My boyfriend likes bj's. I am one month out and just don't know if I can give him one yet. Don't know if constant gagging will hurt my sleeve. Yikes embarrassing.

I can't believe I have missed out on this thread!

Okay' date=' I am one who actually enjoys this activity. I am dismayed to learn I should have been pretending to suffer through it..LOL

Okay, here is TMI ~ since I eat so healthy now I find it surprisingly ... Salty.[/quote']

Never said we want you to suffer. But we like to think that we are more than you can easily handle;)

I love my husband and all but after reading this thread, I have to say, men are just... Weird. Lol

I love my husband and all but after reading this thread' date=' I have to say, men are just... Weird. Lol[/quote']

No offence, but the feeling is mutual.

Lol I suppose so

Men are weird but I am so totally attracted to their weirdness!!!

Men are yummy

Men are weird but I am so totally attracted to their weirdness!!!

Men are yummy

Ha! That is what I tell my wife when she says how weird I am. "Hey, you must be really weird, then, because you picked me!"

sigh... to be young again...

sigh... to be young again...

Hey, you're never too old for this ...

All I'm going to say is' date=' do your thang girl!!!

A bit of "gagging" isn't a bad thing. If you are willing to go that far for him, great. And for you ladies that don't have a gag reflex, make the noise every once in a while. I know it sounds bad, but it kind of strokes our ego a bit. [/quote']

That is frickin funny!!!!

Great question! My hubby kept joking with me that he would make sure I got my daily protein in...but come to think of it, I don't think he was joking...lol. All he kept doing post op is making tons of "protein" jokes....

Reminds me of the time I asked my wife if she wanted to experiment and do a rape role play.

She said "%#@ NO!!"

I said "That's the spirit"

Hahahahaha lol! Lmao!

I just want to reply, as a guy, that I don't understand the people saying it's an ego boost to have a girl gag on it. I would personally feel uncomfortable hearing that, and knowing I was causing her discomfort. I know she is doing it for my pleasure, and it shouldn't be completely undesirable for her. I'm comfortable with my size, I dont need to hear her gagging on it to feel better about myself. It makes me ashamed to be a guy to see people saying that. Hell, I'm fine with just being licked if it was ever an issue!

Totally LOLing at this thread! Found out some useful info that I wanted the answers to but didn't want to be the one to ask, and certainly wasn't going to ask my surgeon, "Am I allowed to swallow???" Hehe...

Now debating on whether or not to tell my hubby all this. Hmmm...

My boyfriend likes bj's. I am one month out and just don't know if I can give him one yet. Don't know if constant gagging will hurt my sleeve. Yikes embarrassing.

This is the perfect forum! No need for embarrassment.