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Bettina, she did the same thing to me and I am a newbie, and never had any animosity toward her. I don't even know her. :) I was just reading posts to learn about the lapband, too. :D Then she attacks me for no reason. I have done nothing to her, yet she puts my name in a post and calls me a shark :o (at least, I think that is what she called me whatever that means.:) ) Man, if I was an easily provoked person I might have had words with her. :heh: But my mother always said to give people the benefit of the doubt. :D :clap2:

Yup I remember your name being there too!! Funny nobody wants it talked about --as if we are supposed to take it and not even defend ourselves...almost sounds like rape doesn't it?? I understand the bickering by the people heavily involved, they had a problem....but when that particular person -(notice I am not naming names I dont want to be associated with that same pool of people)--started pulling us in because we happened to be on the board is so totally wrong!!

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Yep, that is definitely why he is the ex. Worked out for me though, I married the greatest love of my life so it was a blessing in disguise.

Don't worry Brooklynn, I went a bit OT, but that seems to happen here a lot lately.

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Yep, that is definitely why he is the ex. Worked out for me though, I married the greatest love of my life so it was a blessing in disguise.

I believe everything happens for a reason, congrats on finding the love of your life!!

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I believe everything happens for a reason, congrats on finding the love of your life!!

Yeah, sometimes we have to go thru the duds to get to the soulmates!! Tis all worth it in the end though!!!!

LIVE LOVE LAUGH

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Bettina,

I could understand her calling us out, if we had at least done something to her, but to do nothing to someone, and for them to try to put someone's head on a platter... :) I'm just glad it's over. I have my lapband done September 6. I am so excited! :biggrin1: :biggrin1: We just need to focus on our lapbands, and not let anyone try to get us down. Good luck! :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2:

Yup I remember your name being there too!! Funny nobody wants it talked about --as if we are supposed to take it and not even defend ourselves...almost sounds like rape doesn't it?? I understand the bickering by the people heavily involved, they had a problem....but when that particular person -(notice I am not naming names I dont want to be associated with that same pool of people)--started pulling us in because we happened to be on the board is so totally wrong!!

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Bettina,

I could understand her calling us out, if we had at least done something offensive to her, but to do nothing to someone, and they try to put your head on a platter... :) I'm just glad it's over. I have my lapband done September 6. I am so excited! :biggrin1: :biggrin1: We just need to focus on our lapbands and not let anyone try to get us down. Hopefully, our lapband procedures will work. :clap2: :clap2: Good luck.

Hey next week, good luck. Are you excited or nervous?

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Bettina,

I could understand her calling us out, if we had at least done something offensive to her, but to do nothing to someone, and they try to put your head on a platter... :o I'm just glad it's over. I have my lapband done September 6. I am so excited! :biggrin1: :biggrin1: We just need to focus on our lapbands and not let anyone try to get us down. Hopefully, our lapband procedures will work. :clap2: :clap2: Good luck.

OMG Sept 6th...so exciting. Ummm did you say hopefully our band procedures will work? :D Slap yourself woman of course it will....:) , we are gonna do this and be successful!!!! 3 days for you. No more negativity on these boards :D --its bad karma....we don't want that now do we? :) I am so excited for you. Nervous yet? Did you have to do liquids this last week? I go in on 9/27..whoo hoo!! Omg i can't sit still...lol I will probably fidgit the weight off by the time the actual surgery date gets here...ha ha wouldn't that be funny!!:omg:

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Obviously no one read my postings and really thought about WHY we are all doing this. Sometimes you can't just spin your wheels on things. Oh well.... I tried. But I won't give up on you all. I am here for anyone that wants to use me as their sounding board. I have thick skin (not as thick as it used to be :) but still thick)

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everytime i try to log in, it goes right to a hack site!!

Someone respond to this so i can see if it just me or not...thanks

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I am nervous. Big time. I am also being banded by Dr. Ortiz.< img src="https://s.bariatricpal.com/uploads/emoticons/default_smile.png" alt=":)" srcset="https://s.bariatricpal.com/uploads/emoticons/smile@2x.png 2x" width="20" height="20" />

Don't worry, his office was like a well oiled machine. You'll do great, remember relax it helps you heal quicker.

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OMG Sept 6th...so exciting. Ummm did you say hopefully our band procedures will work? :o Slap yourself woman of course it will....:) , we are gonna do this and be successful!!!! 3 days for you. No more negativity on these boards :D --its bad karma....we don't want that now do we? :) I am so excited for you. Nervous yet? Did you have to do liquids this last week? I go in on 9/27..whoo hoo!! Omg i can't sit still...lol I will probably fidgit the weight off by the time the actual surgery date gets here...ha ha wouldn't that be funny!!:omg:

Yes, I am on the liquid fast. It's going pretty good with some small lapses, but I am going to stick to it, to a tee from here on out. :biggrin1: That's my story and I'm sticking to it. :D Thanks for the encouragement! This will work. I am going to give it my best shot. :bandit :bandit :bandit :bandit :bandit :bandit :bandit :bandit

I am very fidgety, also. I can't wait! :) :)

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