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illuminationlady

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Everything posted by illuminationlady

  1. My doctor, too, expects you to lose weight. He keeps statistics and when I don't do well it hurts his statistics. I went on vacation for an 18 day road trip and gained 5 lbs. I caught holy hell for that. I have since lost 6 lbs. and he saw me in the hallway and high fived me (I saw his PA the second time). But back to the original post, I was well informed by my doctors, and this message board. I was very educated and it has been a long wait to start really losing. But worth it! I love my band!!!
  2. Yes, these are soft signs telling you that you've had enough to eat. The same thing happens to me, every time! Best wishes!!!
  3. Why would he take saline out if your not losing any weight? That doesn't make sense. Congrats on losing 45 lbs. Be proud of that fact and talk to your doctor as to why he would do that. Best wishes!
  4. I have 5.9 in a 10 band and have restriction. Everyone is different.
  5. As stated above there are times that have been tough. Waiting for restriction is difficult. Without restriction you are hungry. I am four months out and just now am getting true restriction and the weight is coming off. But I also agree that I have no regrets in getting the band. I love my band. I KNOW I will never be 287 again! That's a really good feeling...So, my answer is No, no regrets!!!
  6. My DH hugged me twice today and said things like, "Wow! You're skinny! I can really tell a difference!" He called me tiny (even though I know I'm not) Is he awesome, or what?????? It made me feel soooo good....My weight is coming off slowly but surely. I love my band :scared2:
  7. It took me 5 fills to reach restriction and 4 months of careful eating to not gain any weight! But now that I'm there it is much easier but I have to work at it still.
  8. This is all true. I am finally there also. Where I have restriction! It is heaven! It took 4 months for me to get there but I finally have it and it is wonderful. All you out there awaiting restriction, hang in there...it will come...
  9. Some people are hungry, some are not. My daughter was banded on the 16th of March and still has no desire to eat. I was banded on the 16 of Dec. and I had a lot of hunger until I got restriction recently. Now I am not hungry any more and it is wonderful. So, to answer your question, you are normal....Best wishes...
  10. Very Inspirational to me at this point in my journey. Best wishes!!!
  11. I get the hiccups almost everytime I eat. So, I would say, yes, it's band related.
  12. I agree with the other poster. If I was hungry and could eat anything and my doc wouldn't do a fill it would make me very angry. Especially since you are newly banded and have only 3 ccs. Most times it takes several fills to get to your sweet spot. You know your body best and he should have listened to you. Find a new doctor.
  13. I know you waited a long time to get there but am glad you finally are there!!! Congrats on being banded for 6 months. You are doing great on your weight loss.
  14. Leigha, I wouldn't worry. It's probably fine. I'll say a special prayer that nothing happened. You really should stick to mushies today and try to eat some solid protein tomorrow. When did this happen? Are you still hungry? It's probably okay but just try and hang in there and don't worry!!!
  15. Congrats to Anne and all the rest on all your victories. I love reading all of your posts. It is most entertaining. However, as little I'm on the computer, it's difficult to respond to all. But my prayers and thoughts are with you all!!! I went to the doctor's office on Monday and saw the PA. I lost 6 lbs. in two weeks. The doctor saw me in the hallway and high fived me. He saw me last time after my 18 day road trip, where I gained 5 lbs. He was not happy with me. Well, it's gone (the 6lbs) and according to the PA I'm either at my sweet spot or almost there. I told her that I eat a less than a cup of food per meal and stay full for 4-5 hours at a time. I drink my 64 oz. of liquids a day. Eat my Protein first and am bascially on a protein diet. And the weight came off. So, I'm staying the course and hoping for even more...I did not get a fill and am at 5.9 in a 10 band. Will check in with her in a month but if I start to get hungry am instructed to contact her sooner. I have to say my doctor's office really sticks close to their patients. I am, overall, very happy with the care there. Take care all...thinking of you always...Dottie
  16. The OP does not surprise me at all. I am 4 months out and just now feeling "true restriction". The "wait time" after being banded is a long period. I have even heard of people who didn't start losing until after a years time. But if you keep close to your doctor and communicate and have patience it pays off. Best wishes!!!
  17. Good Morning and Happy Saturday to everyone! I have been busy reading all of your posts and am now building a farm in Farmville...yes, Bob got me addicted...lol. I have lost the five pounds I gained on my road trip and am sticking to my diet. I go to the doctor on Monday and am, like Leigha, debating on getting a fill. I can eat small amounts and am losing weight. The hunger seems to be under control at this point in time. So, I don't know what to do. I guess I'll let the doctor decide. Denise, I'm glad you're feeling better. I have been praying for you. Betsy, How is Mark? Also, praying for you and him. Stacie, I suffer from anxiety and depression also. Can relate to this big time!!! Leigha, I would listen to your body. If you think you need the fill get it. If not, don't. Don't let the money be an issue...just my opinion. It's absolutely beautiful outside today so I'm going to read on my back porch and enjoy my flowers. Take care and have a great weekend everyone!! Love, Dottie
  18. Once you reach "true restriction", after several fills, usually, it lasts forever. I am finally there and am 4 months out. It took a long time to get there but it has stayed with me this time. Best wishes!!!
  19. I had the same problem and am just now getting the restriction needed. As other posters recommended just get enough protein and drink a lot of water. It was everything I could do to just maintain my weight during this period. Some call it Bandster Hell because you're soooo hungry and yet you have a band now. Take care. Best wishes!!!
  20. Did you see Dr. Phil yesterday? He did a show on children and obesity and he discussed becoming insulin resistant. I can't explain all of it but it had to do with this very subject. Maybe Betsy, our nurse, can explain better. It was very interesting. The scale is moving in the right direction now. Thank God!!!
  21. My doctor puts 3 ccs in when doing the surgery. I had to have this removed due to the fact that I was throwing up and nauseated. So, I left with an empty band. But my daughter just had the same surgeon, same surgery and she did okay. She has 3 ccs.
  22. My doc says no water for 20 min. after slider foods such as a shake.
  23. Good morning my friends. Not a lot to report here. Planted some pretty annuals in my garden yesterday. I have not been weighing myself lately only because I was becoming obsessed with it and am trying to get away from going out to the garage to weigh myself every hour...lol. I don't really think I'm at my sweet spot yet because of the hunger. I go for another fill a week from now and will discuss this with my doctor. But I haven't gained anything during this trying period and without the band I would have. Bobbie...you sound just like me. I have many of the ailments that you have too. I don't know what I would do without my health insurance. I am praying hard you'll find a good job. Take care of yourself. Well, just checking in. Love you guys...
  24. I hiccup all the time. Almost every time I eat!
  25. Leigha, Woot! Woot! You look awesome!!! Bobbie, Prayers and good thoughts your way!! Betsy, Always prayers your way!! Everything is status quo here. to you too Denise. Just checking in reading the boards. Hugs to everyone....

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