Inner Surfer Girl

The only prescription meds I was in post op was carafate, to avoid ulcer formation and pain meds. I thought Dr. now was stretching saying the "swelling" (aka stricture) was a result of not taking meds. Maybe he wasn't taking his PPI?

It is nice to be called "beautiful" by someone who has no agenda.

On another note, my parents are very happily married but my dad thinks that the idea of Christian Mingles is hysterical. He always makes funny comments when the commercials come on TV. The commercials I find amusing are the ones for Farmers Only.

This is such an enlightening thread. I don't date but may someday so it is interesting to hear about the current state of the process. I have known some very successful and happy couples who have met online and/or through online dating so that is encouraging. I was curious about the tacos so I googled it. Apparently, one of the dating websites actually suggests that people use taco in their profile name. Who knew? I saw this on fb today and it reminded me of this thread: Happy Hunting Everyone!

I am squarely in the camp of believing that catcalls are completely inappropriate and a form of assault. Whether they are "complimenting" or "criticizing", they are unwelcome and very disturbing.

My surgeon's office gave me a list of required Vitamins. Pre-op I was required to start extra D3 in addition to my Multivitamin and extra Iron because my iron was low. Post-op I have a list of required vitamins (that includes those from pre-op) and a recommended schedule for taking them.

You look great in both but I like the black and white on better.

I wasn't a big drinker before surgery. I really have no desire to drink. I am nine months post op and have not drunk any alcohol since before surgery. Will I drink in the future? Maybe. If so, it will be once in a blue moon and very little. Alcohol is just not a priority for me.

I made some black beans on my slow cooker yesterday. Very warm and comforting.

Having quality Water is so important. I was talking with my mom about my grandmother the other day and how hard it was to get her to drink water. She drank a lot of coffee. If I were my grandmother I wouldn't have drunk much water either. Whenever I visited her I couldn't stand the water. The municipal water tasted awful.

Off the top of my head: Avocado Olive oil Dark chocolate Nuts Beans Red wine? Here is a link that may help. I didn't read the whole thing but I trust Eating Well for nutrition information. http://mobile.eatingwell.com/nutrition_health/cholesterol/improve_cholesterol_levels_with_these_7_super_foods

Here is a link to Elmwood Inn Fine Teas that I mentioned in a previous post. http://store.elmwoodinn.com/

I also love tea accoutrements like tea cups and saucers, mugs, teapots, tea spoons, tea tins, etc.

Yep. I do. I've also noticed it has become more trendy. Pre-packaged food and restaurant menus are more frequently posting Protein numbers prominently on labels. Even weight watchers seems to have jumped on board.

I love tea and herbal infusions, too. I went a bit tea nuts when I was weaning myself off of carbonation (before I went decaf), so I have a ton of tea. Now that I am post-op and mostly caffeine free, my NUT said I can have up to one cup of caffeinated tea a day and the rest has to be decaf. I have loose tea. Blends. Bags. Sachets. Pyramids. Herbs. I even bought a bag of sassafras bark and bags of peppermint and spearmint at an Amish store last week! My favorite: Harney & Sons Hot Cinnamon Spice (I have both regular and decaf and really can't tell the difference with the decaf which was a nice surprise). We have a local tea shop (Elmwood Inn) which makes some lovely blends. They sell on their website if you are interested in trying some of their teas. I love the Kentucky Blend hot and it also makes a great iced tea. I drank a lot of it the summer I gave up carbonation. I have a green tea/rose blend that is really nice. There are several others I like (Serenity has chamomile, etc.). I can't remember them all. I have several. Between Harney & Sons, Elmwood Inn, Tazo, Luzianne (I am southern afterall), and Chinese teas, I think I have more space devoted to tea in my pantry than actual food. I also make a lot of iced tea with green tea and mint in the summer.

Please don't feel discouraged. Our bodies are complex systems, not simple machines. I highly recommend you stay off the scale, especially early out. Your body is healing from major surgery and adjusting in many ways. Getting in all of your Protein and fluids and following your post-op food stages should be your primary focus. If you are still having difficulty reaching those targets at seven weeks, I highly recommend you make an appointment with your NUT to talk about strategies. It is so critical. None of us lose weight at a constant or steady rate. Most of us experience slow downs, fluctuations, and stalls periodically. Almost everyone experiences their first stall about three weeks or so after surgery. By seven weeks, you should really be doing everything you can to get in ALL of your protein and Fluid, every day. Follow your program. Track your food. Make sure you are getting in ALL of your protein and fluid. Take your Vitamins and supplements as instructed. Exercise. And, Stay off the scale. Embrace the Stall! http://BariatricPal.com/index.php?/topic/351046-Embrace-the-Stall

Thank you for sharing about your struggles. I don't think it is uncommon at all to feel some regret and struggle, especially soon after surgery. You are healing and you hormones are all over the place. Also, you are probably in some serious food withdrawal. If you haven't dealt with your food/eating issues before surgery, it is difficult to cope at first when your primary coping mechanism is no longer available to you. I do agree with your advice about seeking help with both your depression and eating issues with a therapist. I am convinced that all the years I have spent on therapy and dealing with my food addiction have paid off in helping me be successful after surgery. It is never too late to ask for and accept help. For now, please focus on following your post-op plan and do everything you can to get in your Protein and fluids. That and walking will help you feel much better soon. You can do this!

Best of luck with your surgery and keep us posted on how you are doing.

Can't wait to hear how you are doing. You have been in my prayers.

I do remember when they wheeled me into the OR how busy and well lit it was. (Not like you see on TV medical dramas.) My surgeon was even checking his phone off to the side.

You are so mean. I gave my mom my phone with strict instructions not to give it back to me until I was no longer loopy.

I remember having to scootch myself onto the really narrow (at least it felt like to me) operating table. Then I was coughing and trying to catch my breath when I woke up.

This article reads like an opinion piece but it has some good information related to the role of Water in good health and treating or preventing obesity. http://www.forbes.com/sites/brucelee/2016/01/17/is-lack-of-safe-drinking-water-linked-to-obesity/

It will happen! Just follow your program and stay off the scale. Embrace the Stall! http://BariatricPal.com/index.php?/topic/351046-Embrace-the-Stall

My favorite supplements for the liquid phases were: Premier Protein ready to drink, GNC Lean 25 shakes (especially the Orange Cream), Syntrax Nectar (especially fuzzy navel) ProtiDiet liquid beverage concentrates, ProtiDiet tomato basil and creamy chicken soups, ProtiDiet hot chocolate, and WonderSlim dark chocolate pudding.