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Surgery date 12/17 !!!but eating more than ever :(



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Ahhhhh! Im gaining weight too! I keep eating everything and anything because i tell myself i wont be able to after surgery. My surgery is Dec 20th and will have to do a 2 week liquid diet so I figure I can stuff my face now until then. I know it's bad!

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I LOVE cooking and being creative with my cooking (I post a lot of dinner everyday. I cook with fresh organic ingredients, and I try to experiment with new flavors and healthier ways of cooking things (including sweets and desserts!)...and so I'm trying to find the same excitement that I used to have for crap food with food that is healthy and nourishing. And its working. I know not everyone shares my enthusiasm for cooking, but I think if you do like to cook, its very helpful to do it when you have the band. My fiance and I used to eat out everyday...now I really don't see a need to eat out very often since I can probably make something more delicious and fresh at home and I don't have to worry about my food being drowned in fat and oil.

thanks for posting this. I am a foodie, and enjoy cooking and eating different foods. As of late I've had thoughts about will I be able to enjoy cooking the way I used to, will I still be able to enjoy variety? I am definitley someone who cannot eat the same thing everyday. I really like to mix it up and try new things.

I think I enjoy cooking WAY more now than I did before banding. Before, I would just dump whatever into the food regardless of its nutritional value (or rather, lack thereof). I knew it was unhealthy. It might've tasted decadent at the moment, but later I would just feel sick. I remember (before banding) I made this lobster mac and cheese with a corn bread butter crust on top. There must've been 10 pounds of the fullest fat cheese I could find in there, plus an extra pound for the top, and the corn bread was SOAKED in butter (probably an entire stick..I can't remember, but it was a lot). While I was eating it, I was like "Wow, best thing ever". An hour later I felt SO sick I almost vomited. I couldn't even enjoy it, it was just so rich and full of fat - my body was like "that's not gonna fly". I love that my food tastes fresher and lighter these days. I can actually enjoy the flavors of the individual ingredients (or appreciate the blend of flavors, as the case may be).

As for variety, this was my dinner menu for the past week:

- Red and Napa Cabbage salad with homemade peanut sauce and tofu and shrimp skewers

- Seafood Paella Espania with Quinoa (instead of rice)

- Baked whole wheat mac and cheese with spinach and tomatoes (I didn't need 20 pounds of cheese and butter to make it delicious, and best of all, I didn't feel disgusting afterward)

- Salmon stuffed with brie and asparagus with a homemade pesto 'crust'

- Spicy Shrimp and Tofu Thai Red Curry hot pot

- Baked scallops in a garlic, thyme and white wine sauce

- Jumbo Lump Maryland Style Crabcakes (without bread crumbs...makes it low cal and band friendly...the bread crumbs make it tougher to eat and sometimes it gets stuck for me)

In the past week I also made sugar free red velvet cupcakes with homemade cream cheese frosting and a crustless Peanut Butter pie (so rich and yummy). I love experimenting with baking too (removing fat, trying different sugar substitutes, reducing flour, using fat free ingredients, etc.). I'll always have a sweet tooth, so low-cal, healthier Desserts are really important to me.

I post a lot of recipes on my blog - so if you need ideas, check it out!

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My surgeon did not require a preop diet. In spite of that I managed to lose weight between the seminar and surgery 6 weeks later. I didn't 'diet' but I was more conscious about what I was eating. I tried to make good choices rationalizing that I would 'feel' a lot better if I didn't go into surgery bloated.

I see a lot of people posting about how they overdo it prior to surgery because they feel they'll never be able to eat like this again after surgery. The reality is that you most likely will...even when you're overfilled. The difference will be that when the band is doing its job in supressing your appetite, you won't be hungry and your obsession with food will most likely disappear.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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