BeachBabe(soon)

Thanks all............... Everyone I know is thin or have an awful 10lbs to lose(boo hoo) So theres no understanding among them. I think theres some underlying issues that need to be addressed between DH and I. And I think It needs to be resolved before an surgery happens. Thank you all so much. It's so helpful to hear from other (heavy) women. :kiss Tina A

:paranoid O.k. First I've always had a low self esteem. Mostly when it comes to MEN and sex. I guess because I don't like my body especialy after having kids and gaining weight with each of them. My Dh has never seen my body completly naked since I had kids. And I know he doesn't understand why I've gotten shy towards having sex. I know if i lose weight this belly will drop down and become even uglier. A apron my mother calls it. My issue is this...I'm already feeling a little resentful that my DH will pay more attention to when I lose weight then he did before . I'm worried I'll end up feeling like he likes me better after I loss weight. Does it bother anyone when their partner looks at other naked movies/pis whatever. What if I come to find out my DH isn't attractied to now. This has been very hard to write, even harder to click the submit botton. Please handle w/ care. Thanks, Tina

Hi all. My name is Tina and I live in S.Florida. S.Florida summers are hard on us heavy girls. I want to shed some of this :tired unwanted insulation. I've been lurking and I really like everyones down to earth attitude. It's very refreshing. I have a plan of action, it goes like this: Get money, go to Mexico, get banded, loss weight. thats it. Sounds good to me.:banana Tina

Hi all, I'm new and an admitted lurker, I confess! I really like your posts they're so down to earth. anyway, I would really like to know what were Dr. Rumbaut's fees? I seem to have narrowed it down to him.:guess Now I just need to get the $$. I'm thinking of borrowing against my Dh's 401k. Any thoughts?:think :banana I LOVE this banana!!! Thanks