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Good Morning everyone!

Just popping in before I go to clinical. I read the last page of posts and you all seem so happy. That is great!!! I miss you guys and think of you often but do not get on the computer as often as I would like to. Unless I am writing a paper. I cannot believe how terrible time consuming this semester is and I am at the end of my rope.

My weight has stalled. I have not lost a pound in over 6 weeks. I am still exercising regularly (5x/week) but I definitely know I can eat more than I used to be able to. I rarely feel restriction. The only time I usually feel it is at Breakfast. Even then most days I can eat an egg and a turkey sausage. I was surprised the other day that I ate a big salad. It was a lot more than I expected to be able to eat in one sitting. I could have kept going but it was done! I am heading in for a fill tomorrow so I hope that gets things moving again. So far I have 1cc. I am not sure what I will get this time. I do dread going to the MD and them seeing no weight loss since my last appt. I think I may be down a pound. Ho-hum.

Overall I am happy with my appearance. I am shopping in regular stores for the first time in years. I am getting definition in my shoulders and arms that is pretty cool from all the weight training I do. I just would really like to see things start moving again.

I think I need to commit to come here more often and keep up with all of you. It was always so motivating before and your friendships meant a lot.

Thanks for letting me ramble and I wish you all a great day!

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KAY!!! Welcome back!

Sorry to hear this semester has been so hard for you. I'm glad you're motivated when getting on line to chat with us - because we want you here (selfishly!) and we miss you!

Definitely sounds like you need a fill - it makes a WORLD of difference!!

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KAYDOT!!!! Nice to see you!!! I'm with you on the stalled weight loss. I'm trying to get a fill ASAP but ran into a SNAG....

I'm SO PISSED!!!!! I thought I found a very convenient fill Dr. who said that they'd do fills after my first consultation for $150....fairly reasonable I think, so I already called my surgeons office and requested a copy of my medical file. Called the hopefully new fill Dr. today and am told it will cost me $500 Just to "Join their program"!!??? ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!?? What kind of BS Is that!? On top of charging me $150 a fill!?? NO FRIGGIN WAY!!!!

So now I'm looking for another fill Dr. I think there is another one a little less convenient, but I know another patient of my surgeons who is using her so I'm just waiting for him to send me her contact info and then I'll call her. But that means it may be a little longer now til I can get a fill....I'm realizing that I really do need one of course and am anxious to get one sooner rather than later!!!

STEPH....I've had the opposite happen w/me when it comes to the mirror/pictures of myself. I look in the mirror or at pictures I took over spring break and just go "UGH....No wonder people haven't said anything about my weight loss b/c its barely noticable and I still have so far to go!"

It's a bit discouraging, especially since my scale is not moving.

I've been tracking my calories for the past few days and I seem to be on the high side of 12-1400 a day :-(

UGH.....gotta get out of this funk!!!

JILL.....hope your daughter is recovering OK....maybe you should think about talking to someone about what happened (a professional, not us goofballs) to work things out? just a suggestion.....

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DD has strep. She had me look this morning before I left for work and I saw spots. Sure enough the dr confirmed it was strep, so shes on penicillin. Hopefully it'll knock it out of her before Saturday.

Bk - it'll happen when you least expect it to - suddenly you'll go "wow, thats me!" I had another nsv today. One of the guys at work said you can tell Steph is losing weight, she doesn't wear those big baggy clothes anymore (I think he was looking at my butt :D LOL ) I actually am between sizes, my butt is a 14 but my waist is a 16 - it drives me crazy! So yeah my butt looked good today but if he had seen the fat flopping out at the waistline he may have thought differently. :) Still it was nice to hear.

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VaBand - That sucks about the fill Dr. What a load of crap! Dont settle for that... the Dr. should NOT be charging a "sign up" fee. Keep looking. That is insane.

Kaydot - HELLO!! so happy to see you and get the update... We are always glad to see you. I wonder how sweethot is doing. We never see that girl anymore.

Steph - Cant wait for the day that I see it. I still feel huge. :cry

I see changes sometimes... in places...

I posted some more pics in yahoo... I am taking my monthly update pics tonight! So, if I am brave I will post some for you all tonight.

I am so glad I have you here to talk to. No one else understands. No matter how hard they try. It is a lonely world over here sometimes. Love you ladies!

We really do need to get a talk show to pick up our stories. So, we can all meet up and show the world what can be done with support and understanding.

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Brandi - OMG girl! You LOOK FABULOUS! Look at what a cutie you are! I love the April head shot - you're actually smiling, and it looks like a genuine "happy" smile!!! No wonder the boys are all over you!!! :D:)

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I agree we need to do something we all have the support of each other we all help each other and we each other understand all the feelings we are going thru. it would be fantastic to meet all of you. You are my second family :D

bk- I am doing good but I stalled again with my weight but its ok I know hopefully soon I reach my sweetspot:) I think I may need another fill because I am hungrier at night and can eat a lot more but I also know it just my head being crazy lol . so lets hang in there and we will do it yay!!

kay-good luck at school we miss you :)

steph - good luck to your daughter she be ok by sat just wait and see and she will win also :D

OK I need your advice so I am going to chicago yay but I dont know what to get my best friend . I also dont know what to wear lol . but the main point is if you can get me ideas of what to get him ? pls any suggestions will be appreciated :huggie: :clap2:

take care girlies love ya all .. :woot:

clau:clap2:

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Buy some food items and make him a yummy dinner the first night you guys are together... it will be a good way to chill for a few hours and just catch up :-) plenty of time to talk, and you are FEEDING him... what man doesnt LOVE that??

You both win in that situation :-)

banannie - thank you for the compliment :-) I wish I could see it that way!

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hi girls what is the web site again for yahoo I know some one pm'd it b4 but I cant find it! I was to go see B-man's new pics!

I went to my fm dr today to get my thyroid checked it has been enlarged lately and I have been having other symptoms that it may be acting up again. I dont know -- so I had a bunch of blood tests, may explain why my losing is soooo slow but on the other hand I have never been able to lose weight anyway!

I am so proud of you all with your 40-50-60 and UP weight losses! I am going in for another fill this monday for sure! I am going to call tomorrow for an appt!

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banannie - thank you for the compliment :-) I wish I could see it that way!

Brandi - you and I are very alike - I'm not even comfortable posting pics because I don't see myself as any smaller yet. But I know I am, the scales say so, my pants say so, my friends & family say so. You need to listen to me rather than the voice in your head - you REALLY are a total cutie in that April pic - I'm not just saying it to be nice, I really think it!!! :D

Maybe I'll post pics this weekend... maybe... :) Then you'll be telling me the same thing!! :D

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jill you are I are so close in weight loss and my April goal is even the same as yours

you know even though my weight loss has been slower than some I am still proud of myself

my doc told me my weightloss would be slower because of coming off diet pills but I did not want to hear it he was right

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well, here we go... i will lay it all out there for ya :-)

Ive attached all my comparisons. You all make sure you share yours :-) !!!

luv ya ladies!

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WOW BMAN!! Look at those collarbones stickin out and those Skinny Legs!!! You're lookin HOT!!!! I don't even compare to your progress....you saw my most recent pics on yahoo and there's barely a difference!

YOU GO GIRL!!!!

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well, here we go... i will lay it all out there for ya :-)

Ive attached all my comparisons. You all make sure you share yours :-) !!!

luv ya ladies!

You look great!!! I can't wait until Friday and hopefully 4 months from now maybe I can look great too!

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