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Everyone is asking me if I'm excited. I am, but there's some serious trepidation. I have a son with MD who depends on me. I had to tell his dad that he had to do better if something were to happen to me. I don't want to jinx it, just want to make sure things are in order. Still have so much to do tonight.

~Sabrina

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Its normal to feel some anxiety before the surgery. Try to keep your thoughts positive. Hopefully your surgery will be a breeze with no complications. Wishing you the best tomorrow, good luck. :)

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Your going to do great!

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That was totally me before surgery. Everyone at my surgeon's office was like, "Aren't you so excited?" I was thinking, um, no, not really...had a mix of emotions. I'm sure all will be well- you are doing this so that you will make sure to be with your son for a long time. The surgery is really very safe. Good luck!

-Kendra

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Its normal to feel some anxiety before the surgery. Try to keep your thoughts positive. Hopefully your surgery will be a breeze with no complications. Wishing you the best tomorrow' date=' good luck. :)[/quote']

Thank you :) I'm staying positive. Right now im hungry but not tempted to eat because I hate throwing up lol

~Sabrina

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That was totally me before surgery. Everyone at my surgeon's office was like' date=' "Aren't you so excited?" I was thinking, um, no, not really...had a mix of emotions. I'm sure all will be well- you are doing this so that you will make sure to be with your son for a long time. The surgery is really very safe. Good luck!

-Kendra[/quote']

Yes - exactly. Thanks :)

~Sabrina

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Everyone is asking me if I'm excited. I am' date=' but there's some serious trepidation. I have a son with MD who depends on me. I had to tell his dad that he had to do better if something were to happen to me. I don't want to jinx it, just want to make sure things are in order. Still have so much to do tonight.

~Sabrina[/quote']

Will pray for your safe surgery and speedy recovery. Mine is on 16th wednesday and I feel the same. Please keep me in your prayers too. May God bless us all.

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Mine was on 8th I was scared once they gave me Anastasia I didn't wake up for 5 hrs . I am good now so much energy . Good luck you will be fine what you are feeling is natural.

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Will pray for your safe surgery and speedy recovery. Mine is on 16th wednesday and I feel the same. Please keep me in your prayers too. May God bless us all.

Certainly. Thank you for your warm wishes.

~Sabrina

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Mine was on 8th I was scared once they gave me Anastasia I didn't wake up for 5 hrs . I am good now so much energy . Good luck you will be fine what you are feeling is natural.

Thank you! Glad you're doing so well.

~Sabrina

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Super luck to you hunny im in the same boat surgey is the 29 of this month and i have a 1 an 1/2 year old and im a bundle of nerves. You will be fine i wish for a speedy recovery for you! Congrats on makin it to the losers bench in advance!

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You are going to be great! Deep breath! You can do this your journey in life has taken you to this point... Tomorrow at 0800 you start the next journey a new life for you and your son. Hold trust in your surgeons hands and your OR team. Think happy and positive! Tomorrow night we will all be looking forward to hearing your tails of post op day 1!!

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