Pac-woman - I'm sorry that you are having such a difficult day. Keep your eye on the light at the end of the tunnel.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

When I get head hunger, and just can't escape it's nagging, I eat meat, chicken or pork first to fill me up and retrain my brain to associate meat with head hunger. After eating Protein, and I still have that nagging little voice, I will allow myself a small portion (remember I'm physically full from the protein), about 1/2 a coffee cup (a real coffee cup, not a Starbucks Grande!) of whatever I'm craving. I'm normally satisfied after that.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×