Hey guys good morning last pre rec appointment woop woop then one last appointment with my doc to get my date and start my pre op diet its starting to feel so real :-) any advice for this appointment???

Scan these boards and then write down every question that has come up for you and importantly as well the questions that might have come up for your husband or partner and family. I sat down and asked my family what questions and concerns they had and I wrote them down and got them answers. This way they feel heard and real part of this process. I think it helps to maintain or gain their support, if you use that approach.

This is your time to get all the details answered before surgery. Do not be afraid to waste his time, that is what this appointment is for.

Enjoy this appointment it is exciting and the real beginning of the end before the journey of surgery and beyond. (wow what a mouthful statement but I am leaving it anyway LOL).

Oh write down the answers because you will 100% forget a lot of what is said and when you need the answer you will not be able to remember it due to stress and tiredness etc. Good luck!!