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Looking good! Same surgery date as you!!! Congrats on your loss so far!

Hopefully, it's your body adjusting to all the changes. I am on birth control and even with birth control I had irregular periods about every other week after surgery. Just over 4 months out, I think my body has finally adjusted and synched back up with my birth control.

I would say if you don't have "second thoughts" or are not anxious, you probably aren't normal. I was comfortable with my decision and didn't think my surgery date would come fast enough. BUT those last few days before surgery I felt the same way.....even thought about walking out of the hospital once I was there.....until I spoke with my surgeon right before surgery and he reassured me that it was the right choice and he would take care of me!

So, I didn't reach my goal. I had set what I would consider an ambitious goal in hopes I would get there. Struggled the last month and just when I got in the routine of working out, I was hit with a terrible cold and sore throat that knocked me down for about a week. Getting to work was about all I could do. Am I disappointed I didn't reach my goal? Sure. Am I going to let it stop me? No. While the scale might not have been going down, my clothes got baggier and I was able to buy some more regular women's department clothes instead of plus size!!! Challenge SW: 214.2 CW: 200.7 Challenge Weight Loss: 13.5

So me! Yesterday my mom and I went shopping because she needed some help picking out some new clothes. She shops in the plus size department (she is a banding slowly making her way down) and I was in the regular department. I felt like the people were looking at me like "get back to the fat girl clothes"....even the sales associates looked a little differently at me. I did have one sales associate ask if she could get me started in a dressing room, I politely declined because I had to stick to tradition.....side-by-side dressing rooms with my mom so we could try on and then evaluate each other's outfits. Thankfully we both were able to make out on some amazing sales!!!

need more holes in your belt (because it's too big!), you might be a VSG patient!

Thank you all for your responses and thoughts. I think I like "hiding" behind my clothes. I have gotten rid of the baggiest things, but still have some that I wear. It's more of an issue when it comes to wearing a shirt from the regular department instead of the plus size department. I'm also actually afraid of the attention.....I like to fade into the background. I know I have to get over this issue or I'm not going to make it very far in the professional world!!

I had surgery April 24th and I'm down nearly 60 pounds. As a professional, I have had no choice but to update my wardrobe. But, I cannot bring myself to wear any of my new shirts to work. I try them on, they look fine, but when I go to wear them to work, I look in the mirror and convince myself that it's too tight or doesn't look right on me. I think it is because I still cannot believe I am down nearly 60 pounds and find comfort in my "baggy clothes." I look in the mirror, go "wow" that girl looks good....and then, I realize it is me and I'm like, no that girl looks bad! I'm to the point, where I almost want to hire an image consultant to shop with me so I can see that I am able to wear these clothes!....it's that bad! Anyone else feeling me on this one?

I know. But it seems like my body is like, what are you doing and is completely comfortable in the 200s. I know I'll get there. Believe me, I am more than happy with the loss to date, but am so looking forward to seeing a number that starts with a "1".

I too cannot wait to get under 200. I seem to have stalled once I hit 205. I know that I'll get there, but it seems like my body like "no way, I've been over 200 for years and you want me to be under that number."....I know it'll get there and I'm hoping my new workout routine makes it much SOONER rather than later. Stalls happen on the scale and they suck. Very thankful for the weight I have lost so far.

I get motion sickness. They gave me some stuff for the nausea and a patch. Had some nausea the day after surgery they controlled with something in my IV. Once I took the patch off, however, it seems my nausea went away. Didn't have any after I got home. Hopefully you fare well!

Struggling here because I feel like I've hit a stall that's never ending. Frustrated, but more people are noticing the weight loss....just have to remind myself, the scale is going to move. Not sure I'll meet my Labor Day goal by Labor Day, but I will keep pushing! Challenge SW: 214.2 CW: 201.2 Challenge Weight Loss: 13 Challenge GW: 190 Challenge Weight Loss Goal: 24.2 Challenge Weight Loss to go: 11.2 Water - check. Protein - check. Still letting in some cheats, which I need to control MUCH better! Starting working out at the Y!