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I have been reading up on ear stapling. I can't believe I haven't heard of this before. It does sound interesting. I don't know if it would benefit us because of the bands or not. If so, I would consider getting it. I have other cartilage piercings so I can't imagine the pain being an issue for me. Let me know what you find out.

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Your story is very inspiring! Thanks for sharing it with us! The love that you two share and the commitment to helping one another lose the weight is beautiful. You both look amazing! Congratulations!

sg_sg, 30 lbs. and 2 pants sizes is awesome!! Way to go! Keep up the good work! my progress: well, I have taken off 82 lbs. and down 6 pant sizes. I have been overwhelmingly pleased! It hasn't been easy but well worth it. If someone would have told me a year ago that I would be getting up at 4:00 a.m. to get on the treadmill and then exercising more when I got home from work, I would have told them they were crazy but that's my reality now. hardest thing: when my band got too full and I wasn't able to even get liquids down. It was horrible! easier than I thought: I don't think that I would say easier but I never figured I would drop weight this quickly. Instead of easier I'll say it has given me things I never counted on: willpower and determination.

I agree faithmd, it is ridiculous! I have a friend who has struggled with his weight for years and is a very large man. One time a few of us decided to eat at one of those all you can eat buffets (pre-band). I'll never forget the girl behind the counter turning to a co-worker and commenting on how they would have to really fill the bar up. They both then proceeded to turn to him with disgusted looks on their faces. I was so glad he didn't hear or see them because I know it would have killed him. I don't know if anyone else noticed but I did and it hurt. I know that I tend to be more sensitive to things like this because I am overweight but that is completely uncalled for!

For the most part, I have received positive comments on my surgery. There are, of course those few idiots that don't know any better but I am learning to ignore them. When I first decided to have surgery, I didn't want anyone to know except family but you know how family is, some of them can't keep their mouths shut so eventually, lots of people knew. At first I wasn't happy about it but now I am very open about it. I figure if I can help one person who struggles with their weight learn about the lapband, then all the rude comments are worth it.

I have got to the point that I order a water to drink when we go out and dh usually drinks it. I got so tired of being asked a dozen times if I was sure I didn't want anything to drink. If I wanted it, I would have ordered it.

My weight loss has slowed down some but still really good. Some weeks I have bigger results then others. February was a little slower but so far for March I have lost about 10 lbs! I am trying really hard to get to 299 by May 28th. Thats 24 lbs. I can't remember the last time I was below 300. I get excited thinking about it!!! I know I can do it if I keep pushing myself! Hubby and I had talked about starting a family when I got in the 200's and while I am excited about that, I am kinda selfish and thinking of waiting longer. He said whatever I decide is fine with him. We had talked about starting to try in July but I am going to wait and see where I am at that point. I guess it depends how close I am to 300. If I was at 250, sure, but that would take a miracle. Only time will tell.

Congratulations and welcome to bandland!!! A whole new life is ahead of you and what a ride it will be!

Turner, I am sorry your having a rough patch.:hug: Don't get down on yourself. 37 lbs. is just that, 37 lbs. less then where you were! It may be slow but stay committed and you will see results. It's not always easy but it is possible. Have you tried changing your diet up? I zig zag my calorie intake and that helps me. I will eat like 800 - 100 calories for a few days and then have 1200 and continue like that. It seems funny that it would work, but it does. So to start with, give me those pounds and we'll work them off together. :biggrin1: Ear stapled...I have never heard of it. I'll have to google it and see what I can find out.

I have the card as well. Only one time did I have a restaurant say they wouldn't honor it. I get funny looks when I use sometimes but I figure they are saving food by me not eating as much so I might as well save money.

How did I miss this wonderful news earlier? That is fantastic Sarge!! You keep rocking it girl!

I'm ready! I'm sending them your way! :biggrin1: I gotta gear up for next week. I'll be in stealth mode... :spy:...Hiding those extra pounds and secretly burning them away.

:funnypost: DITTO!! :pound:

The thing I am experiencing now that irritates me is when asking for a to-go box when eating out. Inevitably, I get a look from the server that says, "The fat girl needs a box, give me a break". It just burns me when they assume because I am heavy that I should be eating the whole meal. I never tell them why I can't because I figure it's none of their business. I also hate having to explain that the foods just fine, there is nothing wrong with it, etc. over and over and over again. I seem to get asked that all the time when the server sees that I haven't ate much. Yep, it was horrible that's why I'm asking for a to-go box. Geez! :doh:

Welcome Cate! Nice to have you join us! Congrats on your upcoming surgery and good luck on your pre-op diet.

WOOHOO Avilla!!! That's fantastic!! Way to go girl!

I think you're right, I think it's two days. When I first read that your co-workers were talking about you I was concerned but then I read on. That is awesome! I have a friend who would like to do it but probably never will. She keeps telling me how brave I am and that she could never really go through with it. Funny, I never saw it as brave. :phanvan Tomorrow sounds like it will be a long day indeed. You will probably be so worn out. I hope you have a smooth transition back into work and classes.

:pound: That's hilarious! What an ingenious idea! No, you are not the only one. The way she flaunts them around I just want to say to her, "Geez, do yourself (and us) a favor and cover them up".

Welcome to LBT!! We love having others join us! Hope you get to feeling better soon.

Welcome to LBT!! This place is great! There is a wealth of info here and great people! Good luck with your journey and if you have any questions, ask away!

Welcome to LBT Jessica! Glad to have you join us! Your weightloss is great! Keep up the hard work!

Deb, remember that you are doing this for you so don't let anyone make the decision for you! It's a personal journey and two people's is alike. For me, it's the best think I have done! It has given me my life back and I am forever grateful. Is it just roses all the time? No. But is it worth everything? Absolutely! I researched this for a year before I decided to go through with it. I decided that my chances at a long, full life were greater if I had the surgery then if I didn't. I was miserable and depressed before and now, I'm happy because I see posibilities ahead that I could have only dreamed of! My journey thusfar has been fantastic! Post-op wasn't bad and I have been blessed with quick weight loss but only because of hard work and determination. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT! Remember that! You have to decide this for yourself so be sure that you are happy with your decision. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks, feels or says! Good luck to you and if we can help anymore, don't hesitate to ask!

Hey sandy-sue! Glad to have you join us! I hope everything goes smoothly for you. Keep us posted!

Welcome to LBT Shannen! You are about to take a huge step in your life that will forever change it; nerves are normal. Best of luck to you! If you have any questions, just ask!