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I pray you are not planning on doing what you just intend to do. Take a step back and think about it. Life is precious and God gave you life for reason. You have no right to kill the vessel your soul rests in every day. It is the biggest sin you can commit. I know it sounds harsh but there are ways to battle depression and loneliness. You just have to look for the resources.

I don't think there is one human being on this Earth that hasn't been in a dark place at some point in their life. There is hope. Don't give up on yourself so easily and look for it!

I will say a prayer for you. :hugs

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Please get on your knees and pray! You are never alone!!

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All I can do for you, friend, is pray. I'm surrounding you with God's love and hoping that you feel it.

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You need to see someone asap...I urge you to go to your local hospital for help. I know things look dark tight now but the light is right around the corner. Have faith and pray. I will pray for you also. You are not alone!

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Don't ever quit - take your life one minute at a time. Life can be very overwhelming as you know. Surviving this world is a huge accomplishment. Focus on the good things even if they are small. You are worth it even if you don't think so. I know words are just words and I don't know the details of what you have been through but I hope you can find the strength to hold on and focus on what is good in your life.

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You're not alone..we've got your back!

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So today I got a package from my pen pal.... It was so thoughtful and beautiful and I got a chance to smile... I'm in so much darkness.. The surgery has worked well for me my numbers are great and I lost weight but my heart is still as broken as it has always been... Everyone I love is in the grave... I'm alone in the woods like a cub separated from his family.... I'm tired of being afraid.. So today I sat and thought of ways I could leave this earth with out putting my friends in a hardship.... I want them to be able to use my life insurance to have me cremated. Somehow I feel as is I'm worth more dead than alive... My back pain hasn't improved so I had to cut my days at the shop to one.... I'm so tired.....after all these yrs of fighting the depression and dealing with so much humiliation and hanging in there I have run out of reasons to continue.....I feel as if I have no other option and the thought of leaving hear is the only hope I have left... God forgive me....

Please please please call someone. Call 911, call 800-273-8255... Don't do this. When The Lord wants u he will bring u home. We all go through heart ache we all loose people its apart of life. Your love ones will be devastated if u harm yourself.

If you want to talk send me a message u can call me. Your life is precious, you are precious, your worth saving!!!

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Thank you for thinking enough of me to write... Your thoughts and prayers are welcomed and appreciated..

Hi if you just want someone to talk with call me on Skype. I'm in Australia, but distance for friends is never a problem. My friends daughters father took his life last year, and she and the family, are still in tourmiol about it. I know you really don't want to die, just stop the pain your feeling. I have been in your place and deep down i didnt want to die just stopnthe pain i was feeling. Let us support you and help you thorough this. My Skype is renshiforex if you want to reach out. James

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After surgery we loose a lot of fat. Hormones are in fat... They go all crazy after surgery. If you already suffered from depression it will sure as hell will hit you harder after. Seek help ASAP!!! Don't just pray. Get help please.

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I want to tell you something... First you are a beautiful human being. The amazing thing about life is that it it has the ability to be anything. You may not realize it, but to someone you are their everything. Nothing positive comes from that. Believe me I understand your pain. I understand the hopeless feelings that make everything so dark but know that somewhere there is lift and life waiting to shine through... And that I may not know you,

But I love you!

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IF U NEED A FRIEND OR JUST SOMEONE TO LISTEN ILL GV U MY CELL U CAN CALL ME

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Please be brave. I'm glad you are being admitted. There are people out there who can help you ... You only need to ask. You have a purpose in this world. Be strong and don't give up ever!

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I am bumping this.

I would love an update on you, Imani. Please, keep this thread alive and talk to us even if it's small chit-chat. Tell us how you are doing.

How was your day today?

ETA: I just noticed your update. Many prayers your way. Get well and keep us updated.

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    • LeighaTR

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    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
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      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

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    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
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      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

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