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I named my band Chilly Dog because I can't eat one ever again. I will never have a chilly dog hit my stomach so I will have one wrapped around it for the rest of my life. lol That is funny... hehe

I started out at 226 and I am now down to 176. Weight loss has stopped and it is killing me!!! I need to get back on the band wagon and work harder. Good to you on the rest of your weight loss adventure. Angie

I am going through the same thing at the moment. My husband and I are seeking counseling and start on Monday. He refused and refused but now has finally said Yes to go. I am happy that he did and hopefully we will straighten things out. Keep hope and know that there are others going throught the same thing. If you ever want to talk please PM me. I would/need someone to talk to about this as well. It's tough, hard, and quite frankly sad that we have to go through this after losing so much and feeling better about ourselves. I feel selfish saying that but its the truth. You would think the men in our lives would be star struck to see their woman lose so much and look so much better and feel so much better for themselves. I love him still but things have to change. Angie

:peace: Absolutely... You made me smile thanks Kathy. The hubby and I went out last night and watched a movie. V for Vendetta. It was actually pretty good. And get this I got on the back of the motorcycle with him. I was so scared!!!! We needed a night out like that and it helped I am sure. I have been scared to get on the back of that bike and finally did it to make him happy. So hopefully he saw that and it helped him a little as well. I hope everyone gets feeling better. This has got to stop and we all need a Happy April! Get with Kathy and lets smile!!!! TTYL! Happy Saturday! Angie

Thank you girls, I knew I get trust in you all to up lift my spirit and make me feel better. Things have been rocky for a while and hard to deal with. That time I was late to the Restaurant well We had a pretty bad argument before I came. I needed to get out of the house so I went ahead and came up. Thanks to Kim for calling so I could scoot. I love him with all my heart and soul and I know we will make this happen and will be happy again. We just need to have a third party in here to help. Thanks again for all your support. You guys are awesome. Kathy I agree this funkyness needs to stop and leave us alone. I hope you get to feeling better sweetie. My middle child is starting to feel better finally. She has pink eye and a virus. It wasnt a fun week for her. She was out of school all week. Ok, well I best get off of here and make sure the girls are behaving. They are off until Tuesday. TTYL!!!! Love and Hugs to you all. Angie

Hey Kim I am so happy to hear you are doing fine and that port is back where it needs to be. Hang in there the soreness will soon be gone. Love, Angie

I am happy to hear your port is flipped back. That is awesome. Hopefully that doesnt happen to you again. Well Girls, things arent going so well on my end here. Hubby and I are having troubles and are seeking counseling. It is and has been hard now since I started losing the weight. He feels like we are growing apart and that I am losing this weight and wanting to be on my own or with someone else. That is far from the truth girls. I feel so bad. I love him so so much. We have been together as a couple for 19 years. I started dating him when I was 15 years old. We have a wonderful foundation and love for one another. Hopefully this helps us and helps us get back to where we were. Also in the struggles in the Bond household, his Mom has found out she has Breast Cancer. Then on Tuesday she fell and broke her hip. She had emergency surgery and is doing fine but... they think the cancer has spread to her bones because you dont break a hip that easily. This is hard to deal with right now especially with what we are going through. I am constantly in tears and afraid of what will happen with her and with our relationship. We need to make this work for our childrens sake as well. They are the ones I need to protect the most and I will. Please pray for us and pray that things will get better with us and with his Mom. I am so scared. :think Angie

AMEN Sister! You are absolutely correct. I needed the laugh too. Thank you!!! Angie

I have nothing else to say but hehehehehe that just cracks me up Dianne. I was the same way yesterday and proud of it. It's good to let them free once in a while. OK I am off of here. Got a sick child myself. She needs me ttyl Angie

Believe me I love being busy with my kids. I wasn't complaining one bit. They are my pride and joy and we had a wonderful time this weekend. They are so fun. It was so beautiful outside I couldnt stay in. Before, when I was heavy, I didnt want to go out because I would be so out of breath I couldnt stand it. Yesterday, I almost cried because I was having the time of my life playing with my children outside, running, skipping, jumping on the trampoline, and shooting some hoops. I got a bit emotional but know one else saw it. I just wanted to let you all know. Also, I had my very first PB! OMG! That thing about killed me. lol This is the first time I have thrown up since I got the band. I was eating some pork and guess I didnt chew good enough and it got stuck. It wouldnt go down, it wouldnt come up. I finally had to make a gag reflex to make it come up. That slime stuff is nasty. You couldnt swallow and it was coming out like mad. EWWW!!! It wasnt fun at all. I guess I know now what my restriction is and I better chew properly or it will happen again. Kathy girl you need to get them things checked out. That has got to be a pain in the a$$. Kim, good luck on your surgery this week. Sorry your port has flipped. Karen, I hope you hear something soon on a date. Maybe Kim can push it closer for you! lol just kidding. Everyone else I hope you all are doing great and the weight is coming off. Mine is at a stand still and I need to get it moving again. I need to focus!!! OK I am off of here. Have a great day everyone. IT is going to be so nice out! Angie

Hello everyone! I'm alive, I'm alive! Woot! Yeah I have been running around like a chicken with her head cut off. I have my oldest in softball and my younger two in soccer. So we are definately a busy household right now. Sorry I havent been hanging around and posting. I have checked in a couple of times but didnt have time to respond. Things are going ok with eating but exercising has stopped again since I hvae been busy. But I am moving so much it is crazy. But... the scale isnt moving. I really need to start concentrating on this and getting it to move. I am having a hard time not drinking with my meals as well. Its just hard to not do that. I really need to break that as well. The 1st of April is going to be here before we know it. And Kathy is coming up on her one year bandiversary. How is everyone else doing? How's the weight loss going? I need to measure again here soon. I am at 8 in a half months along with my band journey and 52 pounds gone. I think that is a great accomplishment. OK, running out of things to say. I am going to hit the hay and get up and run around like a chicken again tomorrow, but hopefully keep my head on tight. TTYS!!! Angie

Hey Girls, Looks like the 1st isnt going to work for me after all. I am going camping with our church. We are going the 31st and the 1st of April. Sorry!!! Don't change things at all. Please keep the date and you all have a great time. I will make the next one. If it gets rained out I will be there. :eek: Ok. TTYL! Ang

I take Viactiv Chewables and it helps me get my chocolate fix. They do wonders for me. I have never been able to grow finger nails and mine are very hard and long. Give them a try. angie

I know, it is going by so fast. You are very disciplined to start shopping now for Christmas. I need to take that advice and run with it. I have been busy with these children. Especially since it is getting so warm out. My oldest was outside practicing for softball and was swinging her bat around and hit my middle child in the eye with it. She has a big mouse on her eye and it was very purple this morning. My little Kindergartener didnt want to go to school in fear her friends would make fun of her. That broke my heart. I told her to not pay attention to them, that she is still beautiful and it will go away soon. Well we have a month before we meet up again. Let's decide how much weight we want to lose before we see each other again. I want to be in the 160's something bad. So I need to kick it up a notch. I was a bit upset this morning at the scale because it said I was 175!!!! What is going on!!! GRRR!! I have been working out and can hardly eat a thing? Why would I gain a pound. Maybe it's Fluid who knows but it better leave me and leave me fast, cuz I didnt want to see that! lol So I will say I want to be at least 169 before I see you girls on the 1st. If I bypass that then great, if not then I am not going to be happy. This Month is the Month of the 160's for me!!!! GO ANGIE!!! Ok I am outta here. I am writing a book. You all have a great day and I will talk to you later. Angie

Congrats Sherry!!! I hope the weight loss keeps going and going. I too am ready for the scale to keep moving. We will do this, we have too! Angie

Good Luck to you! I know you will do fine. Let us know how you are as soon as you can. Angie

I was told not to eat or drink anything two hours before. Then after I had my fill I was told I could only have liquids for three days and mushies for another three. I hope this helps. Angie

Nope Jennifer you are here to stay, sorry to say. Once we like someone we latch ahold of them and wont let go. :eek: You are doing awesome and I am proud of ya. Keep up the great work. Tell Dr. B I said hello when you see him again! Angie

Photonut!!! You are absoulutely welcomed here. We love to have visitors and love new people coming to check us out! Come and chat with us as much as you would like. We are all family here at LBT and the North Carolina Girls will agree with me on that one!!! :scared: Angie

Do walking. When I had my surgery they said to walk 25 minutes twice a day. You don't need to do anything strenuous. Just walk. You are going to do great. :scared: We will miss you at Breakfast on the 1st. Angie

I have never been to Bob Evans... Are they as good as IHOP? Either one will be fine with me though. I don't care. Just give me a time and place and I will take it from there. :scared: Angie

That is awesome Kathy! Let me know what it says this morning? I got up and mine said 173.2!! WOOT! Keep going! Keep GOING! I am liking the scale moving again. Plus I am measuring my food and trying to eat right. (even though I snuck some cheeto's) <smack me!!!> I hate it I get stuck on eggs. That is just weird to me. I had a 1/4 cup of oatmeal this morning and an 1 oz of apple for breakfast. I need to keep this going. I so got out of measuring my food it wasnt funny. So that is part of me not losing. I think getting that french fry caught in my throat cured me of eating bad things. That just wasnt a fun experience. lol Have fun at the circus. I would love to take my kids. How much are tickets? Melissa!!!! I knew I was forgetting someone. SORRY! That brain fart was really bad last night and I had to go to sleep to cure it. I felt so bad I couldnt remember everyone! I am so happy the weight is coming off of you too. That is great news. I go see Dianne next week I believe? So hopefully this will be a good visit. The past two have been discourageing. OK.. Outta here.. DH and I have a date tonight! I hired a babysitter and will be going out on the town. We so need it. It's been forever!!! You all have a great day and weekend. TTYS! Angie

Breakfast April 1st is fine with me. :confused:

So glad to hear you are back and doing well. Sorry to hear about the breathing problems and the dry mouth. That isnt fun. Let me know if you need anything. Keep us posted girl!!! <<<HUGS>>> Angie

I would love to do Breakfast. Is there an IHOP near you? I could do it but it takes about an hour for me to get up there so gotta make sure I leave in plenty of time. Good Job Melissa! I am happy the weight is moving for you again. I am trying to eat good but did have two cheetos this evening. :confused: I am not happy with myself but back on it tomorrow. I am having plenty of restriction and got kind of choked on an egg this morning. I have to make sure I really chew. I never had this problem, even in the beginning. So this is totally new and different to me. Kim, Congrats on the new job girly! I am happy for you. You will be able to keep us up to speed on all the Lap Band stuff. That is awesome. And yes I think you will be watched even closer now that you are working for him. You are his poster child now! :confused: Dianne, How are you doing? Hope you are feeling well from your surgery. Kathy, How are you? You know we have known each other for almost a year now? You were the first one I talked too on this board. You rock!! Your bandaversary will be here soon. Drawing a blank and cant think of others names. I am sorry. I just had this major brain fart and think I need to get off of this computer right now. lol I hate it when this happens. hehehe Sorry to all I can't remember. Hope all is going well with you... Sorry! lol jeepers. TTYL!!! Angie