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I am a former college football player and power weightlifter. My goal is to begin weightlifting and to lose 100 pounds using one of the Bariatric tools.

My Doctor recommended Gastric-Bypass due to my medical and lifestyle conditions.

After research and attending both LAP-BAND<sup>®</sup> and Gastri-Bypass courses, I am still not sure on which surgery to recieve.

I would appreciate any comments or suggestions on which surgery I should have and any personal experiences. Thank you!

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My first question would be "What has been your experience with weight loss attempts in the past?"

Have you ever tried losing weight on your own?

If so what were the results, did you not lose any weight or did you lose weight then gain it back?

The reason I think this is important is that with the band it does take some effort on your part. You will need to eat the proper foods and eat them the proper way. The band does do its part, keeping you from being hungry and when eating the right foods, keeping you from eating too much.

Some people have never dieted in their life and/or just don't have enough personal discipline to control their eating. These types of people likely would never be able to make the band work to its fullest potential, if at all and might do better with bypass.

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I have had 10 knee surgeries since 2001. Before that, I weighed between 220 and 230 with a body fat percentage of 14. I was always a "gym rat" and ate 5 to 6 balanced meals per day totally 2000 calories. I did try different diets or eating patterns and had various success. Since 2001, my knee replacements have limited cardio and have gained 100 pounds. My concern is having the Lap-Band surgery then if not successful in losing the 100 pounds having to get a By-Pass surgery. I do have a sweet tooth which will need to be reduced with the Lap-Band.

Thanks again for your reply and good luck.:biggrin:

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I know people who have bands and several who had gastric bypass. Of the 4 people I know personally who had bypass, only 1 is still skinny. That's my mom and she's sick (vomiting or diarrhea) every day of her life.

Some folks don't do well on the band, but unlike gastric, the band is adjustable so you get a longer window of restriction, and it's reversible. Once they take part of your intestines out with bypass, you're stuck with it.

I think your plan sounds like a good one, try the band first and see where it gets you.

Good luck.

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I have had 10 knee surgeries since 2001. Before that, I weighed between 220 and 230 with a body fat percentage of 14. I was always a "gym rat" and ate 5 to 6 balanced meals per day totally 2000 calories. I did try different diets or eating patterns and had various success. Since 2001, my knee replacements have limited cardio and have gained 100 pounds. My concern is having the Lap-Band surgery then if not successful in losing the 100 pounds having to get a By-Pass surgery. I do have a sweet tooth which will need to be reduced with the Lap-Band.

Thanks again for your reply and good luck.:biggrin:

It sounds like you have the experience with dieting and that is what I was getting at. Some people come into the Lap Band not ever having tried dieting and unwilling/unable to put forth much effort thinking the band will do it all for them...In my opinon those ones should never have been approved for banding in the first place.

Look at your doctors program and ask yourself if that is something you can do. It is hard at first, you have to get through the pre-op and post-op diets then work with sheer willpower until you get your first fill. It takes an average of four fills until the band really kicks in. You have to deal with your head hunger but the band will help keep you satisfied on a small amount of food. You of course also have to re-train yourself to eat slowly. But the pros are that the surgery is much less invasive, the band is adjustable so you have control over your weight loss, and if there are any problems it is reversible. It was hard but I have absolutely no regrets. Seven months out and I have lost more than 3/4 of my excess weight and plan to be at goal within 9 months.

I have seen many more people get bypass first then turn around and get Lap band than I have the other way around. But you are the only one that can know for sure which is best for you.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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