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Hi everyone, my name is Katie and I am a dwarf. I am 3'10" and 195 lbs. YES, I know wow. I gained most of the weight after high school which was 9 years ago. It is really hard for me to work out because of my stature and mobility issues. I have had my whole spine fused. I have already had lap-band which didn't work for me due to unknown reasons. Now 2 years later, I am having Gastric Sleeve. I came to this decision due the fact that I need to lose a lot of weight and that it is permanent. I'm looking for mentors that have gone through this procedure. I would love to get recipes or ideas from them and just be there to talk to. Thanks, Katie

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Hi Katie- I was sleeved August 15th and am so glad I did. The weight hasn't exactly fallen off but I figured out it's probably because I am not taking in enough calories. That's the first time I have ever had that problem! I am at the puréed stage but I get so full compared to when I was on the liquids. I wish you luck with your procedure. Do you have a date yet?

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First Thank you Mary for replying to my post. And No, I do not have a date yet. I have to see the Pulmonologist first, I have an appt on the 29th. I feel like it's a lifetime away. How many calories are you taking in? And who was your doctor? May I ask how much you have lost already?

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Hi Katie - as of today, I am down about 18 or 19 pounds. I increased my calories, so that seems to help. I was fine taking in about 700 calories, but I think my body thought I was starving myself, so I increased to 800 to 900 and it seems to be working, My Surgeon was Dr. Kane - he is out of Alexian Bros in Elk Grove plus he has offices in Hoffman Estates. The whole process takes time, because you have to see so many people before you can schedule, and my guy only did them every other Friday, so that's inconvenient, but what are you gonna do? We must jump through the hoops. I am just so glad I did this. It's so nice not to be hungry all the time and I really don't have cravings. I am totally off caffeine (the headache was horrible) and soda, 2 of my favorite things. I never thought I could survive without caffeine of soda- but once it's out of your system, it's easy.

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Oh wow small world. I'm seeing Dr. Guske he works with Dr. Kane. I cannot wait to not feel hungry most of the day. Congrats on the weight loss. Are you going to any post-surgical meetings? I think I will end up going but it's just a long drive to Hoffman Estates for me. But I know it will be worth the drive. Caffeine and Diet Pepsi is gonna be hard to be completely off of. I have cut down a lot but I get so sleepy early in the day without the caffeine. Which hospital did you end up going to? I know someone who works at St. Alexius so I hope I can have it there. And how long was your stay? I'm just wondering if it was 2 days like they say.

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Katie Where do you live? My name is Leesa abd I live in Romeoville (outside of Joliet). Was sleeved on 7/15/14 very pleased with results down 48 lbs woo hoo

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Im from the chicago area myself! Looking to make an appt with dr from st Alexis as well. How long does it take to get your first consultation appt? How long before surgery date? Would love to keep in touch!

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Leesa, I live in Lemont. I just got a surgery date, the 21st of this month :-)

Ollisrn76, I kind of did things backwards by accident. I had my consultation appt 1st then went to the seminar. I had to have Guske as my dr and it took about 3 weeks to get in. I don't know if it's because I'm HMO or what because at the end of the seminar, they tried to give me an appt date for the consultation and they didn't understand how I got in before doing the seminar. After everything I had to do it took about 3 months. You have the seminar, the consult, the psych, the pulmonologist, the dietician and then 15 days of their diet right before surgery. I am starting tomorrow. It maybe different for you because of insurance. You will have to check with them. I would love to keep in touch as well.

Katie

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Thanks Katie! Yes, lets keep in touch! Good luck to you! Thanks so much for the info!

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Good luck Katie, you will be fine and happy you had WLS

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Attended the seminar today and my first consultation appt is October 29th with Dr Kane! Super excited.

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I'm having my surgery November 17 at Alexian Brothers in Elk Grove. Would love to have some buddies.

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I live in Romeoville, had my surgery 7/15/14. Join Myfittnesspal its great for keeping track of calories and Protein.

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I am on the south side in Alsip, kind of stuck in the house due to mobility issues. I am going through ablation procedures (had one this morning) to calm down pinched nerves.......doctors are trying to delay an inevitable full lumbar fusion. I am a slow loser, but glad to be down 60+ pounds....40 to go. It is encouraging to know that there are bariatric brothers and sisters in surrounding communities. Welcome to the forum.

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I was just sleeved last week at Silver Cross Hospital in New Lenox by Dr. Christopher Joyce. Great to have buddies for this journey. I love to learn from others and share what I know as well.

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      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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