"you Fat Slob"

[Debbe 14]

Your self esteem is about to get a huge boost. Your husband probably is insecure even though you say he's not... A secure man wouldn't find it necessary to call his wife names like that. Those types of comments are meant to drag you down. Because as long as you are over weight, - some where in his mind- you will need him... He knows your weight keeps you with him...I wish you the best! The reason I say these thing is not to bash your husband, but its because I have been in your shoes... You will be so much more confident... You are not a doormat. And every woman wants to and deserves to be CHERISHED!!!

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[sarah2012 27]

I have been there my EX husband was verbally abusive and it took my anut (who's a lawyer) to make me see the cycle of abuse. I got out of the marriage in 08 and am so much better off. I have met a wonderful man who wants me to be happy and loves me big or soon to be small. You deserve better no women should be treated that way. Good luck, hang in there you r beautiful and will be happier soon.

[PaulB 346]

Being a man and I'm not taking sides nobody deserves to be abused. Only you know your husban has he always been like this or is it just since you desired to have WSL has he been acting like a jurk.

Men are very protective of what we think belongs to us and are afraid somebody other then our selfs will be playing with our spouses. And this is how he lashes out. We can can be very childish at times regardless of our education.

Hope everything works out for you if not move on.

Remember Children first then your self and everyone after that.

Surgery Anniversary 7/30/12