Just a little rant...

[Instyle98 240]

I guess I'm just venting a little, so I do not expect replies or things to change but... FILL OUT YOUR PROFILES PEOPLE! You come here for information, support, help, etc. read all of our posts in which many of us put it all out there, but give little to no information about yourselves. It's hard to give helpful advice, share experience or relate to someone who tells you nothing in return. Look - I get it! I was new here once myself and very reluctant to share my personal information. I'm generally a very private person and to share on the internet, the one most revealing, private, humiliating and shameful fact about myself - my weight - was terrifying. But, would any of us be here if we weren't in the same boat? Unless you're really weird, have no life and enjoy reading about people's struggles with their weight and all of the funny, sad, bizarre and boring stuff that goes with it (I certainly hope not) why would you be here?. If you want to spy on people there are many more truly exciting places to do it!

Most, if not all, are not here to judge anyone. Well it does seem to happen sometimes but I think it's simply because that's the nature of the beast. Take away one of life's greatest enjoyments, best friend, best panacea, and not see all of that weight fall off overnight can make anyone cranky, temperamental and generally unpleasant, but no matter how you cut it, we all want the same thing. To me this forum is my private place where I can share my struggles, doubts and successes no matter how large or small with folks that understand. It's my weight loss group therapy and just like real group therapy, I don't gossip about what I read here or talk about particular people outside of this forum. Yes, I may comment to someone about something I read, usually because I'm amazed at their success, identify with them, like their advice or even worry about them, but I don't give out names, particulars, etc. I get true inspiration, insight, ideas, motivation, encouragement and more from many that share their experiences. Here's a shocking revelation for you just in case you don't know - it's no secret that you are overweight or obese! It's the one thing that you can't hide. Everyone knows! You are (or were) fat or you shouldn't be here. On top of that overweight people have unfortunately become a majority. Having to struggle with something only makes you human. If you truly want to get something from here, then you have to give something. Now is the time to be honest with yourself and others and get real!

Sorry, but it had to be said. Don't tell me many of you weren't thinking the same thing! I'm done now. Just to reiterate, I do not expect things to change and profiles to suddenly start getting filled out, nor do I expect replies. JMHO. Have a nice day and eat to live, not live to eat!

[2muchfun 8,928]

Good post but I've given up on the profile request. So many new members are here via cell phone apps and kindle now. I have a kindle I use occasionally and it's just not the same. I can't upload pictures, view pictures and have no idea how to access my profile. But you're right, more information is better.

[sp70 193]

As a newer member, I found it very difficult to put info in the profile, sometimes, I had to enter info multiple times before it stayed. It took me 3 weeks and multiple attempts to get a picture to upload. I use my laptop, and no, I am not the most computer savvy person. Does anyone know if there is a place where you can find directions on how to load pictures and enter data? That might be a little helpful as well. I saw another post this morning where someone mentioned having a hard time starting a thread and updating there status.

I totally get what you are saying! (just looking from the other side)

[2muchfun 8,928]

As a newer member, I found it very difficult to put info in the profile, sometimes, I had to enter info multiple times before it stayed. It took me 3 weeks and multiple attempts to get a picture to upload. I use my laptop, and no, I am not the most computer savvy person. Does anyone know if there is a place where you can find directions on how to load pictures and enter data? That might be a little helpful as well. I saw another post this morning where someone mentioned having a hard time starting a thread and updating there status.

I totally get what you are saying! (just looking from the other side)

At the very bottom of this page is a link "Help". Click on it.

[Deed2u 26]

As a newer member, I found it very difficult to put info in the profile, sometimes, I had to enter info multiple times before it stayed. It took me 3 weeks and multiple attempts to get a picture to upload. I use my laptop, and no, I am not the most computer savvy person. Does anyone know if there is a place where you can find directions on how to load pictures and enter data? That might be a little helpful as well. I saw another post this morning where someone mentioned having a hard time starting a thread and updating there status.

I totally get what you are saying! (just looking from the other side)

Hey I was also banded on May 6th! I have only lost 13lbs. Your weight loss is unbelievable! Did you have to do a pre op diet? I did not...but my weight is coming off slowly... just had my first fill yesterday, they put in 4cc's and I am not hungry... all I had yesterday was Clear liquids and I am attempting to have some Soup now, but not very hungry. I just wanted to congratulate you on your weight loss. I want to lose a total of 70 lbs. My weight started at 216 and I was 203 this morning. What are some of the foods that you are eating?

[jsws91 153]

I cannot update profile on my phone app and last time I logged in with my laptop I could not either. when I first set up my account I could but can't seem to access it now... im not hiding any info about my surgery, just can't update..

[Instyle98 240]

Did you try clicking on your user name at the top (on the blue bar) and on the drop down menu click on My Profile or My Patient Profile, etc.?

[jsws91 153]

for some reason I can't even get the sign on screen to come up on either of my laptops.

[jsws91 153]

I tried with chrome instead of internet explorer, I have it working now..

[Jen G 3]

I am on my phone and do not see a profile option anywhere.