Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

I'm a lttile freaked out. I had my LB surgery April 23rd. Did my week of clear fluids and one week of mushies. However, I am now eating everything and too much of it. I am chewing everything but still... i have NO restriction and feel like I'm back to my pre-op bad eating habits (less volume but still too much). Now I'm petrified i've done something to the band. I feel fine but I'm still worried. I know I will get the usual reprimands but anyone out there who has fallen off the wagon and lived to tell about it? I have my first fill June 4th in TJ. Do they do an xray or something so they can tell me if the band is OK?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

How, exactly, have you fallen off the wagon? Are you not following your doc's advice?

Remember, the time between surgery and your first fill are not designed for weight loss. It is designed for healing.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I felt exactly the same and only when I saw that there was absolutely no restriction before my first fill did I give myself a break. The band has not been filled as yet so it is just healing and is in place ready for your first fill and your restriction will come. Be patient. The healingis the important part and also the time for your mind to adjust to the change in eating habits.

Good luck, stick with it you are doing fine x

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

After the first couple of weeks I started eating anything I wanted. I've had steak, Pasta even (yikes) ice cream. I'm not eating until I'm bursting, and I am chewing until the food is mush, but I'm certainly able to eat more volume than I thought- and I'm definitely not going to be losing weight like this.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

thanks ukangel- made me feel better. so i'm not just "failing" yet another weightloss try? i cannot wait for my fill.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I just had my first fill and I don't feel much different than I did before the fill. Don't expect miracles right away! That's the thing about lap band -- it requires quite a bit of fiddling around until you reach the spot where you are going to steadily lose weight. I have tried hard to stick to three meals and 2 small Snacks in between. I don't overeat or eat bread, steak (too scared), fried food, etc. Frankly I am just afraid to try a lot of different things that I've heard can be difficult to toelrate. However, I definitely eat things I should not eat (such as sneaking half a candy bar, 2-3 potato chips, etc.). So I'm not perfect, but I am trying to use this time to really work on my eating habits. The band won't do it all for you.

Good luck!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm only 7 days post-op and I want to eat "real" food soooooo bad! The first couple of days I was satisfied with eating soupd, yogart, etc. but now I always feel hungry. I broke down yesterday and ate some popcorn I made for my son. I chewed it really fine and I didn't have any pain after I ate it and that scares me b/c now I'm thinking what else can I eat? I know I'm supposed to do Full liquids for another week and then pureed, , but I don't think I can take it anymore. I'm freaking tired of Soup, I want some food! Help!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was so glad to read this thread! I had my band surgery on 26th April and lost 9lbs the first week. I have lost nothing since and feel really upset about it. I can eat anything and everything now - except white bread. I have no restriction. Glad to hear I'm not the only one! I see my surgeon on 26 May and will hopefully get a fill, although I now realise that I might need more than one fill to start losing again. I didn't realise it would be so slow!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Until you have fills, you are wide open, so you will be able to eat more food. Once you start getting fills, you start noticing a difference.

I read this here a lot and I disagree. With the Vanguard band, you have a stoma opening that is somewhere between the size of a quarter and a half dollar. With the other band, someone else here said the opening is the size of a dime. How can there not be restriction? I have the larger (Vanguard) band and I felt restriction even before my first fill.

I also think that after weeks of liquid and mushie foods, most people will see a decrease in appetite because the stomach has shrunk somewhat.

Here's what I think: Some of the battle here (IMO, and not to sound all righteousy) is determing what is true hunger and what is head hunger.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I will get mine done soon. But, the menu's that my Dr. sent home with me are really strict for upto 10weeks post op. In fact he said no bread or milk for the rest of my life. and not to drink any fluids 30min before a meal and 60-90 minutes after a meal and then 3lt's of Water the rest of the time. The meals are 1oz of cream of wheat or puree vegi's x3 and x2 protien "mud" shakes. So, I'm not sure if the Dr. didn't give you such a diet or not?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

With the Vanguard band, you have a stoma opening that is somewhere between the size of a quarter and a half dollar. With the other band, someone else here said the opening is the size of a dime. How can there not be restriction?

The VG band is 13 cm (the smaller bands are 9 and 10 cm). Even taking into account the thickness of the stomach, a 13 cm band could not possibly create a stoma the size of a quarter. It could be that you had a very significant amount of fat accumulation within the band that created such a small stoma in your case.

However, in most cases, I would guess that the stoma is significantly larger and will be reduced to the sizes you describe only after a fill. A few days ago, without thinking, I swallowed a very large multi-Vitamin pill that is definitely larger than a dime. I slid right through without any restriction.

I think you may be the exception rather than the rule. According to the book "Lap Band for Life" by Dr. Ortiz, most patients will feel little to no restriction following placement of the band. The real restriction starts only after the first fill.

For the rest of you, though, who are eating whatever you are craving because of the lack of restriction, the book also quotes a study that shows that there is direct correlation between those who overeat after the band is placed and those who have unsatisfactory weight loss after one year. So even though you can eat almost anything, it is really important to resist the temptation as much as possible.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The reason you are supposed to be on liquids isn't for dieting purposes. It's because your stomach has to digest foods and it isn't supposed to be churning and digesting, it's supposed to be healing. You can't tell what's going on in there even if you are chewing well. The band needs to heal on the stomach and you could do damage way down the road from now by eating too quickly.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

NoWorry:

The VG band is 13 cm (the smaller bands are 9 and 10 cm). Even taking into account the thickness of the stomach, a 13 cm band could not possibly create a stoma the size of a quarter. It could be that you had a very significant amount of fat accumulation within the band that created such a small stoma in your case.

VERY interesting that you say this, because my surgeon actually told me that the opening was a bit smaller than the size of a half dollar. Now, several people here disagreed with this discussion about stoma sizes / the size of my opening. They said it had to be smaller. I think my surgeon is right – that it’s about the size of a half-dollar. But because of disagreements here (and not wanting to spread misinformation), I purposely said on this thread that the opening was “somewhere between the size of a quarter and a half dollar.”

Now, my surgeon also told me that most patietns have restriction with the initial banding. I think that’s a topic up for debate as well. You say that Dr. Ortiz indicates “most patients will feel little to no restriction following placement of the band.” Yet just the other day, someone here said that Dr. Ortiz is quoted as having said that 70 percent of newly-banded patients have enough restriction NOT to need a fill for 6 months.

This place can be so confusing sometimes. There seems to be a lot of contradictory info.

It could be that you had a very significant amount of fat accumulation within the band that created such a small stoma in your case.

Question - how do you get fat accumulation within the band? Isn't the band empty, until saline is injected? I'm confused.

I'm not sure if you are talking about surrounding abdominal fat that may be squeezing the band, but I carry most of my excess weight around my hips and lower half (vs. higher up, where the band is placed).

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • vsg.with.sharon

      Hey everyone!
      I’m new here! Looking for some friends! 🥰
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×