I got asked out today!! Made my day...but hubby wasn't too happy when I told him!!! :-P

LoL!! They are sensitive about that huh?

Congrats on a very flattering NSV!!

So what did you say to the guy? You going? HAHAHAHA!!!

That is very flattering! Enjoy it, I'm sure there are more potentials dates headed your way!

That's awesome!!! Good for you!

No, I politely declined...then ran home & texted everyone I knew!!!! Lol

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Hehehe....

Hubby's still fuming! Loving it!! Lol

No, I politely declined...then ran home & texted everyone I knew!!!! Lol

I'd have done the same! Probably posted it on Facebook too! LOL!

I never thought my husband would worry about such things, but he asked me in all seriousness if I was going to dump him when I "got skinny". I just don't know how to handle questions like that. I am 47. Hooking up was not my style before I got fat so I don't see that changing. Plus, i waited until i was 39 before i found the right guy . I dont want anyone else. How do you convince your spouse you are not going anywhere?

Just keep telling your husband how much you love him, need him, appreciate his support and also show him thru your actions. It sounds like he needs some reassurance. Also, I think it's probably best to keep the other admirers words to oneself. I have always gotten unwanted attention from time to time, even at my highest weight. Some men like big girls, in fact my husband prefers a full-figured woman so I worry that he'll not be attracted to me once I get to goal. The most attractive aspect of any person, fat or thin, is really their self-confidence.

pre-surgery weight 325; surgery date 2/28/2013; surgery weight 307; 8 weeks past-op weight 281.4

Lol, you are working it girl! Hubby WILL survive, you just enjoy the feeling.

ha ha ha!

I never thought my husband would worry about such things, but he asked me in all seriousness if I was going to dump him when I "got skinny". I just don't know how to handle questions like that. I am 47. Hooking up was not my style before I got fat so I don't see that changing. Plus, i waited until i was 39 before i found the right guy . I dont want anyone else. How do you convince your spouse you are not going anywhere?

Just keep reassuring him that you love him & aren't going anywhere! My hubby & I have been married since I was 15 (I'm 52 now), deep down he knows I'm not going anywhere..but it is nice to see him jealous sometime! He is loosing right along with me, so I just always remember to tell him how sexy he looks & I love him! Guys like to hear those things too! & I personally do not keep these things to myself...we have learned its better to be open. We live in a small town & there are always someone around who knows someone..if he heard it from someone else it would be way worse.