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Hi, all,

After an 8 month wait, I finally became a bandster on 2/26...SOOO happy and relieved to get past that hanging-on-the-edge stage and really start my new life! I'm encouraged with my progress so far (the ticker reflects how I've come along since starting my preop Medifast on 1/23). I have some discomfort, but nothing that's intolerable, and since I know it's temporary, it's not a big deal. On Clear liquids only until Friday, then can move to full...the surgeon will reevaluate how things are going when I see him on the 8th, and we'll progress from there.

I know that the changes before me will be profound, not only physically, but psychologically...I would love to connect with someone who can share that journey.

A couple of other stats...I'm 51, married, no children. Work as a Senior Program Analyst for a government contractor. Live in West Virginia just now, but permanently relocating to Florida in the fall.

Thanks much!!

Christine

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HI Christine!

So glad all seems to be going well for you! Welcome to the loosers bench! You have made a great descision! I've had my band for 10 months now and lost 106 pounds...I love my band! Off 6 different meds and just feel so amazing! It's been a miracle for me! You have also found a great site to come for help and "shoulders"! The people here are awesome! :thumbup: Good luck with everything and keep us posted! Take Care!

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U LaDawn

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Hi, all,

After an 8 month wait, I finally became a bandster on 2/26...SOOO happy and relieved to get past that hanging-on-the-edge stage and really start my new life! I'm encouraged with my progress so far (the ticker reflects how I've come along since starting my preop Medifast on 1/23). I have some discomfort, but nothing that's intolerable, and since I know it's temporary, it's not a big deal. On Clear Liquids only until Friday, then can move to full...the surgeon will reevaluate how things are going when I see him on the 8th, and we'll progress from there.

I know that the changes before me will be profound, not only physically, but psychologically...I would love to connect with someone who can share that journey.

A couple of other stats...I'm 51, married, no children. Work as a Senior Program Analyst for a government contractor. Live in West Virginia just now, but permanently relocating to Florida in the fall.

Thanks much!!

Christine

Welcome Christine, You have made a great decision. I have been on this journey for almost 6 years and would be more than happy to share my experiences with you. I have been successful (250 pounds lost) and am feeling great for a 61 year old woman - certainly better than I did at 50! How are you doing - are you still on liquids?

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Thanks for replying, Sandi!! It sounds like you have a wealth of experience, which is just what I need!

Yep, I'm still on clear liquids...my surgeon keeps all his patients on clears for 7 days after surgery...so, Saturday, I'm really looking forward to moving on to full liquids...who would have known that I think of Cream of Wheat much as I used to think about filet mignon? :)

While I was still in the preop phase, I went out to the Bariatric Eating site and invested in a variety of Protein supplements, so there wasn't much risk in getting bored. In particular, I got some bulk powders?utm_source=BariatricPal&utm_medium=Affiliate&utm_campaign=CommentLink" target="_ad" data-id="1" >unjury unflavored, so I can boost the Protein count for different foods. Some of what I purchased looks absolutely yummy. My first postop visit is on Monday- we'll see how long Dr. McKenna decides to keep me on full liquids before moving to purees.

I have no Fluid in the band, and won't for a while longer, but I can definitely tell the difference...if I drink too much, or too fast, I get uncomfortable, a definitely signal to STOP. I would imagine that's because there's still a fair bit of swelling? And, well...it's still pretty WINDY here at home...how long did that phase last for you?

Otherwise, honestly, I feel better than I thought I would at only 5 days postop! Last night, I slept through without any pain meds on board. Walking up and down the hallway in my home as much as I can; I'll do some outdoor walking this weekend, when the weather improves. My birthday was yesterday- my husband, bless him, bought me a new pair of Sketchers WalkFits as a gift.

Looking forward to our conversations- my email is chrisdirects@comcast.net, if you'd like to talk that way as well.

Thanks again for extending a hand!

Christine

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Thank you so very much for your encouragement, LaDawn...will look forward to talking with you along the way!

Best, Christine

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Thanks for replying, Sandi!! It sounds like you have a wealth of experience, which is just what I need!

Yep, I'm still on clear liquids...my surgeon keeps all his patients on clears for 7 days after surgery...so, Saturday, I'm really looking forward to moving on to full liquids...who would have known that I think of Cream of Wheat much as I used to think about filet mignon? :)

While I was still in the preop phase, I went out to the Bariatric Eating site and invested in a variety of Protein supplements, so there wasn't much risk in getting bored. In particular, I got some bulk unjury unflavored, so I can boost the Protein count for different foods. Some of what I purchased looks absolutely yummy. My first postop visit is on Monday- we'll see how long Dr. McKenna decides to keep me on full liquids before moving to purees.

I have no Fluid in the band, and won't for a while longer, but I can definitely tell the difference...if I drink too much, or too fast, I get uncomfortable, a definitely signal to STOP. I would imagine that's because there's still a fair bit of swelling? And, well...it's still pretty WINDY here at home...how long did that phase last for you?

Otherwise, honestly, I feel better than I thought I would at only 5 days postop! Last night, I slept through without any pain meds on board. Walking up and down the hallway in my home as much as I can; I'll do some outdoor walking this weekend, when the weather improves. My birthday was yesterday- my husband, bless him, bought me a new pair of Sketchers WalkFits as a gift.

Looking forward to our conversations- my email is chrisdirects@comcast.net, if you'd like to talk that way as well.

Thanks again for extending a hand!

Christine

The windy city deal can last for a while...just be patient- it's the drastic change in diet probably. And the restriction you feel when you drink is probably due to swelling...but I felt restriction and didn't require a fill for a long timeso who knows. Just take it one day at a time right now. I am so glad you're feeling better. Every day keeps getting better- just don't overdo it. I have started a blog (a retrospective) of my experiences over the last 5+ years and you will probably get a kick out of this post

Recovering # 002: What Have I Done? Or – The Day After Lapband Surgery – May 29, 2004

I'd be interested in your feedback.

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