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I'm 2 weeks post today and gained 1#. This is frustrating.

Be creative with chicken. Buy one of those healthy recipe books. You can do so much with chicken. Fried is not really an option but once in a blue wont hurt. Good Luck.

My bf and I are going to make 5 years in Feb. Together we both gained weight but you know how it goes the guy looks good but we girls just look fat. I feel weird with public displays of affection because i feel ppl looking and are thinking ewww why is he with her. And he tells my that I am beautiful all the time but it is so hard to believe.

He's excited for my decision and he is supporting me 100% but i am terrified that things will change after surgery. Either he wont feel attracted to me anymore, or my flabby skin will disgust him or he'll be upset when i want to go out more , or he'll become jealous of new extra attn.

We both have been through ups and downs and i feel like this will be another test in our relationship. What does not kill you will make you stronger and you never know until you try it. You need to love yourself first before you love others!

Hope you find yourself! And he will love you regardless! Good Luck!

That's beautiful!!! Your lucky to have each other!!! Wish you two the best and congrats on one of the best decisions ever!

I wonder if he or she has a cup holder lol

The car behind must be dying to honk the horn! lol

Good luck... it took me two years to actually think about it. And i'm finally done. Tomorrow I will submit all my paperwork. Hopefully I get approved. On my first visit I weighed 245lbs and now I weigh 255lbs.

People told me the same thing, your not that big or do it on your own, but they don't know the struggles we have for years. And plus they are the same people that will tell us we look great when we start to lose the weight.

I wish you the best of luck!!!!