KevinsBabyGirl85

She also keeps drinking alcoholic drinks after she knows she isn't supposed to....she had her 1st drink just 3 weeks after surgery because her hubby's aunts who all have had wls told her it was ok but they all have had complications! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

Omg you look amazing!!! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

Looking good!!! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

I tried to talk things out with her she refused to talk to me! Even told me excuses as to why she was mad at me! Now she's said things about me I will never forget! She's deleted and blocked me from Facebook and changed her phone number so there's no way to contact her now! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

I think the reason is based on pure jealousy even though she swears she isn't jealous of course that's what she's goin to say! I'm really spoiled by both my mom and my hubby and she doesnt get spoiled like I do and so I think that is what brought it all on!!! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

38 lbs is a lot of weight in 12 weeks be proud of yourself!!! That's 38 lbs you couldn't loose on your own!! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

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I personally have been through it with my so called best friend! We have known each other since we were 15 and we are now 27! We went through everything together including the whole process of getting surgery I had my surgery in January and then she had her surgery in April and we've been there for each other and supported each other until most recently....I figured it was just because she was having PMS but the things she did and said to me and about me were just wrong! Everyone has told me she did what she did because she was jealous but I feel she has nothing to be jealous over but then I got to thinking and ALOT of people would be jealous over what I've got...I'm the youngest in my family so my mom gives me most everything I want...STILL! My husband gives me as much as he can even though he is the only one working! He doesn't make as much money as my friends husband but he is still able to buy me things and spoil me and my friend doesn't have that! Her mom died when she was just 2 and she doesnt have someone to give her money or spoil her the way that I am spoiled! But I've been there for her like no one else has been and she still decided to treat me like crap! She made the comment that I wear my pants too tight and because of that my fat flab hangs over my pants and she said its gross and also texted me when I posted a before and after pic on fb and said she couldn't believe I posted a pic with my nasty arm flab on fb for everyone to see!! Then she tried to say I went on her fb and adds her fb friends even though I don't know them although I do because I went to school with them when I was younger! She also claimed that I switched gyms because she did, although she asked me to switch gyms so we could work out together and also claims I stole her tattoo idea and got the tattoo even though she was pissed because I was getting the same thing as her when we both chose to get matching tatts because we were best friends! She has since deleted and blocked me from facebook and changed her phone number! So certainly having weight loss surgery, loosing weight, or any change in your life can make best friends become enemies or make people that weren't your friend to begin with can become your friends....and sometimes people just dont have a filter between their brain and mouth and say things they don't think about first! I feel bad for anyone who has had to deal with the crap I've dealt with recently.....and I still hope in some way that my friend will realize that she is wrong in what she did and apologize to me for what she did! But some people never change and some will never grow up! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

Yeah some people have no consideration for other peoples feelings and don't realize that their words really have an impact on someone the way they do! I'm so sorry that happened to you! xhugsx Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

Omg that is awesome!! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

Ok I have a question I went to the gyno today and they took out my IUD and put me on birth control my question is will the birth control be effective because of me having gastric? I don't want to get pregnant after working my butt off to loose the 80 lbs I have and I am not getting all the nutrients for myself I don't want to have an unhealthy pregnancy! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

Happy fathers day to all the dads!! I hope you all have a wonderful day! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

Glad to hear it was the Water and not something more serious! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk

Beautiful before and after!!!

From what I know they have to be consecutive

Haha I just read this.....too funny!!!

Dumping can also cause your blood pressure to drop suddenly and make you feel ill and dizzy too! I found that out the hard way I dumped from drinking a sip of soda! And also decaf tea with truvia made me dump also!

Hope you feel better soon girl!

Welcome to the forum family!!

Oh my I'm so sorry! Is this the result of surgery or an ongoing thing? I'm so sorry my thoughts are with you!! Praying your healed soon!

Yes I get it all the time normally when I haven't had a bowel movement in a couple days or when I over do it at the gym!