SweetPotato

I think that's a narrow view of what is right for relationships. We all have different ideas of what we are or are not willing to disclose at the beginning of a relationship and must do what is right for ourselves. As a person who is trained and sees couples in therapy who struggle in their relationship, I think I have a pretty good idea of the importance of both boundaries and communication.
Additionally, I don't "hook up for an hour", but even if I did, that would have no bearing on my value as a person or a potential partner for someone. Nor would that be true for any other person who engaged in casual sex. Our worth isn't, and shouldn't be, attached to our sexual activities.

it took me a week from referral to orientation and I had the surgery a few days shy of 3 months after orientation. My 1 year surgery-versery is 10/28. I have lost 165 lbs. Process was super fast and everyone was helpful. Would have had the surgery sooner, but I'm a psychologist in training and wanted to make sure to give my clinic sufficient notice.

I have the nexplanon implant and it's kind of amazing...

I wouldn't tell him yet. but good luck on your dates and if its meant to be it will be. A new fresh start is always good

I don't want to derail this very important thread, but as someone who works in healthcare/insurance I can assure you that federal privacy laws against sharing medical information to employers are very real and very strict. Putting information in electronic record systems to be shared between practitioners (with patient consent) does not mean it is open to just anyone.
It makes me really sad that someone would scare others away from getting professional help for a very serious and life-threatening medical issue.
Edited to be less of a b.

Sounds like you are using some harm reduction techniques that feel manageable and good for you. Wish you the best of luck and want to say that you may also find it really helpful to seek individual therapy with a person or agency that works with these types of approaches. AA generally only works with an abstinence-based approach and people who aren't ready or don't want to use this approach can often slip back into patterns they aren't comfortable with because of the feelings this may evoke. I say this as a therapist who works with people with substance and alcohol use disorders and have had experiences with AA, NA and CMA.

I think that's a narrow view of what is right for relationships. We all have different ideas of what we are or are not willing to disclose at the beginning of a relationship and must do what is right for ourselves. As a person who is trained and sees couples in therapy who struggle in their relationship, I think I have a pretty good idea of the importance of both boundaries and communication.
Additionally, I don't "hook up for an hour", but even if I did, that would have no bearing on my value as a person or a potential partner for someone. Nor would that be true for any other person who engaged in casual sex. Our worth isn't, and shouldn't be, attached to our sexual activities.

I've been dating and having sex since losing weight and haven't mentioned the loose skin or weight loss. no-one else has mentioned it, either. Honestly, they just seem to be in to the having sex...i've walked around naked and my loose skin is on full display. I'm 36:)

I think that's a narrow view of what is right for relationships. We all have different ideas of what we are or are not willing to disclose at the beginning of a relationship and must do what is right for ourselves. As a person who is trained and sees couples in therapy who struggle in their relationship, I think I have a pretty good idea of the importance of both boundaries and communication.
Additionally, I don't "hook up for an hour", but even if I did, that would have no bearing on my value as a person or a potential partner for someone. Nor would that be true for any other person who engaged in casual sex. Our worth isn't, and shouldn't be, attached to our sexual activities.

I think that's a narrow view of what is right for relationships. We all have different ideas of what we are or are not willing to disclose at the beginning of a relationship and must do what is right for ourselves. As a person who is trained and sees couples in therapy who struggle in their relationship, I think I have a pretty good idea of the importance of both boundaries and communication.
Additionally, I don't "hook up for an hour", but even if I did, that would have no bearing on my value as a person or a potential partner for someone. Nor would that be true for any other person who engaged in casual sex. Our worth isn't, and shouldn't be, attached to our sexual activities.

I've been dating and having sex since losing weight and haven't mentioned the loose skin or weight loss. no-one else has mentioned it, either. Honestly, they just seem to be in to the having sex...i've walked around naked and my loose skin is on full display. I'm 36:)

I've been dating and having sex since losing weight and haven't mentioned the loose skin or weight loss. no-one else has mentioned it, either. Honestly, they just seem to be in to the having sex...i've walked around naked and my loose skin is on full display. I'm 36:)

I've been dating and having sex since losing weight and haven't mentioned the loose skin or weight loss. no-one else has mentioned it, either. Honestly, they just seem to be in to the having sex...i've walked around naked and my loose skin is on full display. I'm 36:)

my program stresses eating Protein first, then veg... no room for anything else, so i don't bother cutting carbs.

Sounds like you are using some harm reduction techniques that feel manageable and good for you. Wish you the best of luck and want to say that you may also find it really helpful to seek individual therapy with a person or agency that works with these types of approaches. AA generally only works with an abstinence-based approach and people who aren't ready or don't want to use this approach can often slip back into patterns they aren't comfortable with because of the feelings this may evoke. I say this as a therapist who works with people with substance and alcohol use disorders and have had experiences with AA, NA and CMA.

I've been dating and having sex since losing weight and haven't mentioned the loose skin or weight loss. no-one else has mentioned it, either. Honestly, they just seem to be in to the having sex...i've walked around naked and my loose skin is on full display. I'm 36:)

I've been dating and having sex since losing weight and haven't mentioned the loose skin or weight loss. no-one else has mentioned it, either. Honestly, they just seem to be in to the having sex...i've walked around naked and my loose skin is on full display. I'm 36:)

I've been dating and having sex since losing weight and haven't mentioned the loose skin or weight loss. no-one else has mentioned it, either. Honestly, they just seem to be in to the having sex...i've walked around naked and my loose skin is on full display. I'm 36:)

Sounds like you are using some harm reduction techniques that feel manageable and good for you. Wish you the best of luck and want to say that you may also find it really helpful to seek individual therapy with a person or agency that works with these types of approaches. AA generally only works with an abstinence-based approach and people who aren't ready or don't want to use this approach can often slip back into patterns they aren't comfortable with because of the feelings this may evoke. I say this as a therapist who works with people with substance and alcohol use disorders and have had experiences with AA, NA and CMA.

I literally just told them I was taking a week off for medical reasons. That's it. As a former HR professional, I know they can't ask for too much more info and I didn't feel comfortable disclosing,

I literally just told them I was taking a week off for medical reasons. That's it. As a former HR professional, I know they can't ask for too much more info and I didn't feel comfortable disclosing,

I had the glue and it as fine... Looked a little funky as it started coming off, though:)

Sounds like you are using some harm reduction techniques that feel manageable and good for you. Wish you the best of luck and want to say that you may also find it really helpful to seek individual therapy with a person or agency that works with these types of approaches. AA generally only works with an abstinence-based approach and people who aren't ready or don't want to use this approach can often slip back into patterns they aren't comfortable with because of the feelings this may evoke. I say this as a therapist who works with people with substance and alcohol use disorders and have had experiences with AA, NA and CMA.

My fave during that phase was scrambling eggs with cottage cheese in them... Sounds gross but was awesome,

Having a Hx of eating disorders will not necessarily preclude you from being able to have surgery. They want to make sure that you are stable and able to handle the surgery... And the changes that will happen to your body. A lot of people who aren't stable and have had past experiences with eating disorders return to past behavior patterns, which is why it's important to talk about them. At the same time, you have to make the decision about what is right for you, and what you feel comfortable discussing. Though, speaking as a psychologist in training ( but not giving advice as one), we can often tell when clients aren't being forthcoming about things...