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Let's hear 5 purely positive things you are looking forward to doing/trying.

Things that will reward you for all your weight loss struggles that you will have finally overcome.

Things like - "going sledding with my kids."

NOT - "Not having to watch my kids go sledding without me because I'm too fat."

Get it?

Here are mine:

Going on a long overdue trip to Vegas with my husband.

Having sex, with him on top.

Riding bikes with my kids, if they can keep up with me!

Spending too much money on clothes because everything looks great on me, even light colors!

Buying big bulky cable knit sweaters because I so often get chilly.

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I am looking forward to:

Just pulling anything out of my closet to wear cause everything looks good on a skinny girl,

Walking 3 miles everyday cause it feels good,

Eating to live instead of living to eat,

Feeling sexy in a little black dress,

Dancing, dancing, dancing!

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I want to:

be off all of my medications

fit in an airplane seat without infringing upon my neighbor's space

walk to my heart's content

not sweat to death after picking up something off the floor

to have my husband be able to put his arms all the way around me.

It's the simple things in life.

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I am looking forward to:

Skydiving

Zip lining

Taking pictures in a bathing suit...woo hoo!!!

Clothes shopping...I am loving being a size 6!!

Maintaining a healthy weight

I have to yo-yo dieted for years, just seeing the scale keep going down is still mind blowing to me..I expect it to go back up as it always has...my mind has to catch up with my new body as I still feel like a fat girl in my head and my body is a LOT skinnier lol.

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Taking a helicopter ride to St. George Lighthouse

Being able to sit in any seat of the row at a theater show

Hike to Shirley Canyon in the Sierra's of CA

Bending over & putting on my snow shoes EASILY & my snow pants covering my ass

sleeping in a camper comfortably (not bottoming out on the foam..."ahhhh")

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finishing a triathalon

running circles around those 20-somethings on my softball team instead of being the old slow guy

being able to wear "one size fits all" garments

be outside with no shirt on and not feel self conscious

live long enough to be a dirty old man....who runs marathons

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*Roller scatting without fear

*Riding a bike without the seat being too small

*Wearing lingerie

*Wearing short sleeves/spaghetti straps

*Swinging at the playground without fear of it collapsing or not fitting on seat

*Wearing clothes in single digit number

*Stating true weight on DL

*Running

*Wearing a bathing suit

*Having my husband lift me off the floor for the first time

*Wearing a skirt

*Feeling sexy

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Sorry I got carried away...have been missing out on so much...

*playing with my one year old until he gets tired not I

Don't apologize!! U didnt get carried away, we all have a million things to look forward to. People of average or "thin" weight take all of these things for granted. It's amazing how such simple things in life give us so much pleasure

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Being able to run around with my 3 year old, being able to take him to theme parks and go on rides with him

Being able to give my son a little brother or sister

Being able to walk into every shop and being able to buy clothes off the rack.

Being able to go go to the beach or pool or Water park and not being stared at.

Being skinny for the first time in my 32 years. (well the first time I remember)

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Putting regular size towel around waist after shower and not having to hold it !

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