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....I have something to add! After being banded for nine months now, I eventually have a tiny nugget of information to pass on to you guys! I have felt pretty impotent here without fill info, pain experience to share!

Well - here it is (ta da!)....

Does anyone remember me asking about shoulder pain? I was experiencing a LOT of pretty severe pain for AGES in my shoulder, just above my left breast - It left me pretty winded as it hurt when I breathed in deeply or coughed or even moved my arm... I was getting kinda worried about it and posted here - Donali (the big meanie...) suggested that I was overeating at meal times and the diaphragm was causing the gas-like pain. Ok, I went with that and stopped eating sooner that I had been. No go, still bad pain (Wake up! I'm getting to the good part....!) - ok so picture me in the car, driving down through france, well, hubby is driving, I am having my shoulder pain, moaning and whining away, hubby is completely glazed over pretending to listen.... So I turn to my big pile of gossip magazines, and am reading about poor Brittney having put on 1.5lbs and doing 3000 crunches per day to keep her lovely flat tummy - then I notice it says "Brittney avoids sugar-free gum as this causes build up of gas and can leave her tummy bloated and distended! Whoaaaaa stop the vehicle! What have I in my mouth 90% of the time? Only sugar free GUM! I constantly chew gum after meals, and well, all day long! I spat the gum out, and haven't had so much as a twinge of shoulder pain since! So there.

Now I am waiting for my tum to go all flat like Brittney's.... must just have been all that gum makin it hang down to my knees....any day now...................

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Wow, Bright, that is fascinating! And you're absolutely right--this may be the nugget of information that saves someone else from a huge amount of aggravation, discomfort, and frustration.

And see, it's not the band!! :)

Good on you (and Britney) for figuring it out. Let's hear it for the blondes with flat tummies!! :eek: :eek: :eek:

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Whoo hooo!!! Congrats on the culprit! But I wonder if the gas the gum causes is from swallowed air? If it makes the tummy feel swollen and distended, that sounds to me like a similar effect that overeating would cause, so I'm sticking to the referred pain from the diaphragm theory - it just wasn't overfullness due to food...

Surely I'm right?? :)

Regardless, congrats on being painfree!! And having a Brittney tummy! Whoo hooo!!

P.S. I miss you! :eek:

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Wow, thanks for that info, Bright. I always have gum in my mouth. (some kind of oral fixation!) Of course it's sugarfree, as I

work in the Dental profession. I will have to do a trial to see if I can tell the difference without it. It will be hard for me, it keeps my mouth busy and I don't think I eat as much when I chew gum.

Interesting theory!

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Yay thanks for the validation Alex, I feel so HELPFUL for once! And yup, me and Britney have SOOO much in common - 'cept of course I have orange hair....

hmmmm go on then Donali, you ARE right :rolleyes - actually you probably are - I presume the gas is caused by the air swallowing that must go on with incessant gum chewing... but apparently it's sugar free that causes the bloating, not regular gum so I dunno what that's about! I haven't tried regular gum because I really don't need to be latching on to another sugar filled product.... but perhaps in the interest of science and banded-kind I'll give it a go...

Neicy, I so know where you're coming from - I was dependant on my gum to help curb my appetite - I would pop some in to "officially" end a meal and between meals to just have something to chew! Since I've stopped chewing I have started to brush my teeth way more often which is a good thing I guess AND I look way classier not blowin bubbles!

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Can we have NO vices!!! Bright, I love to read your postings! P.S. Be careful about swallowing gum. Claraluz had a problem with it getting stuck.

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Bright, I just want to say I've missed you. In fact, I was thinking just this week about throwing a shout out into cyberspace to see if you were still there. Your new picture is beautiful!

And yeah, be careful with the gum. I accidentally swallowed some and it took it's sweet time getting down through the band.

Nancy

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GORGEOUS girl!!! LOVE the new photo!!

Actually, if it's the sugar-free part that's the problem, must be one of those artificial type sweeteners that have a very mild laxative type side effect, like the maltodextrin (?) in some of the SF chocolates. Boy, the gas pain over over-consuming that stuff is a horror not be be repeated! I thought I was going to be the human blimp over San Diego!!

Not that I would ever overindulge in anything... :)

I haven't had any probs with SF gum that I've noticed, but then again haven't chewed any in a real long time.

You go, Brittney!! :eek: :eek: :eek:

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Bright, that is an AMAZING photo!! It looks professionally done. Was it?

Sigh, back to the drawing board... :)

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oh my god - thank you so much for the compliments guys - tragically I excitedly got home from my vacation, shaking all over from withdrawal symptoms from my pc, and quickly hooked up the digital camera to view all the gorgeous photos - I looked VILE in all of them - you know when you are in the sun, (doesn't happen much to us Irish folk!!!) - and suddenly you feel all free and sexy - you stick on a vest top, skip wearing makeup - let your hair go free (ie don't bother blow drying it or *ahem* BRUSHING it) - you smile confidently at the camera, thinkin, this'll be a BE-YOOO-TI-FUL photo - well, I thought I'd look all californian hippy girl on the beach - I ACTUALLY looked like middle-aged irish woman abroad with red sunburn and v saggy boobs! Siiiiiighhhh.... So I picked up cruel unkind digital camera and, snap, took a photo sittin right there at the 'puter in my junk room with all my crap and rubbish behind me - I enclose the regular sized one for y'all to see - professionally done? Em, no, but I think the camera sorta knew this was his last chance....

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see? This is me on the damn beach - this one is actually taken at night - wouldn't be fair to you guys to show you the swimsuit one....

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Bright, you're gorgeous! How old are you (if you don't mind a nosey person asking)? You have great skin! Is there any way to lighten up your avitar? It really doesn't do you justice.

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jeez.......I feel physically ill seeing that second photo again! Aaarrgghh!

New Hope - thanks so much! I am 34 and the great skin is courtesy of Lancome! If I lighten up the avatar, I will look more like pic 2! That's my biggest beauty tip - take photos with the flash off :)

Thanks too Leatha

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