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I really wish I liked yogurt.

On my way to Mexico for surgery tomorrow. I've known this is what is right for me and what I want to do since I made the decision. I've been confident and excited about my decision to have surgery. NOW I'm actually getting nervous!

I've struggled with my weight my entire adult life. My husband has always wanted me to lose the weight but always seemed to sabotage in some way. Now he's gained weight and has finally jumped on board with me. Problem is we are learning that he has absolutely no idea what healthy eating is so he's being a good sport and is learning.

I'm on day 11 of pre op and I have slipped twice. Once I had 3 chicken strips. And today with my husbands influence I caved and had some Mexican food. I am not blaming him but he is an obstacle for me. I still take responsibility. I just need to learn to handle the obstacles in my life (without getting rid of them altogether)
I am down 15lbs so that's great!

I'm on day 11 of pre op and I have slipped twice. Once I had 3 chicken strips. And today with my husbands influence I caved and had some Mexican food. I am not blaming him but he is an obstacle for me. I still take responsibility. I just need to learn to handle the obstacles in my life (without getting rid of them altogether)
I am down 15lbs so that's great!

You don't have anything to be embarrassed about. Things happen. I get it's a huge letdown, but quitting seems counterintuitive to why you were going through all this in the first place. You're entitled to feel discouraged, but you're going to need to brush yourself off and keep moving forward. You can lose that 50 pounds! Try to think of it as a delay rather than an end.
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@candygrl thank you for the detailed post. My starting weight will be a little bit less than yours only because I am losing pre op but starting weight was 260. I feel like I know a little more about what to expect.

Has anyone that has lost a significant amount of weight noticed if your shoe size gets smaller?
Since I've gained weight my shoe size has gotten larger. Before I buy any shoes I don't want to waste money if I'm going to need a smaller size in a few months.

Hello! I am almost exactly 3 months post op! (10/8) and I have lost 51lbs. Hope this helps and good luck to you!! =)

I need to charge my Fitbit. Then maybe we can do challenges to inspire each other.

I love watching food shows now! Since I don't or can't really eat that way, it truly satisfies!!! Gawd, we are sick fuckers but at least we are thin and no longer eat any and everything we see!!! What an empowering moment right?? This is our life!!!! Yaaaaay!!!!

I'm a big fitbit fan too - I usually can hit 10,000 steps daily, just from work, but it's the days off that I have to push myself to get out of the house and walk as much as I can. I hope the fact that I'm walking so much now will help me out when I am post-op.

I tried to post this before but I guess the Bariatric Gods did like it
IM 64 days out and i am loving it. I know the first time my Doctor told me I have to walk 10000 steps a day I want to cuss him out a hundred fold. In my mind i was thinking what the f**k are you talking about im not about to run a Marathon what is this foolishness you speak of. It was another one of those moments when I was about to throw in the towel. But i got over it told myself I dont have to do 10000 a day I can do 2000 maybe 3500 but then i had my surgery and I started to lose and lose and lose and this energy made me get up and walk I noticed that when i walk I can poop easier and the weight comes off even faster and now i find myself determined to to hit 10000 everyday I must say that the Fitbit has been a great tool for me but i think it you have a step counter it will inspire you. I found good step counters on Wish.com for cheap.
if your a Fitbit owner and want to have some motivation add me to you fitbit friends list Madmanpbsgc@gmail.com

I'm so excited to finally have hope of losing real weight that I don't care who knows. I share with anyone. I really don't care what they think about it. And you never know who you may be helping by sharing your story.

Love yourself enough to not care what they think. Block those that are gossiping to your parents. You don't have to block them from Facebook but there is a way to block them from seeing those posts. Surround yourself with people that love AND support you. If someone is acting contradictory to that then stay away.

I love "going under" it seems that is the best sleep I've ever had.

My surgery date is also January 25th. I use PB2 in my chocolate Protein Shake. I'm surprised you can have fruit juices. I was told no fruits. I have 3-4 Protein Shakes, broth, sf Jello and lots of Water.

It's been one year today since I had my sleeve done. My life has changed in every aspect.
My start weight was 333.1lbs
My weight this morning was 137.8lbs
That's a total loss of 195.3lbs!!
I've also lost a total of 95 inches...I'm a size 6 now...used to be a size 30.
I have accomplished this by being very focused and strict with my eating and exercise.
I eat very low carb, and always get in my Protein, Vitamins and Water every day.
For all of you just starting out, just know that anything is possible, and if you put your mind to it, you can achieve anything!! 
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My surgery is scheduled on the 25th at OCC with Dr Ortiz. I can't wait!

I've just finished day 6 of the liquid diet. I've lost 15lbs since the 1st of the year. I knew I would have to do the liquid for 2 weeks so I started preparing myself the 1st so I cut out sugar and tea (I'm from the south so sweet tea is a staple). I think that has helped me with the liquid diet. I've taken my shakes out for pizza with my family and didn't even cheat with 1 bite. I've been fine so far and I truly hope I can stay this strong for the remainder of my 2 weeks.
I will say I had green tea (hot) tonight and was surprised at how full and satisfied it made me feel. I've had clear Soup from Japanese restaurants which I love! And I've made homemade bone broth. First time I tried it I love it but 2nd time was gross. I'm going to keep trying because it's got to be better for you than canned broth.

3rd day finished and not one cheat at all. I'm ok with no real hard struggles so far. Hoping I can stay this strong for the remainder of the 2 weeks.

3rd day finished and not one cheat at all. I'm ok with no real hard struggles so far. Hoping I can stay this strong for the remainder of the 2 weeks.

That sucks. I'm leaving on the 24th for Mexico and would love to hear your experience.

That has been my experience as well. A number of people at work noticed, but didn't feel comfortable saying anything. Eventually, someone who was a little less socially-sensitive brought it up at a group lunch and other people commented that they had noticed for a while. So, yeah, if you've lost 50 pounds, people have probably noticed, but just don't feel comfortable saying anything.
What is more important than looks though is is how you feel. At 50 pounds lost, I could already tell that my knees and back didn't hurt like they used to; I could bend over and tie my shoes without straining; and I could run up a couple flights of stairs without feeling like I was going to die.

Played around 2 days after, took it slow and easy at day 5, going at it like rabbits on crack on day 9.