Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Feel like im being jerked around.



Recommended Posts

So I called my insurance company today to find out if they've made a decision about my surgery. They said that they didn't have a request for it. They also mentioned that it usually only takes them five days to get approval. So I called my docs office back and told them that they said they submitted it two weeks ago. She told me that they send it to the hospital and it could take a month for the insurance to get back to them. I told her that I insurance said five days and she said "wow your on the ball ". Then she told me that the hospital goes over everything and can't tell me how long they will take to send it in from there and then she asks if I have a secondary insurance and if I've checked with them as well. I'm so frustrated I feel like giving up but I've come so far.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Don't give up and don't always go by what the ins says either ..unfortunately it is sometimes the blame game ..I work for health insurance and although I would hope everyone has their crap together and on the same page it doesn't always seem that way... Don't give up;)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Don't give up! You've come too far! I understand the frustration, I'm waiting on the doctor who did my psych eval two weeks ago to get his stupid dictation in my file so it can be submitted to my insurance. I'm not going to give up, and darn it, I won't let you either! So there!

How was that for drama?

Anyway, have faith. Good things are coming your way!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Sawyersmommie, I suggest going to the original docs office that has the referral, getting a copy of the referral and faxing that to the insurance company yourself..... Or getting a fax number from the insurance and give it to your docs office and tell the you will need the confirmation page once that is faxed, usually 48 to 72 hours for this to be done... Not sure why the docs office is giving some lame info about the hospital!! Good luck!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wouldn't it be nice if we had a place on the forum giving basic information what will probably be required for those who are wanting bypass or whatever WLS? I read the blogs and feel so bad for those who get the run around, because someone won't admit they dropped the ball and they don't care if the patients suffer. They aren't the ones wanting WLS, nor did they work their rears off just to get to the approval point, then gets some BS why the paper work hasn't been submitted. (In my doctor's office there were a couple who work there that need to make appointments with one of their surgeons and one was a case manager who does the insurance paper work. She is also one that can't admit she dropped the ball, will say she wasn't my case manager, just a friend of mine who started long before me, completed everything before me and just got the approval because paper work wasn't completely submitted). So don't give up sawyersmommy, if need be ask why this had to be submitted to the hospital and if you continue not to get a reasonable explaination ask to talk with the office manager. To me the only info that needs to be given to the hospital is your insurance info and I wouldn't think that needed to be done until you got the approval, once the approval comes in your insurance is also approving your hospital. I got my approval and just got the call yesterday from the hospital verifying all the information and basically told me they contacted my insurance company and I have a $225.00 co-insurance, surgery already had been scheduled last week. So hang in there and as I said if need be talk with the office manager.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I've been working on this for over a year. I was supposed to have surgery in August of last year. Had a date and everything but the army deployed both my surgeons. Then before they got new ones I moved. The doctor I'm with now said everything would transfer. Then the office said I'd have to do my psych eval again cause its in a different state. I had to pay out of pocket for that. Then they keep telling me that I don't have the right paperwork where the insurance says I have everything they just need to turn it in. I feel like I'm on a roller coaster.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×