sugarmamma7

Thanks guys for all your wonderful comments. My surgery is July 26 and I only have to do a three day liquid diet no food at all lol Thats going to be tough but bring it on I can do this thanks to all of you support!

Hope you feel better soon! congrats on your sleeve!

Thanks guys for the wonderful support aned comments I knew I could count on you all to cheer me up! I am not going to let anyone else bring me down this is a second chance at life and I am going to take it a embrace it. You guys rock! Thank you!

Ah sweetie that sucks hope things turn out ok Keep going and never give up on your dreams! :0)

thanks susan I needed that

So all I have heard since the time I have decided to have this surgery is so mnay comments that are negative. I have heard "You look just fine" or "You don't look that big" Or why can't you try to loose the weight with diet and exercise. or "I knew someone's cousin's friend that died from weight loss surgery." I have even heard why don't you try hypnosis from my own parents! My husband is the only one who supports me on my decision because he lives with me and know what battles I fight everyday. I have gout, I hurt all the time. My back and knees hurt. I can't even find a bra that fits me because the band around my back is so huge. Why wouldn't these people support me if they knew it would make my life so much better? I can't even run without my belly slapping against my knees. I just don't understand. I want to live not to just be alive! Thanks for letting me vent. It is obvious that people's comments have taken a toll on me. Their negativity is definitly pulling me down and making me question my own decision for weight loss surgery. I have four shildren of my own and three step kids. One previous husband who has passed away mabye that is why some people are fearful of me dying and they don't want me to go through with the surgery, but if I don't I won't be here for the long run. My mom is just like me she has diabetes and is in pain with artritis and diabetes. I know I will go through with it, but I battle with the question of making the right decision because of these people putting these thoughts in my head. Has anyone else experinced this? How did you deal with people's comments and what did you say to them? Most of all thanks for letting me vent. I love the support I get on this site you guys are amazing thank you for your time :0) Also my pre opt apt is in the morning and I will find out what kind of pre opt diet I am going to be on. The docs office hasn't really told me yet. I guess I will find out tommorow. I am excited, but scared at the same time. Again thank you all in advance.

You inspire me! :0)

How fun! Congrats to you have a great time!

I enjoyed your story so much thank you for sharing :0)

hope you feel better here is to a fast recovery!

I hope you feel better and get used to the pre opt diet. Sending some positive vibes your way :0)

So glad to hear that you are ok happy for you congrats on your sugery!

Yeah glad you are doing so well and sending love your way

You are an excellant writer I feel like I am reading a novel I enjoyed reading this so much :0)

Congrats hope you feel better soon! Here is to a speedy recovery :0)

Congrats so happy you are doing well here's to a speedy recovery

You look great! Absolutley stunning!

You look absolutely amazing!

great job keep up the good work

You look amazing! So pretty!

hope things come out ok and you can have surgery good luck to you

Wondering how you are doing... hope you are ok...

I am glad you are feeling better! Hope you have a speedy recovery!

Welcome sweetie good luck to you

congrats hope you feel better soon