Two weeks ago I had a post regarding problems that my fiance' and I were having regarding weight issues etc. First, I'd like to thank everyone for their support and opinions. Secondly, I'd like to let you know that after that night we had a long talk and it seems that his insecurities are coming from other issues we are facing, not specifically weight related. We are seeking counseling with our Pastor before our wedding, and fiance' has even agreed to follow the stages of the post-op diet with me. It's amazing what a little support and unconditional love can do--(not to mention being open and honest which sometimes facing my demons can be difficult too) Just an update for anyone who may have read my post.

My surgery is 12/28 and I am beyond excited--nervous but excited!

Take care!

ahhh, good news! You two are headed in the right direction. I'm so happy for you! Thanks for the update. Good job on the counseling. Yay you!

I hope you have a fast and easy recover from surgery. I also wish you the best with your future hubby~Mandy

Great news! Good luck with your surgery! I have a great Hubby but he could never hack to post op diet so cut the guy some slack -- just willing to try it is farther than most "others" would do -- you're lucky!