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I wanna talk about my favorite toys: Action figures. The best ones - what's that? Oh! Sorry, wrong type of toy.

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The only big toy we ever bought, had a silicon sleeve in sparkly neon orange, over the inner workings. You could take that bit off.

I found it in Eliza's kinder bag. She was taking it for show and tell, she thought it was one of Daddy's fishing lures.

That one went in the bin. It wasnt any good anyway.

Plain there's all kind of things you can do with a GI Joe. Too bad he doesnt have batteries!

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The only big toy we ever bought, had a silicon sleeve in sparkly neon orange, over the inner workings. You could take that bit off.

I found it in Eliza's kinder bag. She was taking it for show and tell, she thought it was one of Daddy's fishing lures.

That one went in the bin. It wasnt any good anyway.

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If a woman only ever gets one thing, I think it should be a bullet (or a double bullet!)! We have both and the double one comes with a wonderful soft cock ring where you can slip one in the front to stimulate the clit and the other in the back to stimulate him! Whoever invented the bullet....Thank You!

In fact, it is the present I buy for my good friends. I recently found a wireless, waterproof version that has a remote that is useful from 25 ft away. I haven't had the pleasure of getting one for myself (yet) but now all my friends remind me when their birthdays come up. LOL

I tried to talk one of my friends into slipping it into her boyfriends pants pocket and try activating it when he got up to sing kareoke but she wouldn't. Oh well. She did advise me later it was a wonderful gift.

Froggi you came up with a fun thread.:crying:

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I changed my mind and I am deleting my post

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Example of one:

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Just do a search on google or something of gspot toys. You'll find plenty of websites to order from.

On Amazon just search sex, or sex toys etc. And look through them for your preference.:Banane37:

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See, that is what I talked about in the other thread!!!! My DH has a slight curve to his and I said I think that is why I am always able to climax with him whereas I was never able to before with anyone else.

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I used to have one of those rabbits like on Sex and the City, but it tore up and I haven't gotten another one, but I LOVED it!!

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your gspot its roughly 1.5 to 2 inches inside your vagina on the front wall. You can feel it, its about the size of a wallnut and is firm yet squisht. Check out www.nitetimetoys.com theres a product on there called the G-Vibe, I've heard great results from it and its SO cheap. Also, use coupon code LBT and get free shipping on ANY Order no matter what size.

Hope you find somethign worth checking out!

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your gspot its roughly 1.5 to 2 inches inside your vagina on the front wall. You can feel it, its about the size of a wallnut and is firm yet squisht. Check out www.nitetimetoys.com theres a product on there called the G-Vibe, I've heard great results from it and its SO cheap. Also, use coupon code LBT and get free shipping on ANY Order no matter what size.

Hope you find somethign worth checking out!

Awesome!!! Lauren knows what she's talking about...she works at a porn shop. :biggrin:

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LOL You remembered!

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Of course I did. :biggrin:

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Sex Toy Materials

Sex toys come in a diverse variety of materials and with so much to choose from, it may be overwhelming if you're still learning. Knowing what to look for will improve your toy experience by leaps and bounds. Learn about the pros and cons of each type of material so that you can choose sex toys that best suit your needs.

Silicone

Silicone toys are usually high quality, durable and shareable - but you do have to fork out some extra money for these highly sought features. This type of material is ultra popular for a number of other reasons. Silicone toys are smooth, soft and non-porous. They can reach and maintain body temperature that makes for a realistic and comfortable sexual experience. Being non-porous is ideal for a toy that can be shared between partners.

Silicone also allows for easy clean up: it can be washed with soap and Water or sterilized in boiling Water. You can even run it through a dishwasher cycle (with the exception of silicone vibrators with electronic components inside). Silicone is a soft, yet strong, material that can have a very long life span if it’s taken care of. Silicone is ideal material to consider because it is hypoallergenic, non toxic and easiest to sterilize - that’s why it’s used in a wide range of toys.

Rubber/Latex

Firmer than silicone, rubber toys are popular because of their lower cost and versatility. They have the one-up on their jelly counterpart because there is less probability to encounter that unpleasant plastic smell. On the other hand, rubber toys are much firmer than jelly, which could result in a less realistic experience. They're porous - so no sharing with a partner without a condom on it.

Rubber toys may cause allergic reactions due to sensitivity to latex. They've also been known to wear out faster than their silicone or jelly counterparts. The clincher for rubber is cost effectiveness without the stink.

Plastic

The general nature of this material is that it's hard and non-flexible. The advantage, however, is that if you like the feel of a strong vibe, plastic is the way to go. Plastic is ideal for transmitting vibrations, compared to materials like jelly that absorb it. Therefore, the stimulation from a plastic vibrator is going to be more intense than that from another type of material. This explains why plastic is more popular for clit teasers and vibrators rather than for thrusting toys. It's quite easy to clean too.

Plastic vibrators are well suited for direct clitoral as well as both internal and external stimulation. Cleaning is a breeze and requires only a wet soapy washcloth, sex toy sanitizer, or a tissue soaked in rubbing alcohol. As most plastic vibrators are not waterproof, they should not normally be washed under running water. Check out waterproof vibrators if you want one that you could use in the bath or shower.

Jelly

Jelly toys are popular because of advantages like low cost, flexibility and variety. It may not feel totally real, but the squishy factor is decent and if you use a good amount of lube, you can really enjoy yourself.

Jelly toys come in a variety of wild shapes and styles; you can stock up on a bunch because it's affordable.

The other side of the story is that jelly toys can impart varying levels of fairly offensive smells and they are sticky to the touch. They are porous so you shouldn’t share them with your partner (without a condom, or unless you are both tested for STDs) and you may just want to stick with rinsing them under warm soapy water. They may also irritate a sensitive vagina.

Jelly will degrade if exposed to a non-water based lubricant or rubbing alcohol, so always use a water based (NOT oil) lubricant. Jelly toys will take on mold and bacteria if they’re exposed to too much moisture in the air so take great care in how you store them.

Nu-Skin

Nu-Skin is a sexy new material that is proliferating in the sex toy market because of the realism it adds to your toys. It's known by a couple of different names like Cyberskin or Ultra Skin, and is the closest you can get to the look and feel of real skin. It feels soft when you caress it, it’s not sticky like jelly and the visual detailing that can be achieved is impressive. The cost, however, does reflect the benefits.

The other major consideration for nu-skin is the care. It is porous, so you have to be careful cleaning it; you should follow the same washing instructions suggested for Jelly. You also need to be careful as it is delicate and known to attract lint and dust. It may also require some additional care and caution when storing; keep it stored in a lint free sock or a satin satchel.

Glass, Acrylic & Metal

Glass and Acrylic toys are durable and ultra modern. These types of materials allow for easy cleaning and are non-porous which is, again, great for hygienic purposes.

Glass Dildos can be visually pleasing, but make sure to get a product made of durable glass. The material can be lightweight but is best suited for those looking for a firm toy. Lots of lube will definitely add to a slick and sensual experience. The surface is smooth and is something that you'll actually want people to find on your bed stand.

Acrylic is a form of special plastic; it can be very beautiful as it has visual properties similar to glass.

Metal dildos are similar to plastic ones, in that they have a hard, usually smooth exterior and are easy to clean.

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Sex Toy Care

From Box to Bedroom to Pleasure Chest

As with all things we love, we try to take care of them as best as we can... and your favorite sex toys are no exception. Learn how to show your toys the love they need, so they can love you right back...

Whenever you make the decision to purchase a sex toy, you have high hopes in terms of what you expect from it as well as its ability to withstand regular use. If it's a great toy, you can rely on its performance - and when it's not, you’ll be disappointed that you wasted money and spontaneous opportunities. We’d like you to avoid any downers and get the maximum performance from your sex toys by checking out our Care Checklist. These tips in no way intend to replace the recommendations from the manufacturer – it is highly recommended you consult these before using your toy.

From the Box

The first thing you need to do is check for allergies to the material(s) used. There are enough toys out on the market that can accommodate just about anyone’s needs! Materials like glass, silicone and plastic give people with sensitivities excellent options to choose from. You may want to use condoms if you’re sharing your toy in order to mitigate the chances of exchanging bacteria or fluids with your sexual partner; if you have a latex sensitivity you can obtain condoms made from polyurethane.

The second thing to do is give it a good wash. Make sure you follow the manufacturer’s recommendations before using your toy for the first time. Follow the steps to sanitize and/or pre-treat your toy. As well, try to make a habit of always following up with another wash right after using it to avoid bacteria building up. As you will want to avoid getting Water into the internal electronic compartments, wrap a towel around that part of it to protect it from getting wet.

Next, inspect your toy before you use it! When all you want to do is rip into the box and jump on it, you need to put on the brakes and do the following things: check for discoloration, tears or damage to any of the components; inspect the battery pack for leaks or corrosion; and make sure wires have proper connections with the main body of the toy and check to see whether the unit operates properly when you put in batteries e.g. does it turn on, does it have a range of vibe, etc. That way, if there is a problem, you might have a hope of returning it.

To the Bedroom

When you're introducing sex toys into your repertoire, make sure that you use the right batteries. Sex toys are made up of small parts and those parts can burn out easily; running your toys for extended periods of time can contribute to their demise. An overheating toy could be a real mood spoiler. It is a good idea to use the 'no name' brand batteries with your toys. Often the brand name batteries deliver power that is beyond your toy’s capacity and can eventually short them out. Try to avoid toys that require expensive hard-to-find "button" type batteries. The upside is that no-name 'AA' & 'AAA' batteries are cheap... picking up a few packages at the dollar store is convenient, affordable and you’ll always have fresh batteries on hand. You can bypass the battery business by investing in a rechargeable toy. That way, you can have less impact on the environment and more in your bedroom.

Use the right lube to maximize performance. Toys and lube go hand in hand. Even though you might produce a lot of your own natural lubricant, have a bottle of lube on hand for more comfortable extended sessions. Water-based lube is good to have around for practically every type of toy. It's got a pleasant consistency and rinses easily, but the downside is that it dries out rather quickly. Try silicone-based lube for longer staying power but NEVER use it with either nu-skin or silicone toys!!

Waterproofing is another point to consider. Make sure to check our featured reviews as well as the manufacturer’s instructions to see what level of Water exposure your toy is capable of handling. Always check that all the components are closed properly.

To Your Pleasure Chest

Proper Cleaning and Storage is crucial to proper sex toy care. To improve your toy’s lifespan, keep it in a cool, dark and enclosed place away from pets and children. Why not get a fun box to store them in? It'll be much more appealing and you'll take pride in your wonderful collection. Remove your batteries before you start washing them and wash your toy before and after every use. Never store batteries in your toy because they might leak, rust or turn your toy on accidentally. It might not be the first thing people want to do after a pleasure session, but washing your toys after every use will elevate your desire to keep using your toy. It's simply good hygiene – special things sometimes require special care. You can usually get away with rinsing with warm water when you use water-based lubes but some types of lube require gentle soap, specialty toy cleaner or even rubbing alcohol. Follow any instructions that come with your toy. For drying, try to air-dry your toy overnight or dab with a lint-free towel. The key here is to not throw it into the closet while it’s still damp!

Voila. These helpful tips will really make you appreciate the finer points of owning a sex toy and allow you to get the best possible performance out of them.

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