I Need Prayers

[slkesler 28]

I am fifty-four, single, and was banded in August 2013. I have finally maybe gotten to my green zone. I am a retired third grade teacher. I never dreamed I would have to retire so soon. I didn't want to stop at thirty years, but I had to because of my mental and physical health. I had gained so much weight (307 lbs.) and my job was so stressful even though my students were awesome. I was also dealing with precious parents who were in their late eighties. One was healthy and taking care of the unhealthy one with Alzheimer's . I was so depressed. I would not let anyone in my house because it was so embarrassing. I just didn't have the energy to do anything. I was diagnosed with an inactive thyroid, Vitamin D and B deficiency, sleep apnea, etc. I had my lap band done, but I had to pay for it out of pocket which has led to money problems. I have only lost about fifty pounds. It has been hard to exercise because of knee problems. I have happily had two knee surgeries and am improving every day. I am doing therapy and riding my recumbent bike. I still feel like I overeat at times and don't follow the rules as strictly as I should. I am a Christian and I definitely believe in prayer. I also need encouragement from people who TRULY understand. Thank you so much!!

[Band Aid mom 64]

Hi slkesler! I am schedule to banded in a month so I don't have any first hand experience yet with the band but I am more than willing to send prayers your way! I bet you find it much easier now that you are able to put some exercise in your routine. That always helps me get fired up and feel better too!

Best wishes for a successful new start after your surgeries!!

[JustWatchMe 7,117]

I'm glad you posted here. Stay connected and get support from us fellow travelers. I can't tell you how many days a word of encouragement from this site lifts me up.

[punkinvine 227]

SLKesler, You have my prayers. I am at 5+years from lap band. I too am retired. Well with a 90 year old mom and 3 about to be 4 grandkids 3 years old and under it is still pretty busy. I am currently at my goal wt but struggle with some stomach issues from time to time. I am currently eating a bland mushy to liquid diet for another day or so. Hopefully I will maintain a calm stomach during this food plan. I had my knees replaced in 05 and do very well with them. You have thyroid issues and vit. B and D . I have thyroid issues and ferritin level is low. I can say I am making progress and my blood work is better. You will get there it just takes time and trying different things to get your body to respond. Keep on the journey. YOU can do it!

[MarieMarie 346]

After years of looking after mom in her home, moving her to a retirement home etc. I had to put her in a Nursing Home last weekend. The sense of peace that she is safely looked after is helping me. Back to the gym and looking after ME. Even my boss sent me an email about my great work this week