MY surgery is this Wednesday and I feel like everything I'm doing will be the last time I'm doping it. Even writing MSG's to folks I'm extra nice cause I don't the last thing I say to be mediocre...lol, kinda silly isn't it. But I've been dreaming about death and found a dead mouse in the back lane and dead bird in my front yard...I'm scared I'll be lost in the OR, loose my life to blood loss or complications...sigh'

Well I agree with you. It's sad but things can happen. Im getting a will and having all the bills in order for hubby. More in case I'm too sick or in the hospital longer then planned. But You will be fine!!

MY surgery is this Wednesday and I feel like everything I'm doing will be the last time I'm doping it. Even writing MSG's to folks I'm extra nice cause I don't the last thing I say to be mediocre...lol' date=' kinda silly isn't it. But I've been dreaming about death and found a dead mouse in the back lane and dead bird in my front yard...I'm scared I'll be lost in the OR, loose my life to blood loss or complications...sigh'[/quote']

I found peace by asking my Suregon a million questions as well as talking to a few of his patients. Knowing he never lost a patient made me feel like I was in really really good hands.

Think positive

No surgery should be taken lightly so if it makes you feel better to have things in order there isn't any harm in that. I had it all set myself...years ago did the will so that was set, I made sure to complete a healthcare proxy and told my husband how I felt about things. I wrote both my husband and son letters when I had my lapband surgery back in 2006 so didn't feel I needed to do that again this time but, I did talk to them both. I trusted my surgeon which was a big help. I asked all my questions etc. I was nervous about it all anyway because of course there are complications that can happen. Nope....no harm in being prepared

I think fear is a natural and healthy part of having a surgery. I'd be much more worried about someone who isn't afraid! Just think how excited you're going to be when you wake up in recovery! You're gonna love the new you!!

I am feeling the same way! Surgery is tomorrow and I feel like I should have all of my affairs in order...even though I am only 27 and my surgeon said I have nothing to worry about. No high blood pressure, chloestreol, no diabetes. But it doesn't mean I am not nervous. If you feel better getting everything figured out, do it.

You have every right to be scared !!! Any surgery there is always risks... we all pulled thru and are here today to speak about it. You will do just fine..do what your doctor instructs you to do and nothing will happen.

Your scared we are human that is what we do. But I think judging from all the post op people here that we will make it. My surgeon only takes people that will be a good statistic for him.....you will be fine. Your dr doesn't want to lose anyone he is who your trusting. Have faith and know we are cheering you on.

Your feelings are perfectly normal and we will hear from you in the next few days, right?

Yes! Thank you everyone, this forum rocks!! I did write a letter to my in case and went to see my therapist today do I'm feeling stronger, tomorrow is the day, yay!!!!

You will do great! Can't wait to hear from you post op!!!

You will do great! Can't wait to hear from you post op!!!

Thanks! I'm 6 days post op and when I read back about how scared I was I'm so thankful that's over! I'm feeling pretty good but it takes some getting use to, my energy levels suck but I'm alive and well!

So glad you are going well! Keep us posted!

Aye keep up the good work! Your energy will slowly come back as you progress thru the stages

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