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I had a friend tell me this yesterday. We were having a discussion about how i don't ever get hit on anymore. When I was heavier I got loads of attention.. Now a days not so much. Being the attention ***** that I am, I kind of miss it. He was like you're too hot now and guys probably think you'll turn them down. Has anybody experienced anything like this?

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I had a friend tell me this yesterday. We were having a discussion about how i don't ever get hit on anymore. When I was heavier I got loads of attention.. Now a days not so much. Being the attention ***** that I am' date=' I kind of miss it. He was like you're too hot now and guys probably think you'll turn them down. Has anybody experienced anything like this?[/quote']well you are hot! :-0

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well you are hot! :-0
thanks I appreciate the Kudos.. But I'm still struggling with it..

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thanks I appreciate the Kudos.. But I'm still struggling with it..
As a man that has struggled with my weight all my adult life along with self esteem issues I can tell you that the degree of difficulty in hitting on the hot girl goes up exponentially to the degree of hotness! You were probably looking for female feed back so I will be quiet now.

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As a man that has struggled with my weight all my adult life along with self esteem issues I can tell you that the degree of difficulty in hitting on the hot girl goes up exponentially to the degree of hotness! You were probably looking for female feed back so I will be quiet now.
all feed back is appreciated I wasn't being gender specific. A males prospective is good too thanks for being honest

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I have 4 brothers and they all have told me the same thing about men... Ego hits are the worst so if you're hot it's sometimes harder for a man to approach you.

So my advice to you is, say hello first... And really that's all it takes is a smile and a hey! Most of the time just saying hey with a smile means you're approachable.... Kind... Not gonna blow someone off if they say something first...

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I have 4 brothers and they all have told me the same thing about men... Ego hits are the worst so if you're hot it's sometimes harder for a man to approach you. So my advice to you is' date=' say hello first... And really that's all it takes is a smile and a hey! Most of the time just saying hey with a smile means you're approachable.... Kind... Not gonna blow someone off if they say something first...[/quote'] I smile all the time lol thanks for the tip..

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I smile all the time lol thanks for the tip..

Smiles all the time yes, but directly at them?make small eye contact with a smile... ;)

Guys are funny they love confidence and are attracted to it... But are scared of women that are confident at the same time. Many men are! not all but a good amount!!

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Smiles all the time yes' date=' but directly at them?make small eye contact with a smile... ;) Guys are funny they love confidence and are attracted to it... But are scared of women that are confident at the same time. Many men are! not all but a good amount!![/quote'] sounds good thank you

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Soo I've been smiling and I promise I have nice teeth and nothing still lots of lookers..

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Thank goodness....I've finally figured out why no one ever hits on me!!

Totally kidding of course. And so not helpful. Sorry.

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Thank goodness....I've finally figured out why no one ever hits on me!! Totally kidding of course. And so not helpful. Sorry.

i like your sense of humor..

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Soocalchic..... Come to PHILADELPHIA !! I'll hit on you in a hot minute! Your beautiful! With a great personality too! From what I read on hear.

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Soocalchic..... Come to PHILADELPHIA !! I'll hit on you in a hot minute! Your beautiful! With a great personality too! From what I read on hear.

aww you're too cuute I'm knocked up now so don't think I'm getting hit on any time soon unless he gets into Pregos lol

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Lmao! Well how can I say this without looking bad lmao!! Still hit on you! Show you some Philadelphia love then a prego massage :P

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