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Hey there! How is everyone? I havent been around lately! Things are going okay. I met a guy who has the lap band sugery who lost 200 pounds in ONE YEAR!!! Hes a co worker of mine and we went out for coffee the other day. Its interesting to see how other people keep their minds in check. I think I am having a problem with where I am mentally (well pertaining to the lapband) and need to try and get back to support group....but its good having him....Hes at work and we talk on the computer...good source of support.

Things are going well with me and my son moving out. My son was over his fathers house for the weekend and was there Saturday night into Sunday morning. My X called me and said Someone wants to talk to you....My son got on the phone and said HEY THERE MY MOMMY! The X took the phone back and said, He wants to come home. Hes been asking for you ever since he woke up~ Then he said WOULD YOU LOOK AT THIS KID! Our son packed his own bag!!! With ever last stich of clothing he had at the house.....THEN our son DRESSED HIMSELF. I think if the lil boy could have gotten out of the house he would have walked home!!! I told my X that its very important for him to plan things to DO with our son when he gets him~ I think it went in one ear and out the other...We are supose to go to court at the end of the month for custody.

AIGHT I hope everyone is well. I will talk to you all soon~

SOPRANOS IS BACK ON TONIGHT~~~~ANYONE ELSE OUT THERE AS EXCITED AS I AM?? I LOVE TONY SOPRANO!! OH MY GOD. ANYONE REMEMBER THAT PARTY GAME FIVE MINUTES OF HEAVEN! I WANT MY TURN IN THE CLOSET TO BE WITH TONY SOPRANO~~~ OOOOO MY GOD. I WOULDN'T BE IN THERE FIVE MINTUES THOU MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH :clap2:

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Hey Woman !! Muaaaaaaaaahhahahahahaha :)

Sounds like your little guy is veddddy smart. I'm glad he wanted his Mommy.

The guy that lost 200 lbs sounds awesome. How close is he to goal? What a great source of knowledge, and its great to have a buddy close by thats going thru the same thing you are.

I'm sorry your going through some rough times right now... *HUGS*

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Hey Porcln, welcome back! Good to hear things are going well--good luck with that custody hearing. Fingers crossed that everything comes out the way you want it. Stay strong--it will all be over soon.

How cool to have a band buddy at work! I'm sure you will bring a lot of support to one another. :)

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Hey Doll, I haven't talked much with you one on one but I did notice you hadn't been around! I figured your prankster friend pulled a really good one on your or something. *chuckles*

Custody battles - NO fun for anyone involved. Best wishes to all involved.

Tell us more about your buddy. Better yet, bring him here with his before and after pics! :) *hugs*

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the guy at work has about 150 more to go till he reaches goal i think. he is very helpful to have around. he isnt the kind of person that would snatch the cookie outta your mouth but he would give you a mean fuzzy eyebrow....ehehehe ..... im down to the final fitty and its always been hard for me to break that 200 mark. i always get to this weight and then blow it...i can't blow it that bad with the band.....but i know i gotta work harder. i made it thru the holidays and the most stressful time in my life without gainning, which was a mirical.....but now its all me~~ i gotta get my head back in the game. my co worker will help me....im sure

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Hugs Doll! I hope that the custody thing works out for you. I envy you your Lap Band pal... I think that would be great!!

Good to see you!

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