emtscott54

I believe choking anyone that ignorant should be legal and encouraged.

July 7th here. I am going out for one last steak dinner tomorrow.
The pre and post op liquid diets suck but the reality is our love of eating ( or addictive eating) is what got us here. I'm terrified because this tool will only work if I work with it. I am also terrified because food was the only addiction I had left after recovering from my others.
I believe we will all be successful. I wish us all the best and speedy recoveries.
Scott

I just had surgery. I know a ton of folks who have had it for various length of time.
I would actually hear people in our social circles talk about not acknowledging peoples' weight loss because they took the "easy way out."
There are some catty people in this world. Hell, there are even a few here on this site.
You are enough. Their validation isn't necessary. You did it for you. As my grandma used to say, "F them."

While the following sentence may seem really odd, take a second and let it soak in. I feel fortunate that before I started the whole WLS process, I knew what it was like to be an addict. I have recovered from substance abuse and maintained sobriety/clean time (depending which ideology you prefer) since.
Many of us who are obese got this way through overeating. To the pleasure receptors in your brain, food is a drug just like alcohol or opiates. Drugs and alcohol can be avoided in everyday life but the same cannot be said for food.
How many times would you find yourself eating because you were sad? What about because you were stressed or angry? How many times would you eat because you were anxious or tired? I willing to bet most of us have said yes to at least a few of those scenarios. Now here is the kicker. How did you feel after you ate? Fat? Ashamed? Worthless? Now how many times did we repeat those same cycles? That is what addiction is.
Sadly people don't understand the disease of addiction because, unless the examine your brain tissue, they can't see it. Addiction in all its forms is a disease that our society feels it is perfectly acceptable to blame the victim for. People still talk about this thing called "will power" which is about as real as the Easter bunny.
Most people with any type of addiction have fewer chemical receptors in their prefrontal cortex. This has been studied and proven for decades. I highly suggest reading The Brain Fix by Dr. Ralph Carson. It will give you a lot of insight into the biochemistry that many of us have working against us.
All of us who have been sleeved now have a great tool to help us deal with our food issues, but we need to do that work and use the tool correctly or we can find ourselves worse off than where we started. This surgery is not a quick fix. Their is no such thing for any type of addictive process.
Remember in the post surgery phase that this is where the real work starts and if we get too comfortable and don't do our part, any positive results could end up being temporary. Healthy living is a lifelong process and I hope we all get to enjoy the journey.

While the following sentence may seem really odd, take a second and let it soak in. I feel fortunate that before I started the whole WLS process, I knew what it was like to be an addict. I have recovered from substance abuse and maintained sobriety/clean time (depending which ideology you prefer) since.
Many of us who are obese got this way through overeating. To the pleasure receptors in your brain, food is a drug just like alcohol or opiates. Drugs and alcohol can be avoided in everyday life but the same cannot be said for food.
How many times would you find yourself eating because you were sad? What about because you were stressed or angry? How many times would you eat because you were anxious or tired? I willing to bet most of us have said yes to at least a few of those scenarios. Now here is the kicker. How did you feel after you ate? Fat? Ashamed? Worthless? Now how many times did we repeat those same cycles? That is what addiction is.
Sadly people don't understand the disease of addiction because, unless the examine your brain tissue, they can't see it. Addiction in all its forms is a disease that our society feels it is perfectly acceptable to blame the victim for. People still talk about this thing called "will power" which is about as real as the Easter bunny.
Most people with any type of addiction have fewer chemical receptors in their prefrontal cortex. This has been studied and proven for decades. I highly suggest reading The Brain Fix by Dr. Ralph Carson. It will give you a lot of insight into the biochemistry that many of us have working against us.
All of us who have been sleeved now have a great tool to help us deal with our food issues, but we need to do that work and use the tool correctly or we can find ourselves worse off than where we started. This surgery is not a quick fix. Their is no such thing for any type of addictive process.
Remember in the post surgery phase that this is where the real work starts and if we get too comfortable and don't do our part, any positive results could end up being temporary. Healthy living is a lifelong process and I hope we all get to enjoy the journey.

While the following sentence may seem really odd, take a second and let it soak in. I feel fortunate that before I started the whole WLS process, I knew what it was like to be an addict. I have recovered from substance abuse and maintained sobriety/clean time (depending which ideology you prefer) since.
Many of us who are obese got this way through overeating. To the pleasure receptors in your brain, food is a drug just like alcohol or opiates. Drugs and alcohol can be avoided in everyday life but the same cannot be said for food.
How many times would you find yourself eating because you were sad? What about because you were stressed or angry? How many times would you eat because you were anxious or tired? I willing to bet most of us have said yes to at least a few of those scenarios. Now here is the kicker. How did you feel after you ate? Fat? Ashamed? Worthless? Now how many times did we repeat those same cycles? That is what addiction is.
Sadly people don't understand the disease of addiction because, unless the examine your brain tissue, they can't see it. Addiction in all its forms is a disease that our society feels it is perfectly acceptable to blame the victim for. People still talk about this thing called "will power" which is about as real as the Easter bunny.
Most people with any type of addiction have fewer chemical receptors in their prefrontal cortex. This has been studied and proven for decades. I highly suggest reading The Brain Fix by Dr. Ralph Carson. It will give you a lot of insight into the biochemistry that many of us have working against us.
All of us who have been sleeved now have a great tool to help us deal with our food issues, but we need to do that work and use the tool correctly or we can find ourselves worse off than where we started. This surgery is not a quick fix. Their is no such thing for any type of addictive process.
Remember in the post surgery phase that this is where the real work starts and if we get too comfortable and don't do our part, any positive results could end up being temporary. Healthy living is a lifelong process and I hope we all get to enjoy the journey.

I just had surgery. I know a ton of folks who have had it for various length of time.
I would actually hear people in our social circles talk about not acknowledging peoples' weight loss because they took the "easy way out."
There are some catty people in this world. Hell, there are even a few here on this site.
You are enough. Their validation isn't necessary. You did it for you. As my grandma used to say, "F them."

My apologies if anyone felt I was lecturing. I also wasn't aware of that certain posters would be rude enough to judge people for posting and trying to be helpful.

While I can appreciate and understand your desire to lose your excess weight as fast as possible, there are some things to consider.
We didn't get to be obese overnight. We won't get skinny fast either.
Weight loss can happen too quickly and that can have other nasty complications requiring surgery.
While people often see weight loss surgery as a quick fix, nothing could be farther from the truth. Attaining a healthy body weight and then maintaining it are lifelong processes.
Patience and acceptance are key. I had to learn to accept who I am today so that I could work towards who I will become tomorrow in a healthy way.
Good luck on your journey and school!

I just had surgery. I know a ton of folks who have had it for various length of time.
I would actually hear people in our social circles talk about not acknowledging peoples' weight loss because they took the "easy way out."
There are some catty people in this world. Hell, there are even a few here on this site.
You are enough. Their validation isn't necessary. You did it for you. As my grandma used to say, "F them."

While I can appreciate and understand your desire to lose your excess weight as fast as possible, there are some things to consider.
We didn't get to be obese overnight. We won't get skinny fast either.
Weight loss can happen too quickly and that can have other nasty complications requiring surgery.
While people often see weight loss surgery as a quick fix, nothing could be farther from the truth. Attaining a healthy body weight and then maintaining it are lifelong processes.
Patience and acceptance are key. I had to learn to accept who I am today so that I could work towards who I will become tomorrow in a healthy way.
Good luck on your journey and school!

While I can appreciate and understand your desire to lose your excess weight as fast as possible, there are some things to consider.
We didn't get to be obese overnight. We won't get skinny fast either.
Weight loss can happen too quickly and that can have other nasty complications requiring surgery.
While people often see weight loss surgery as a quick fix, nothing could be farther from the truth. Attaining a healthy body weight and then maintaining it are lifelong processes.
Patience and acceptance are key. I had to learn to accept who I am today so that I could work towards who I will become tomorrow in a healthy way.
Good luck on your journey and school!

Oh I wasn't apologizing to you. Ps. Your vanity is showing.

I think everyone has at least a few moments of regret or buyer's remorse after surgery. Most of us abused food for years and made it so that at least for a few weeks we can't. Plus waking up in a hospital bed is rarely ever seen as something we associate as being good.
The first two days after surgery, I wondered wtf did I just do to myself? Now I am glad I did it but I am sure that thought will pop up again from time to time. I think that is to be expected.

I just had surgery. I know a ton of folks who have had it for various length of time.
I would actually hear people in our social circles talk about not acknowledging peoples' weight loss because they took the "easy way out."
There are some catty people in this world. Hell, there are even a few here on this site.
You are enough. Their validation isn't necessary. You did it for you. As my grandma used to say, "F them."

I just had surgery. I know a ton of folks who have had it for various length of time.
I would actually hear people in our social circles talk about not acknowledging peoples' weight loss because they took the "easy way out."
There are some catty people in this world. Hell, there are even a few here on this site.
You are enough. Their validation isn't necessary. You did it for you. As my grandma used to say, "F them."

I just had surgery. I know a ton of folks who have had it for various length of time.
I would actually hear people in our social circles talk about not acknowledging peoples' weight loss because they took the "easy way out."
There are some catty people in this world. Hell, there are even a few here on this site.
You are enough. Their validation isn't necessary. You did it for you. As my grandma used to say, "F them."

I just had surgery. I know a ton of folks who have had it for various length of time.
I would actually hear people in our social circles talk about not acknowledging peoples' weight loss because they took the "easy way out."
There are some catty people in this world. Hell, there are even a few here on this site.
You are enough. Their validation isn't necessary. You did it for you. As my grandma used to say, "F them."

Excellent work! I hope you take time to reflect on your accomplishments and the hard work you put in to achieve them.

I just had surgery. I know a ton of folks who have had it for various length of time.
I would actually hear people in our social circles talk about not acknowledging peoples' weight loss because they took the "easy way out."
There are some catty people in this world. Hell, there are even a few here on this site.
You are enough. Their validation isn't necessary. You did it for you. As my grandma used to say, "F them."

There is a very real phenomena called transfer addiction. There have been many documented cases of people who can no longer abuse food easily suddenly abusing alcohol, drugs, and various process addictions. So even go on to become anorexic and bulimic. While it can happen all of that seems to be the exception and not the rule.
When going through major life change people have two common responses. They either fear it or embrace it. It sounds like you are embracing it. My advice as a person living in recovery, take it one day at a time and be honest with yourself. The surgery was one small part of this process. There is a lifetime of work we need to do to understand ourselves if we want long-term health.
Looks like today you are headed in a great direction.

Oh I wasn't apologizing to you. Ps. Your vanity is showing.

Not a doc, but I would not ask for liquid a liquid NSAID of any kind. I had IV acetominephan the entire time I was in the hospital because that will not irritate staple line or cause ulceration. I did have a PCA pump but I believe I only used it once. I'm a recovering addict so I really avoid pain meds.
I talked to my doc about identical concerns prior to surgery during the pre-op visit and he heard my concerns and addressed them. He has every patient take a pill called emend before they come to hospital on surgery day and it kept me from having any real nausea.

I am only 3 days post-op so I can't comment directly on that specific question. What I will say is that I will see this being tough for me too, but I will not look for a way around it. People spend a lot of time on these boards second guessing surgeons who have performed thousands of the procedures. People want to hold onto old habits even though it is made clear that those habits must change for us to have the best chance at long term success.
I look at it this way. Doing things my way got me morbidly obese, pre-diabetic and sleep apnic. If I'm going as far as to have 85% of my stomach removed, I'm going to commit to following my doctor's directions. Half measures availed me nothing before and I don't believe they will now.
I'm not trying to come off as preachy, I'm just stating how I am looking at all of these changes.

If you ever need support, feel free to reach out. We are all in this together.
Our brains need to be retrained to see food for its intended purpose. It is supposed to be fuel, not a drug.