BigFatLoser

Oh man. Youve either got a very happy hubby, or you're beatin em off with a stick! Look at that booty!!!

Oh man. Youve either got a very happy hubby, or you're beatin em off with a stick! Look at that booty!!!

You guys attacking the OP don't realize that you majorly put people on the defensive. Come on. When there is 3 or 4 o you coming at one person, what do you expect them to do? It's basic psychology. You seem to have no idea that this is what you all do allll the time. It's a bit much.
She posted something she felt. They're her feelings. No one else's. And no one has the right to jump in and try to bully her into feeling any different. Just as a lot of you told me...if you don't like what someone says, then don't read it. Just move on. Take your own advice.
Hopefully this doesn't happen, but not I'm expecting a gang war against me. We shall see.

There is a way to say things and a way not to say things. You can be honest and helpful without attacking. I think that is what Kristin was saying. No fighting. Please.

Original Poster. In this case, you.

You guys attacking the OP don't realize that you majorly put people on the defensive. Come on. When there is 3 or 4 o you coming at one person, what do you expect them to do? It's basic psychology. You seem to have no idea that this is what you all do allll the time. It's a bit much.
She posted something she felt. They're her feelings. No one else's. And no one has the right to jump in and try to bully her into feeling any different. Just as a lot of you told me...if you don't like what someone says, then don't read it. Just move on. Take your own advice.
Hopefully this doesn't happen, but not I'm expecting a gang war against me. We shall see.

You guys attacking the OP don't realize that you majorly put people on the defensive. Come on. When there is 3 or 4 o you coming at one person, what do you expect them to do? It's basic psychology. You seem to have no idea that this is what you all do allll the time. It's a bit much.
She posted something she felt. They're her feelings. No one else's. And no one has the right to jump in and try to bully her into feeling any different. Just as a lot of you told me...if you don't like what someone says, then don't read it. Just move on. Take your own advice.
Hopefully this doesn't happen, but not I'm expecting a gang war against me. We shall see.

Oy. Ok. Listen.
I hear you. But you're losin it a little bit, sweety. I think you should take a step back and re-evaluate. It can't hurt.

Oy. Ok. Listen.
I hear you. But you're losin it a little bit, sweety. I think you should take a step back and re-evaluate. It can't hurt.

Oy. Ok. Listen.
I hear you. But you're losin it a little bit, sweety. I think you should take a step back and re-evaluate. It can't hurt.

Sadly, AddryW, it appears so......

Afreakinmen

I have not been on this forum for long and have found some really great support and ideas here. I understand about the "train wreck" and have seen some threads like this.....I would have to say my biggest frustration with the forum is that many threads get bogged down with people bantering back and forth and you have sort through all the bs to find solid answers - many times it really looks like these users should be utilitizing the chat function rather than the threads.....I am not criticizing - just observing - and I will continue to sort through threads and unsubscribe when my email gets blown up with silliness.

Frozen yogurt and popcorn. I am not trying sweets of any kind. I did poke my tongue in the top of a cupcake and then ran away.

There is a way to say things and a way not to say things. You can be honest and helpful without attacking. I think that is what Kristin was saying. No fighting. Please.

She didn't say she wanted a flat milkshake. She asked hot to flatten a. Diet. Coke. Relax

Be nice love. If this is easy for you, then that is awesome. It isn't easy for everyone. And what the OP is asking isn't insane. My doctor says patients can drink diet pop as long as they let it go flat at 2 weeks.

I just hate how I was, even anonymously, being bullied about my private message. Even if no one else know it was me you all were talking about, I did. Listen, I'm a fat girl. I know bullying. We all do. It hurts like hell. I didn't expect it here. I didn't call her out publicly because I don't bully. What y'all are doing isn't ok. We should all know better and it sucks.
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Lol! You're awesome.
I dated a narcissist once. They're the WORST. You're lucky you're out of that mess! God for you!

I think that a burger every rare occasion is ok if you can handle it. I mean.... We only have one life. I personally don't want to live on Protein shakes and eggs my whole life. Everything in moderation. You ate a whole burger! Savor it. But don't get out of control. That's just my VERY humble opinion from a newbie!!!
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I'm newly sleeved, so I haven't gotten to the smaller size clothes yet, but listen...... I am so excited to not be sad about shopping another summer. So excited.
In the winter, I had ONE outfit. One. Stretchy pants and a long hoody. That's what I wore in the rare times I left the house. I hated going out, too, because of how ugly I felt. In the warmer months, I wore jeans and a tshirt. One outfit. I'm so excited also to wear cute things for my fiancé. Even though he says that he loves me regardless, I just know that men love to be proud of being with a sexy lady! Lol. And he deserves the best. And... He's hot. I snagged him when I was thinner. He's a sexy man. And I want to be his sexy woman.
Stay strong. It's hard, but the shopping depression will soon be a thing of the past. Xo!

That's so odd because I had the exact same pre op response. I went into myself and didn't feel like talking to anyone. I just wanted to go about my business quietly. I think maybe we were mentally preparing? Trying to come to terms with he enormity of what we are about to do? I dont know. But you're certainly not alone in this.
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