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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding
I had a wonderful reply all typed out and then realized that it might be considered "baiting" if a certain other person saw it. Damn. It was good, too. Let's just say it contained references to being caught, family members, and random conversations with said supposed family members. :guess
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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding
Anytime, pip, anytime! :heh:
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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding
Don't forget, you tend to get random people bitching at you! Or you get people that make up brand new SNs to follow you around and harass you!
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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding
Only if you eat 1/4 cup or less of the steak!
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Bad day
You got that right. :faint:
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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding
Would those notebooks be the ones with pictures of your BFF and BF all over them or the ones with little hearts and Mrs. WASaBubbleButt BF's Last Name written in the pages.
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And so it begins....
Yep, protein doesn't seem to make a difference with my hair loss. When I get stressed, it starts shedding left and right. When the stress goes away, the hair loss magically stops. It's pissing me off, since I am under LOTS of stress at the moment, between my classes, trying to get my thesis done, and applying for jobs.
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sorry i have to ask...
Honestly, one of my favorite fast food meals is the cheese ravioli with meat sauce from Fazoli's. One plate is enough for a few meals, and it's not bad on calories. Plus, it's got a decent amount of protein (not tons, but still pretty good). I think one plate has 600 calories, and there's enough ravioli to be split into at least 3 servings (more, if you have good restriction).
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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding
This is getting freakin' hilarious! :clap2: :bounce:
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And so it begins....
Over the last several semesters, I've definitely become less of a push-over. The first semester I taught was absolutely horrid. There I was, shoved in front of a bunch of (primarily) freshman college students, with no actual training in teaching. Plus, it had been more than four years since I had had a general biology class myself, and I honestly didn't know a lot of the stuff that I was going to have to teach. (Wildlife majors weren't required to take very many basic biology classes at my undergrad university. Most of my courses were wildlife and habitat management based. When I graduated from undergrad, I could make a detailed habitat or fishery management plan, do statistically-sound sampling, and identify a hell of a lot of plants and animals, but I couldn't tell you how photosynthesis works or talk about cellular function beyond the extreme basics.) I SWEAR students can smell fear. That first semester was hell on Earth for me. I've gotten much better, though. I treat all my students with respect, but I'm not willing to take BS from them, either. I'm extremely willing to help them as much as I can if they let me know that they need help, but I've made it very clear to them that they have to put in their share of effort. I honestly don't think I could stand to teach any levels lower than university. In college-level classes, the students are there voluntarily. I'm not required to pass a certain number of them or be nice to them even if they are asses. I can literally kick them out of my class and tell them not to come back, if I have to. I don't have to answer to parents that want little Sally or Jimmy to get a passing grade without doing the work, either. It's actually illegal for me to give parents any information regarding their child's work, unless the student fills out a release form. It's a relief, to be honest.
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How do you feel about non surgical weightloss success stories?
Ditto. Statistically, the vast majority of obese people who lose weight through diet and exercise alone will not maintain their weight-loss. I think it's somewhere around 96%, actually, that will regain. I look at stuff like that (Oprah's show) as being similar to the fad diet products that you see advertised on TV. Yeah, there's a few people out there that had amazing success, but they are in the very extreme minority. Most people don't have that sort of success.
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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding
Exactly. I know when I'm teaching a class, I'm as nice and polite as I can be to my students. That doesn't mean that I don't go and bitch about the clueless ones to my fellow grad students that are also teaching classes. It's stress relief. And further more... There really seems to be an overwhelming mentality on the board that wants to coddle the newbies, never disagree with them, never tell them that they're wrong or doing something that might hurt them. It's really ridiculous, don't you think? And of course, if someone DARES to do it, they get accused of attacking them and "intimidating" them. I could see that if people were going around to all the different threads and actually calling specific people idiots and telling them that they're morons for not looking at the FAQ or reading other threads before they post. But the fact is, they aren't. They are only complaining in RnR, which is the perfect place to do it. Everywhere else, people are polite and answer questions.
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And so it begins....
The whining and crying for more extra credit, I mean. Just over two weeks until the end of the semester, and I'm starting to get students emailing me because they know that they are in danger of failing. One guy is even trying to get me to accept the past extra credit assignments. They have pre-lab questions for every lab, and if they turn them in before the lab starts, they can get up to a point of extra credit per lab. Somehow, he says he missed the 20 times that I announced that. I'm sorry, it's in the freaking syllabus and I clearly remember talking about it during the first lab period and in several others after that. Not my fault he apparently can't read or listen.
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Bad day
Honestly, I think the worst I can complain about is an incident when I was interning at a wildlife refuge on Cape Cod and a guy came in the visitors' center to bitch at me about how the trees were growing too tall and ruining his view. It was all I could do to tell him, "This is a wildlife refuge, not a people refuge. It's nice that we get visitors, but guess what? The wildlife come first. I don't give a damn if those trees are ruining the view, they're considered to be wildlife habitat, and we aren't going to cut them down just so poor little you can have a better ocean view from the boardwalk." Instead I just smiled and nodded throughout his spiel and took a message to pass on to the refuge manager. When you want to smack some sense into a customer, just smile and nod, smile and nod.
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Bad day
Good for you! I just can't believe there are people out there that act like that guy. It's completely out of the question for me, I guess. I was raised to treat everyone with respect, and to fake it if I didn't respect them.
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For those who have PCOS
If you try Proactiv, I'll give you a little advance warning: It bleaches anything you get it on. I can only use it in the shower, because if I just try to wash my face at the sink, it bleaches the washcloth and towel. Plus, it can bleach the neckline of your shirts, if you wear any of your shirts very often.
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Bad day
I am so glad I don't work in customer service. I feel so sorry for you guys, I really do. There are some people in this world that just need to be slapped.
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For those who have PCOS
PCOS is Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. It's basically a condition where women have an abnormal level of androgens (male hormones), caused by cysts forming on the ovaries. Well, that's the short and dirty version of it, anyway. It can cause lots of very irritating problems, such as male-pattern hair loss, hair growth in unwanted areas, acne, infertility due to not ovulating, excess weight, etc.
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For those who have PCOS
I've never tried spiro, but I've heard that it is a very common drug used to treat the symptoms of PCOS. Honestly, the only thing that helped my acne was going on birth control. I even tried Accutane before that, and while it did get rid of the very worst of the cystic acne that I had, it didn't do as much as it should have, considering that it is used as a last-ditch acne medication (it has some rather nasty possible side effects). It probably didn't help, though, that my doc had to keep lowering my dosage because my liver function shot up when I was on a regular dose. That crap was expensive, too. The first month cost me over $1200 out of pocket. Well, actually, I have to ammend that statement. Proactiv actually really helped, too. I went on BC and Proactiv at the same time, and my skin cleared up beautifully. I mean, I still have some acne (mostly blackheads and random zits), but it is SO much better than it was. With the excess hair, the only thing that's worked for me is laser treatment. I just had my first treatment on the 19th, and I can already see a major difference. Of course, I have very fair skin and extremely dark, coarse hair (think chin-pubes), so it might not work as well on people who are darker skinned or have lighter hair.
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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding
The only thing I can think of that would be even remotely similar to what s/he was talking about is that I've heard many times that if you get a port-site infection, it can travel to your band, causing a major infection around it and making removal of the band necessary. I don't think it has anything to do with erosion, though.
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The Disease to Please: or how I lack the ability to say 'No'
I totally agree. Unfortunately, I think the time to tell her about the price increase has already passed. That should have been done back when you first knew that all you had to go on was a picture. But, on the upside, you can use it as a learning experience and let your future clients know that they can either give you the pattern that they want or they have to pay an extra fee if you have to do all the legwork yourself.
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biggest insult ever-sex related-from dh
I'm gonna have to agree with what just about everyone else has said. Your hubby was being more than a little bit of an ass. Seems to me like he's trying to drive you away, maybe because he doesn't have the balls to end the relationship himself. No offense meant, but it was clearly warned in the title that the thread was sex related. If you couldn't handle the very real possibility of some details that you think are TMI, you shouldn't have come in.
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In Your 20's And Had Surgery?
I was 23 when I was banded in July. So far, I've had a wonderful experience and I'd do it all over again if I had to. Luckily, I seem to have had a fairly easy recover, compared to a lot of people. Many people have bad gas pain or referred diaphragm pain in their shoulder. I didn't. All I had to deal with was the usual incision pain.
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what things should I bring to hospital, things you wiished you had brought with you??
Honestly, I had a bunch of stuff that I never needed. The only thing that I brought that I actually used was my pillow, which I used like Longhorn did.
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sorry i have to ask...
I've not tried that, but I do eat other types of pasta. In fact, I had spaghetti tonight. I can't eat very much of it, but I do enjoy it from time to time.