Heartbroken

[magic699 0]

Well, those of you that know my story remember that I have really been busting my rear to get everything done in order to have my surgery. I got my approval this a.m. and then called Dr. Bauman's office to tell them. He does not have an opening to do it before my insurance quits covering. I knew this was a possibility- but it is still hard to accept. I have worked so hard to get everything done. I was really hoping this would be my Christmas miracle. The only chance I have is for someone to cancel or reschedule.

I have really enjoyed this site. And have learned tons!!! Thank you for all the support you have given me. My prayers will continue to be with you all.

[Mrs Sabre 1]

Our prayers go with you! I believe in miracles. Someone could still cancel or reschedule.

I don't know if it's a possibility or not, but have you called any other surgeon's offices, i.e. Prebeterian Hospital's Bariatric center?

Is RNY an option? If so, Dr. Kuwada or someone at CMC might be able to operate?

[magic699 0]

Karen, you are so sweet. No, I really don't know what to do. Especially with this being the 12th of December. I guess I just need to pray for a miracle.

[gordonfamily3 0]

Oh hang in there....Keep your faith and prayers going and you never know what will happen. It's worth a try to call another Dr. I know Dr. Voellinger is staying and has opened his own pratice. I don't know what his schedule is like but you could try calling them. Also don't give up on your insurance. Check with them that since you got your approval if it's schedule in Jan could they still cover? I would ask and lastly...until Jan 06 is here you want know for sure if your insurance is going to cover it not. It could be something that slips back in there at the last minute...

Hang in there we are still praying for you...also there is no need to leave us...we can still be great support for you in any journey you have. I said today and I will say it again...this is my family!!!!

[ladysplenda 1]

Check with other doctors it is not to late.Do not give up.Were rooting for you.

[HarleyNana 10]

Yeah, I'd find the next closest doctor, don't give up.

[sunsett 2]

Hang in there, you know that if it is meant to be it will be done. Don't give up! Maybe even go into the offices and see if the face to face plead would help.

Good Luck,

[magic699 0]

Where is Dr. Voellinger? I remember calling his office when I first started, trying to find a dr. But I think they told me there just wasn't enough time. How good is the office staff there? Those of you that has dealt with them- is there anyone you think I should talk to? Dr. B is taking off the week before and the week after Christmas. That is why his schedule is so tight.

Is there anyone here that has gotten into a pretty good relationship with someone who works there that might would try to help me? I am really drawing at straws, huh? At this point, I can't be embarrassed- I'm to the point of begging. Swallowing my pride.

It looks like December would be a slower month for surgeries.

A little background, I am a 48 year old mom to 4. 5 years ago I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis. Immediately, it grabbed hold of me and has turned me inside out. I have ALOT of pain. I am currently taking a medication that is $6000 mo. Thank goodness my ins. co. has been paying it. I only pay $35 as a co-pay. There are lots of days I cannot walk well or even walk at all. This lack of being able to move my body around is what has caused my weight to go up, up, up. I wanted this surgery to help get weight off of my joints so that I can live a part way normal life. I'm just not ready to be in the bed or wheelchair yet. The dr. says the one thing he would guarantee would help with this disease is weight loss. I was seeing a light at the end of the tunnel and it's just hard to have it taken away from you. I've always been the type to want to lose by a mile than by an inch. Too frustrating.

You all are more than welcome to find me a dr. tomorrow. LOL Not any dr., a dr. with openings!!! :)

[HeatherGurl 0]

A lot of people cancel last minute... Just make sure they know how important it is for you to have this done, and that you would be there in 10 minutes if someone cancels.

[sunsett 2]

Dr. Voellinger is at Presbyterian. You can ask to speak to Bobbie, she maybe able to help you.

Good luck. I'll say a prayer for you.

[sunsett 2]

What a dork I am!! Congrats on your date!

[wishiwas 0]

I was in the same situation as you. I had Anthem insurance. I did all the pre-op weight loss, and got to meet with the surgeon. She was a little concerned about my blood clotting levels and asked me to see a specialist. My company changed insurance companies 1 week later!

I had to start all over again with Cigna (which you need to track six month progress).

I gave up on July 1st last year, gained all of my pre-op weight back (35+ pounds). I finally got back on track 2 months ago but this time, I joined a gym (Planet Fitness, only $10 a month!)

[Ready4it 0]

Did you end up getting it???

[wishiwas 0]

No I am now on my pre-op diet again. I need to loose 32 pounds. I have already lost 14. I need to go to the gym more often.

[sunsett 2]

Good luck to you it is so worth it.

When is your surgery and who is your Dr?