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I got asked out today!! Made my day...but hubby wasn't too happy when I told him!!! :-P

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LoL!! They are sensitive about that huh?

Congrats on a very flattering NSV!!

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So what did you say to the guy? You going? HAHAHAHA!!!

That is very flattering! Enjoy it, I'm sure there are more potentials dates headed your way! ;)

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That's awesome!!! Good for you!

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No, I politely declined...then ran home & texted everyone I knew!!!! Lol

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Hubby's still fuming! Loving it!! Lol

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No, I politely declined...then ran home & texted everyone I knew!!!! Lol

I'd have done the same! Probably posted it on Facebook too! LOL! :D

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I never thought my husband would worry about such things, but he asked me in all seriousness if I was going to dump him when I "got skinny". I just don't know how to handle questions like that. I am 47. Hooking up was not my style before I got fat so I don't see that changing. Plus, i waited until i was 39 before i found the right guy . I dont want anyone else. How do you convince your spouse you are not going anywhere?

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Just keep telling your husband how much you love him, need him, appreciate his support and also show him thru your actions. It sounds like he needs some reassurance. Also, I think it's probably best to keep the other admirers words to oneself. I have always gotten unwanted attention from time to time, even at my highest weight. Some men like big girls, in fact my husband prefers a full-figured woman so I worry that he'll not be attracted to me once I get to goal. The most attractive aspect of any person, fat or thin, is really their self-confidence.

pre-surgery weight 325; surgery date 2/28/2013; surgery weight 307; 8 weeks past-op weight 281.4

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Lol, you are working it girl! Hubby WILL survive, you just enjoy the feeling.

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ha ha ha!

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I never thought my husband would worry about such things, but he asked me in all seriousness if I was going to dump him when I "got skinny". I just don't know how to handle questions like that. I am 47. Hooking up was not my style before I got fat so I don't see that changing. Plus, i waited until i was 39 before i found the right guy . I dont want anyone else. How do you convince your spouse you are not going anywhere?

Just keep reassuring him that you love him & aren't going anywhere! My hubby & I have been married since I was 15 (I'm 52 now), deep down he knows I'm not going anywhere..but it is nice to see him jealous sometime! He is loosing right along with me, so I just always remember to tell him how sexy he looks & I love him! Guys like to hear those things too! & I personally do not keep these things to myself...we have learned its better to be open. We live in a small town & there are always someone around who knows someone..if he heard it from someone else it would be way worse.

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