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Ok so far we have... the best me dragonwilo (+ maybe friend) bondgirl sherrie gordonfamily3 (my friend Kami is coming) Star W Karen Sunsett (maybe) Up to 9 so far....up to 10 we go...

I called the Dr today and they are going to call me this week sometime to set up the surgery. I am so ready to get it over with. I am just a bag of nerves right now. UGH!!!! I know it will all be ok and it will be over soon...well this one part of it anyway. Thanks for letting me come here and talk...it really helps and it's so nice knowing I have so much support and prayer coming our way.

9/6 271 9/12 270 9/26 263.8 10/3 262 10/10 260.6 10/17 256.4 10/24 oops didn't weigh 10/31 257.6 (+1.2) I will say I am under alot of stress right now and I am a stress eater. So no excuses!! This week I am buckling down and getting it done...I have 1.6 to meet my goal for this fall...

Calling all NC Lap Banders....Our informal group will be having our monthly get together on Saturday Nov 5th @ Ruby Tuesday's at I-77 and Arrowood. The meeting time is 11:30...If you plan on attending please let me know. It seems our little group will be growing by a few this month and I would like to call ahead and get a table reserved for us. Everyone one is welcome...we normally have @ 6- 8 of us that meet monthly. We are at all stages...from just getting the ball rolling to the vetran Kathy who has been banded since April. This is a great time for friends to get together and laugh and cut up and have some lunch. Hope to see everyone saturday...would love to meet some new people!!!!

Congrats...I would love to know how you did that?

Well I am 3 months post op and have lost 60 pounds. I don't think that is too bad. My band in my best friend and this is one friend I don't plan on lossing. I can still eat a peice of cake if I want to at a party and that one little peice is more then enough for me. My fills have been painless...did get a little to full so I had to have some taken out, which is fine by me because that just means when I loss more weight and my restriction gets a little less I get can istantly get some more filling. I have an aunt that had GB and she know tells me she wishes she would have had the band...that's after gaining 40 pounds back. She is trying to re-teach her pouch again but she said it's hard because it's already stretched. I would recommend this to EVERYONE!!!!

Hello and Welcome...glad you stopped lurking and decided to join us.

I too am having problems with eggs and cheese since my last fill. Don't know what it is..I can eat over easy eggs but scrambled eggs are not my favorite to do. Good Luck...I too am under alot of stres so it could have something to do with it.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hope you make it back safe and sound and on your way to recovery.

That is great....

Star...come out come out where ever you are???? Nov 5th is approaching fast.

Dianne thanks so much for thinking of us today...we are home. He is doing good. I updated my thread so you can read more there... he has diaper rash again but I coated his little hinny tonight and hopefully it will be ok in the morning. He was back to his normal self by the time we got home. Again thanks so much for thinking of us...it means so much to me.

Hello everyone...well we made it home tonight. YEAH!!! It was a rough start but finally he started flowing (out both ends at time) and we are good. The doctor has giving instructions to follow until his surgey which will be with in the next 3 weeks. Well that is what he said tonight. I just love our surgeon he is great with Curtis and really seems to care about us. He was so great...my sister and my baby neice went with us this morning, my sister is an RN and thank goodness she held him down while the nurses put the IV in and the NG tube in. I just wanted to cry. Curtis didn't cry until he saw himself in a mirror...so I put a towel over it and he couldn't see himself. He just layed around and watched PBS and some movies thank goodness for portable DVD players. So one obsticale (sp) overcome and one huge one left. I really can't express my graitude to everyone here and your continued support and prayers as they all being answered. I will update you again when I find out the surgery date...Let's hope it's painless and quick.

Hey everyone...we will be heading to the hospital on friday morning. Hopefully we will only be there one day for them to get his body cleaned out. Keep your prayers going this works out so that we can move ahead with getting his surgery done and over with. Thanks for letting me come here and talk about it. It's so helpfull to be able to talk to friends that way I can stay strong for Curtis. I don't cry in front of him but thankfully I have an understanding husband that will let me break down with him. It's just so tough but I know I can do it because I was giving and good man above knew I could handle this so I am going to do my job. I love this place....Thanks again for your continued support and prayers it really does mean the world to me.

I can't tell you to stay off the scale because I am just as bad. Well I was up to a week ago now I have or want nothing to with weight loss, the band, the scale or anything. Just in a rut... Anyway...hang in there...I do think you aren't getting enough calories in. When I was filled too tight..I was having like 300 - 400 a day and oh my goodness I was actually gaining most of the time. You will see when you eat mushies it will get better hang in there girl. Plus look at the exercise you are doing... me I am lucky to walk everyday. Oh and my throat has been hurting me the last 2 days...I think something is going around.

Hey Karen, Well as you know I have UHC...My BMI was over 40 but I had hardly any co-morbidities. At the time I was having blood pressure problems and some achy joints but that was about it. Good Luck!!!

I weighed in monday but totally forgot what it was...so I will go with a maintain this week or I will weigh in the morning and see how bad it really it is. I have so much going on...

Well here is a quick little up date...we are going in the hospital one day this week because he is still compacted. They will have to run a tube down his nose w/ a liquid to clean him out. If that doesn't work his Dr. will take him in the OR and clean him out that way. I am not sure what day we are going it looks like friday right now. Hopefully it's just one night there....Then once this is done he will set up the day for surgery. I have soo much going through my head right now and I am such a stress eater...so lossing weight right now probably isn't going to happen. Thanks again for your support and prayers. It sooo much needed.

Karen that is great...and it was quick. Keep us posted on how it goes.

I can not express my happeness to be apart of this wonderful family. Your prayers and support are SO much needed by me. Well with his test friday came a horrible friday night and saturday...he has the worest diaper rash I have ever seen. He screams when you tell him it's time to change his diaper. Luckly I had some Ilex (Awsome for diaper rash) left over from his last surgery and I think that is helping a lot. We did take him to a pumpkin patch yesterday and he loved it so much...he didn't have to sit down any so his hinny didn't bother him. Well again thanks so much....I know with all this support we will be able to get through anything.

THANKS Everyone...see I knew that I could count on ya'll. We went for his test today and to my surprise is STILL constipated...We have been giving laxatives (sp) and enama's for the past week. The surgeon said he was better the other day but still had some stool in there. I didn't know how much until today when I saw it on the screen. Ok so now we wait...for the surgeon to get the results and then surgery will be scheduled and he will tell me how is going to do the surgery. Now lets just pray it's through the hinny and not a open surgery. I have to say what a trooper I have...today at the test he laid on that table let them stick that tube up his little hinny and didn't cry at all. He just laid there and stared into my eyes and wouldn't let go of my hand. I could tell he was so scared but he was so strong for me. I just wanted to break down and cry. I think he is stonger them me. Again thanks everyone...I will update you more next week when I know more. I am really hoping to have this over soon. Or if I need to just to let a little frustrations out you might hear from me. Melissa...you might just get a phone call from me. You hit it right now...I am wanting to munch on everything. I am eater/ snacker when it comes to stress...not a good thing.

Wow I have never had a dr tell me to eat below 1000 calories. Actually when I had fill that was too tight and was only eating 600 - 800 calories a day I wasn't lossing a thing...I actually gained a little. Now that I have had some taken out and I am eating 1000 - 1200 calories I am loosing anywhere from 2 - 4 pounds each week. I really can not believe that you have 3 doctors telling you to eat so little that just is simply not healthy. Good luck on what ever you deceide to do.

UHC here..approved within 2 days of them sending the packet.

Hang in there Jodi..I just tell myself I didn't become overweight in one night and it's not coming off in one night. Your weight loss is great so far....I think the average weight weight loss is 1-2 pounds a week and it seems you are hitting that. Stay strong...check in here for support and just remember to always eat your portien first at every meal... You are doing great and keep up the good work..

Girl you vent away....luckly I had my mom come over to help because I know how the hubby is. Mom's are great...she came over and helped me out everyday for a week. Would bring dinner or fix it. Hubby did at least change our sons diaper in the morning but took him to the nanny's house in his PJ's. Gotta love that. Men gotta love them. Look I haven't even been laid up with surgery and our house isn't very clean....I guess I know what I will be doing this weekend. Anyone want to come and join? Hey we could do Melissa's house first and then make our rounds. haha...