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Hello everybody, I can´t believe everything that´s happening to be before the surgery date in a week from today. My boyfriend has been helping me pay for the surgery for months now and I can´t believe we broke up a WEEK before the surgery... I think I am nervous about it that I am extra sensitive, I don´t know but I need someone to tell me that everything´s is going to be AMAZING because I have been waiting for this moment for a LONG time and I can´t believe I am facing this breakup plus surgery without him, he was like a husband to me. Anyways; I should be okay I am just shocked! I am getting my surgery on Sept 4 in México and have everything ready, expect his support....

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This is going to be amazing for you! you will recapture the skinny you and be so much happier. Sorry to hear your boyfriend bailed on you. It will work out one way or another. This is a good time to focus on you, changing your eating habits to more healthier eating habits, and healing. :)

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Thank you, yes I guess CHANGE is here for me! I can´t wait to get the Sleeve in a week I am sure once I do I will be reborn again and want to buy *new* smaller clothes and show them off! Thank you

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Oh man, that stinks, good luck with things. I am only two weeks out, but glad I had the surgery, I am in a stall right now and still happy. I did it for me. I know it will be hard on your own, but focus on yourself for a while. Make yourself happy and healthy.

I don't know why he left, maybe he was affraid. I know some poeple seem to be jelous and upset thinking I will loose weight, that I will no longer be 'the fat one'. They don't come out and say it, but that is what it feels like. Good luck. Make yourself your priority!

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I am sorry you are having issues but....YOU CAN DO THIS!!!! This is for you and no one can take this away from you! Best of luck!

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So sorry you are going through the break-up! Hold your head up, be strong and stay encouraged on your trip to get your sleeve... It will be amazing and you are strong enough to do this... You deserve it....DO IT FOR YOU. If it is meant for you to be with your boyfriend it will all work out but now you have to concentrate on you~

Praying for you and sending positive vibes your way

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