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I know I'm too tight and need to go back for another unfill tomorrow (got .2 out last Tuesday) but I haven't eaten anything in almost two weeks and I feel so desperate to get some kind of nutrition amd Water doesn't even stay down so I know I'm dehydrated too. This just doesn't make since, I only have 5cc in my band and before my last fill I was at 5 and able to eat pretty much anything...

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First and foremost, if you are dehydrated go to the ER.

Second, you need to realize the amount of Fluid in your band is meaningless, all that matters is how you feel. Some have tons of restriction with very little Fluid and others have no restriction with a lot of fluid. It's all dependent on your anatomy. The amount of fluid is completely irrelevant.

Seriously, go to the ER. They may even call your doc (or another bariatric surgeon) to come take some fluid out for you immediately.

Best wishes.

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I called an er last week and was all but laughed at and told they don't know how to do that, plus I heard too many horror stories on here about the er which freaks me out.

I only mentioned the amount because when I was at this level 2 weeks ago I could eat normally not because I think it should be more or less

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But if you go to the ER, they can hook you up to an IV to hydrate you. Then at least you'll be ok until you can call your surgeon tomorrow.

You don't have to let them touch your band, just get the necessary fluids in you to make sure you don't put your health in jeopardy.

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You haven't eaten for 2 weeks and you can't drink either? Don't you think that is an emergency? I would far rather go to ER and let them help me than do nothing and risk dying from dehydration.

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Missy-- I'm hearing fear from you and I understand. I agree w/elcee. You sound scared and confused and we want to help. Go to the ER. I've been through this too and my band is in great shape (4.5 yrs). You are dehydrated and your tissues are irritated. That causes swelling inside and that closes things up. You need Fluid. You probably need to get more unfilled. You need to let it rest so the swelling goes down. You will feel so much better once they take X-rays to make sure your band is OK. It is easier to know what is happening and address the causes than to guess and worry. If you wait -- you could be doing damage.

Best wishes

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I concur with the ladies here. You need to go to the ER. Regardless of why you are dehydrated, you are and you need fluids. They will hook you up to an IV and give you the fluids your body needs. If its that bad, you may need more than one. Do not risk your health. It is not worth it.

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Ok, I'm going now

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I hope everything goes well. I am in a similar situation but it only started yesterday. I haven't been able to eat today due to burping. It's too painful to eat or drink (the same feeling you get when you get stuck)

I called my surgeon and he said go to the ER for unfill or if you can keep liquids down wait until Monday and go to the office.

Please let us know how everything turn out.

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You got excellent advice. Weight loss won't matter if your no longer with us! Take care of yourself and let us know how your doing! Best wishes :)

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Mondays a hoilday so some places will be close be sure to call. Hope his work out jus fine and that u went to the er. i know is no fun there but we need you around.

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I went and they gave me fluids, some pain meds through iv and my labs were ok. BP is still on the low side but better than before the fluids. Praying the office is open tomorrow. Thanks for everyones advice and well wishes

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Having Fluid removed in a few minutes...can't wait to be able to drink without fear!

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She took a whole cc out and said that she thinks the band is super irritated and needs a rest, hope this does the trick!

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She took a whole cc out and said that she thinks the band is super irritated and needs a rest, hope this does the trick!

I'm so glad you went for an unfill. I'd stick to liquids for a day or so if I were you, just to give your stomach time to calm and the inflammation to go down.

Keep in touch and let us know how you are feeling!

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