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I'm glad that you were able to get the help and for admitting you were having a problem ...while I'm not chewing and spitting things out' date=' I'm afraid of food.... I eat the same things everyday and only enough to get my Protein of 60 grams in

unjury unflavored Protein in my oj

Quest Protein Bar

salad

And for snack - banana apple sauce and peanuts

I have tried real foods but I never get past the first bite and its just not that appealing ...

chicken doesn't feel right going down and I hate seafood ;(. My friend thinks I may be starting to have an eating disorder cause it may be more in my head than actually not being able to eat it[/quote']

I eat a lot of the same thing over and over again too. chicken took me a good 3 months before I could stomach it, as well as eggs took 4 1/2 months. I can only eat what I feel like as many foods do not have the same appeal they once did. I don't know how far out you are but I am 4 1/2 months and eat between 600-800 calories with an average of 70-90 grams of protein. I still do two shakes a day. Nutritionist and surgeon are both ok with my intakes.

HW 229, SW 214, CW 160 RNY 3/14/13

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Over the phone assesment with a place called melrose institute diagnosed me with an eating disorder...appointment is on Thursday

My main reason for seeing a psychiatrist is the way I think about food and my body after surgery. I'm proud you took that step to call, it's the hardest one. If you ever want to chat I'm at Kraney@aol.com

HW 229, SW 214, CW 160 RNY 3/14/13

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Sounds like you should see your psychologists not your surgeon.

~Leticia **HW: 259**PreOp: 216**SURG: 3/21/13 **Discharged @: 221** 4.5 mons post op. CW: 160.0 lbs. --- Only 10 lbs to my goal ---

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Thanks guys! Im doing better! Slowly but surly taking in foods and actually swallowing them. Im eating bananas...peanur butter...protein drinks and a few other things the doctors recommended...so im getting there! Thanks for caring...it means alot.

Just checking in to see how you are progressing...are you out of the hospital yet? Hoe is the eating going. Hope all is well...

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Thank you :-)

Just checking in to see how you are progressing...are you out of the hospital yet? Hoe is the eating going. Hope all is well...

U have ppl here in KY praying for you, now with all these difference states praying, im sure to believe somebody or many have a connection thru n he's pulling u thru. You just keep ur end good n do and eat Wat they tell you.

Bless u honey n u will do fine :)

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I eat a lot of the same thing over and over again too. chicken took me a good 3 months before I could stomach it' date=' as well as eggs took 4 1/2 months. I can only eat what I feel like as many foods do not have the same appeal they once did. I don't know how far out you are but I am 4 1/2 months and eat between 600-800 calories with an average of 70-90 grams of Protein. I still do two shakes a day. Nutritionist and surgeon are both ok with my intakes.

HW 229, SW 214, CW 160 RNY 3/14/13[/quote']

I do the same thing. 2 shakes a day, and sometimes a nectar Protein Drink too. I eat cottage cheese, yogurt, and beef Jerky mainly. And im ok s ith it. Dont really crave anything else and am happy with it for now.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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