Toya, my sincerest and deepest condolences for you and your family.... I'm sorry to hear of such a tragedy. You are a strong and wonderful woman for putting yourself and your needs aside and being there for the wake and your family. As far as the blood clots, you are in my prayers and trust that the doctors will heal you. You are in a good place that will tend to your needs irregardless of your surgeon not being there for you. I'm sorry for that too but sorry for him bec he has no character and is spineless to let you sit this out alone. He is an @ss but our prayers for you at this time will go above him and his lack of medical ethics.... Please be strong and feel better. I'm sorry about the family. I'm a therapist and dealt with a lot of families, dysfunction and tragedies....
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