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Pole dancing' date='

Belly dancing,

Running

Sky diving,

White Water rafting,

Para sailing and para gliding

Maybe even try out surfing[/quote']

I've always wanted to pole dance!

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Pole dancing. I've always wanted to take the classes but knew I was too big for the pole. I heard it is a phenomenal exercise' date=' it may look easy but it isn't.[/quote']

Sounds like fun!!

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I want to skydive, roller coasters, travel on plane and not get the scared as hell look as I walk down the isle, run like I used to, and make love for hours!

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I thought of another one...

Play on the beach and in the surf at Cape San Blas

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I've always wanted to pole dance!

Lol! All the women on this site want to pole dance. This must be a secret fantasy of every woman.

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Zip line across Fremont street at night during a concert, ride Top Thrill Dragster and other coasters in Cedar Point, take a family photo at DisneyLand with Mickey, run a 5 k with my sister, SHOP TIL I DROP for really cute clothes, retake the awful picture I took in Chicago this past summer

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Go on a roller coaster ride could never fit on one but hopefully soon :)

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I have been really enjoying this thread. As someone very close to goal I want to add that there are so many things that seem impossible, that suddenly are just not a big deal when you are thinner. My personal "dream" was to join an equestrian drill team. I love horses and riding but drill is fast and involves wearing spandex..lol. Anyway, now that I am doing it, I am not the fattest woman on the team and while it is fun it is no longer that "impossible" dream. It is just a thing that a normal, reasonably fit woman can do. I am a beginner at this particulat event, but I am pretty good at it. Wow, it makes you feel great.

Pole dancing is quite the theme here...lol... I think it is funny in a very great kind of way.

I wish all of us the very best at achieving these dreams. It is amazing what is possible once the body is fitter AND the mind recognizes that you don't need to be perfect to be sexy and fun. Trust me, as you get to goal you will start to go through all the typical "insecurities" that we have about our bodies only it will be worse because of loose skin and our history of obesity. There were times when I weighed say 190 that I felt fatter then I did at 290.... crazy, but true. Be prepared for that critical part of the journey, how to love yourself just as you are.

Well, if you feel it, feel that confidence, people around you will too! Perfection is not necessary - but a basic level of confidence, fitness (working out DOES pay off sisters!) and self love - well those things will take you a very long ways!

Happy New Years and a happy new and better life to all!!

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Visit my children's schools, TRAVEL !

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skiing and skydiving...ohh...and rollercoasters again!

I cannot wait to ride a roller coaster again! I told my kids that's the first thing we are going to do this summer, and I am sooooo excited!

My next thing I want to do is go on a cruise with my best friend :-)

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Zip lining, hiking, playing at the playground with my baby, walking, buying clothes I like and looking good in them and of course, more fun in the bedroom!!!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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