I have been a big girl since @ least 2000. After getting pregnant with nine year old it all went to hell from there. Once when she was three we were taking a bath together and she said mommy we are mermaids but ur the fat mermaid. A three year old tells it like it is. As a administrator for a Family Practice office I new I would never advance in my career if I was fat and yes it is against the law, but it happens everyday.
Sad part is I used to be the girl in high school that made fun of fat people and swore I would never be fat. I hurt a lot of feelings and have prayed for forgiveness daily, but good ole KARMA bit in the ass and I too became this huge fat person.
My teen age son was teased by friends with the your momma so fat jokes and i was devasted for him.
My breaking point was my boss ( a doctor ) making fun of me. I was tired of being the fat boss and the room going silent when I walked in and at least now when the room goes silent it is because I am the boss not the huge fat boss.
I graduate May 10, 2012 with my MBA but knew no one would ever hire me being a lard ass so I had surg April 10th and have never looked back.