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Amy those first pants were a 22 do you hear me!!! I was huge not that long ago! You remember when I first came here I was wearing those !

Oh and girl I caught a good angle on the new pants pic. hehe....

Girl I'm going to dig up a picture but you better not laugh !!

You inspired me to do the same. I put on my 22s and walked in the living room like nothing was going on. My husband was like what the hell are you wearing?!? He never saw me that big! It was definitely a reality check for him haha! I'm a 16 now.

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You inspired me to do the same. I put on my 22s and walked in the living room like nothing was going on. My husband was like what the hell are you wearing?!? He never saw me that big! It was definitely a reality check for him haha! I'm a 16 now.

Girl you better put those back on and take a picture!

Isn't that funny my husband was the same (I think I was too) he couldn't believe I wore those because he just didn't see it as that big then.

It's hard, I mean it only hit me sometimes just how large I was then, and when it did it was devastating. So now I think it's the same thing, it doesn't hit me that often how much I've lost, so it's easy daily, just to get caught up with the numbers on the scale and how slowly they move sometimes..

Anyway I'm rambling, I hope you get what I mean:) I'm glad we dug those old pants out!

Funny how a napkin and a chocolate egg ended with these insights

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I tend to wear my too big clothes and not notice it until my kids ask me if I'm "trying to be a gangsta"

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I tend to wear my too big clothes and not notice it until my kids ask me if I'm "trying to be a gangsta"

This cracked me up! I've been wearing my 20s since surgery and just put on a pair of 18s...my fiance asked me when I got waist. I didn't realize how frumpy I looked in my loose clothes lol

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Hello Dear' date='

How are you today? i know that all is well with you

My name is Faith, Am 21 years old girl,We made to be together forever for the feelings am having now sending you this mail, can we be friend?, write me at ( faith4real_020@yahoo.com ) or you can give me your email id for me to send you my photo ok, please don't ignore this mail, try to reply. Pls contact me at ( faith4real_020@yahoo.com ) I have allot to discus with you, i will also like to know you the more,[/quote']

Oohhh look someone wants to be my friend!!

:D

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Oohhh look someone wants to be my friend!!

:D

WTH?! I thought Faith was my special friend. She messaged me and everything! :P

I've reported that post in several threads but no response.

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She sounds hot!

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I've reported her to after I found out she's cheating on me already!!!

Alex is going to have a mess to clean up of they don't stop her soon!

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