grayeybeauty

Hell being a female I'm corporate alone is hard...

I didn't have the surgery because I wanted to be skinny or had an issue with food...I had it because I was sick and in and out of the hospital got ten yrs..all the meds where making it worse and putting on weight...had no energy for anything and having a bad heart isn't fun..I loved me at any size...but didn't want to die by the time I was 50 so I make a choice to get the weight off fast so I can get the energy to do what I need to do for me..I don't have a problem with skinny women I don't want to be skinny..if I don't lose anymore weight I'm happy with that..as long as I get to see grandkids in 10 yrs it has been worth it... If I've given the impression that I hate skinny women I don't...u was ranting pissed actually because well it was mean and I needed to vent before I said something to her..so if I have offended any one that wasn't my intent...and no you didn't offend me....

I was sleeve on 9/4 and had one last weekend turkey without the bun and it just sat there ...worse thing I could have done to myself...do.t do it..the thought of it is making me sick

Thanks I wasn't sure hoe long I was to keep it in the nurse didn't really say...I had my sleeve on the 4th and today is my birthday!!@ bitter sweet!!

I confess that after reading everyone's post I want hug all of you and cry because I've felt the sane way at one point.
I confess that I wish I had never done this everyday my first month and u cry myself to sleep.< /p>
I confess that did this for the man I thought I would spend the rest of my life with only to have him tell me he needs time to get his **** together afterwards.
I confess that I can't wait to see my ex and his new wife face this Xmas..not that she is pretty just thin.
I also confess that my sex drive is through the roof and now I'm flipping single..
I confess that I don't always eat or eat right or exercise like I should.
I confess that I love the look on people faces when I walk in a room.
I'm sorry I went on a rant but it felt good!!

I confess that after reading everyone's post I want hug all of you and cry because I've felt the sane way at one point.
I confess that I wish I had never done this everyday my first month and u cry myself to sleep.< /p>
I confess that did this for the man I thought I would spend the rest of my life with only to have him tell me he needs time to get his **** together afterwards.
I confess that I can't wait to see my ex and his new wife face this Xmas..not that she is pretty just thin.
I also confess that my sex drive is through the roof and now I'm flipping single..
I confess that I don't always eat or eat right or exercise like I should.
I confess that I love the look on people faces when I walk in a room.
I'm sorry I went on a rant but it felt good!!

Delta girl...yep their pretty awesome girls....if they where a lot younger I probably wouldn't have...lol honestly even if they where bother against it and I want to ..I still would just did it out of respect for them..lok

You know its just a date and nothing may come out of it ...and if it does then awesome...I've had crappy relationships in the past with men in general...so if a hott 27 year old successful younger man wants to take me to dinner( that I won't and can't eat) lol why egoism I worry about it....
My oldest is a lil whatever about it but my 19 yr old says why not...so why the Hell not

You know its just a date and nothing may come out of it ...and if it does then awesome...I've had crappy relationships in the past with men in general...so if a hott 27 year old successful younger man wants to take me to dinner( that I won't and can't eat) lol why egoism I worry about it....
My oldest is a lil whatever about it but my 19 yr old says why not...so why the Hell not

MGM....no sweetie you didn't..Hell it takes a lot to offending me..I knew you where kidding.....

He is more mature then then any other 27 yr old I've know ..because my daughter is 23 is my issue..but we can talk for hours and have for the past 3 days about anything and everything...he owns his own business..home and has a masters in marketing and doing very well...then what's the problem...he's flipping 27...Hell but he is so damn hott...thanks everyone..

I confess that after reading everyone's post I want hug all of you and cry because I've felt the sane way at one point.
I confess that I wish I had never done this everyday my first month and u cry myself to sleep.< /p>
I confess that did this for the man I thought I would spend the rest of my life with only to have him tell me he needs time to get his **** together afterwards.
I confess that I can't wait to see my ex and his new wife face this Xmas..not that she is pretty just thin.
I also confess that my sex drive is through the roof and now I'm flipping single..
I confess that I don't always eat or eat right or exercise like I should.
I confess that I love the look on people faces when I walk in a room.
I'm sorry I went on a rant but it felt good!!

Ok I'm 12 weeks out and I feel awesome lost 53lbs so far...nothing bothers me I can eat whatever I want..energy like never before...so here is my question...is it normal to have such a high sex drive...I'm thinking something is wrong with me..lol

Ok I will agree to your point. My point is to treat that person as equally, verbally nasty since that seemed to be her M.O. An eye for an eye I guess!
Also, I want to make a while different point because its a pet peeve of mine....nothing against you of course. To me, the definition of "reverse discrimination" means "the opposite of discrimination" which means no discrimination occurred. The media has perpetuated this phrase. If you discriminate against someone whether its fat on fat, fat on skinny, or skinny on fat...it's discrimination. Where the heck the word " reverse" was incorrectly added to create this asinine phrase is beyond me. I hate the media continues to utilize this phrase as proper. Ok I will get off my grammar box now...

Yeah I pretty much got you were talking about one chick at work that was being a twit. Not sure how your rant turned into let rant about what she called the wonder twit at her work. So now I feel the need to rant about the ranting of ppl offended by you calling the wonder twit at work skinny o crap I just confused myself what were we talking about? I hear your rant and I choose not to get offended about what you called the wondered twit at work. It's your rant own it and you were still nicer then I would have been trust me lmao.

I didn't have the surgery because I wanted to be skinny or had an issue with food...I had it because I was sick and in and out of the hospital got ten yrs..all the meds where making it worse and putting on weight...had no energy for anything and having a bad heart isn't fun..I loved me at any size...but didn't want to die by the time I was 50 so I make a choice to get the weight off fast so I can get the energy to do what I need to do for me..I don't have a problem with skinny women I don't want to be skinny..if I don't lose anymore weight I'm happy with that..as long as I get to see grandkids in 10 yrs it has been worth it... If I've given the impression that I hate skinny women I don't...u was ranting pissed actually because well it was mean and I needed to vent before I said something to her..so if I have offended any one that wasn't my intent...and no you didn't offend me....

LOL....you ladies just made my day better......bad day nothing to do with her...if I had low self esteem her comment might have made all my hard work pointless...but I was fabulous 50lbs ago and even more so now...

I have to say that before this we had no issues....laughed talked sat with each other during breaks and meetings....not sure what her deal was today...have to say I do have one of those assessing that you can sit a plate on...not ashamed of it love it...not my fault she looks like olive oil....lol...

I have to say that before this we had no issues....laughed talked sat with each other during breaks and meetings....not sure what her deal was today...have to say I do have one of those assessing that you can sit a plate on...not ashamed of it love it...not my fault she looks like olive oil....lol...

LOL....you ladies just made my day better......bad day nothing to do with her...if I had low self esteem her comment might have made all my hard work pointless...but I was fabulous 50lbs ago and even more so now...