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Im glad everything is going better! If u ever need to vent or chat feel free to message me anytime! I love to talk! :)

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Thank you all. :) and Jessica I'll remember that next time. :) thank you

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It's ok at least u have a very supportive husband.. We have the same story as u.. I use to work so much hours.. I concentrated just my family and my kids .. Until I reach 365 lbs.. But my husband is so loving .. He keeps saying that I love u no matter what but my kids were ashamed of me one time my oldest came and said they r laughing at him bec his mom is so fat that's when I realize I need to do something...I went to the gym 5 hours a day to eating healthy in 6 months I lost 143 lbs .. Then I went down to 200 lbs.. I keep trying but I think I reached my plateau and I can't walk or do a lot of exercise bec my legs and back bother me so my doctor recommend me gastric now finely having it on may 23rd my weight before surgery is 198 lbs doctor said I will lost it quick... Thank u guys this is a wonderful site..

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143 pounds with diet and exercise is amazing! Hats off to you. You're going to do great after surgery!

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Im glad everything is going better! If u ever need to vent or chat feel free to message me anytime! I love to talk! :)

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Talk to me :) I love to talk also.

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If you lost 143 lbs and you're only 198 won't you lose too much weight getting the bypass?

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Mamiof3kids- message me anytime! Im a talker! Lol im a salesperson, I get paid to talk haha! Even if its just about daily life :) I could use some more friends...not that I don't have any but im 22 and have a 4 yr old...alot of my friends don't have kids and went off to college and party so I don't hangout with people much besides my sister and mom lol.

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If you lost 143 lbs and you're only 198 won't you lose too much weight getting the bypass?

I was wondering the same thing. Are you really petite? I thought you had to be at least 100 lbs overweight to have rny....good luck with your surgery though and congrats on your tremendous weight loss on your own! You almost beat the biggest loser! Lol!: )

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Mamiof3kids- message me anytime! Im a talker! Lol im a salesperson' date=' I get paid to talk haha! Even if its just about daily life :) I could use some more friends...not that I don't have any but im 22 and have a 4 yr old...alot of my friends don't have kids and went off to college and party so I don't hangout with people much besides my sister and mom lol.

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Cool let's see who talks the most lolz

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It's ok at least u have a very supportive husband.. We have the same story as u.. I use to work so much hours.. I concentrated just my family and my kids .. Until I reach 365 lbs.. But my husband is so loving .. He keeps saying that I love u no matter what but my kids were ashamed of me one time my oldest came and said they r laughing at him bec his mom is so fat that's when I realize I need to do something...I went to the gym 5 hours a day to eating healthy in 6 months I lost 143 lbs .. Then I went down to 200 lbs.. I keep trying but I think I reached my plateau and I can't walk or do a lot of exercise bec my legs and back bother me so my doctor recommend me gastric now finely having it on may 23rd my weight before surgery is 198 lbs doctor said I will lost it quick... Thank u guys this is a wonderful site..

Alright! Great job

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Wow such a great story. Wishing you the best on your new journey.

I second bernie - great post! I love your story and love your willingness to share it even more. You are going to do great! Congratulations on a great decision and cheers for the "not a giant jackass" for being so supportive. Just keep doing what you're doing and you're gonna love the new you!!

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I know a lot of people ask me that..the problem is I cant exercise that long anymore my back is hurting and my legs too thats why I was recommended by my doctor...im 5"3 and my ideal weight is 120 lbs...

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I know a lot of people ask me that..the problem is I cant exercise that long anymore my back is hurting and my legs too thats why I was recommended by my doctor...im 5"3 and my ideal weight is 120 lbs...

Good luck with your surgery and way to go for being able to lose the weight you did. That's quite incredible.

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I'm having doubts lately about having surgery. There is nobody that is talking me out of it except myself. Since march I have lost over 20 lbs on my own. I'm doing it for myself, by myself. Know the surgery would work but I don't know if I'm at the point in my life where I can go through with it. With these doubts I will not undergo surgery. I will however finish all my preop requirements so that if I change my mind in the near future I'll be able to get it done. I wish you all the best. Thank you for being there for me, and for each other.

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I feel like you're making a good decision. You shouldn't have this surgery unless YOU feel you are ready for it. It is definitely life changing. If you're not ready for that right now, it's best to hold off. Best of luck to you on your continuing weight loss. Please stay a part of this forum family.

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